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Konyap

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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
#22525146 - 11/14/15 10:10 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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a girl not looking at me would make me nervous i mean you're a grown adult you should be able to say some kinky stuff at this point eyes are the window to the soul, I love looking a girl in the eyes to see the reflection and hearing her moan, cheer me on
a girl looking away just makes me think my dick is hittin gher cervix or that she really wasn't attracted to me when we started having sex
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Crystal G



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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Konyap]
#22525663 - 11/14/15 11:22 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Konyap said: a girl not looking at me would make me nervous i mean you're a grown adult you should be able to say some kinky stuff at this point eyes are the window to the soul, I love looking a girl in the eyes to see the reflection and hearing her moan, cheer me on
a girl looking away just makes me think my dick is hittin gher cervix or that she really wasn't attracted to me when we started having sex
Hmmmm, that's an interesting take to it. Cause that's not the reason at all for me, the reason I'm looking away is because I have performance issues and because I think I'M not that attractive.
I do make LOTS of noise though so it should be VERY obvious I'm in pleasure the whole time. The only time I get real quiet is literally moments before I'm about to cum. I get quiet but start breathing very heavily, which is a clue for most guys that I'm close.
If he's on top, I also squeeze his butt and push him deeper and harder in to me too and this is when I make the most noise TBH. And when I'm REALLY in pleasure I dig my fingers into his arms and squeal...
I don't talk a lot in bed, I don't do the whole dirty talking thing because that forces me to think which is also distracting for me... at least not elaborate dirty talk where I'm describing things, but I do scream "FUCK" "HOLY JESUS" or "OH MY FUCKING GOD" a lot. I've been told I'm a very very vocal lover, as far as the sounds I make.
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
#22525795 - 11/15/15 12:03 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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I've had one girl that was like that. Super loud and couldn't control herself during each orgasm. I have seen a lot of Asian porn and think Asian twats are way more sensitive because they all scream and flail about.
I've never been with an Asian, but I want to bad. It's pretty lame to be with a quiet lover and wonder if they are enjoying themselves after I've been with a screaming girl.
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Distorted Vision] 1
#22528153 - 11/15/15 04:20 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Distorted Vision said: I've had one girl that was like that. Super loud and couldn't control herself during each orgasm. I have seen a lot of Asian porn and think Asian twats are way more sensitive because they all scream and flail about.
Who knows how much of that is acting in porn, honestly. I hate watching fake shit, personally. I prefer to make my own porn honestly. 
Orgasm strength varies from person to person. I've seen people (both men and women) have weak-ass orgasms. I've never seen or met anybody who has stronger orgasms than I do though.
I have heard about it. But never seen it in person. Usually whenever guys see me orgasm, they are surprised and elated and they ALWAYS comment about how strong my orgasms are. The funny part is, the orgasms I have around these guys are nowhere close to the strongest orgasms I've ever had in my life.
The strongest orgasms I've ever had in my life either involve squirting, or crystal meff.
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
#22555700 - 11/21/15 02:00 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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think of all the things you missed by having sex so quickly. I know everyone is different, but if this guy seemed so special why would you wanna rush into it? He'd have to be one in a million for me to overlook the kid thing.
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Crystal G



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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: lillFish]
#22557206 - 11/21/15 08:16 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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lillFish said: think of all the things you missed by having sex so quickly. I know everyone is different, but if this guy seemed so special why would you wanna rush into it? He'd have to be one in a million for me to overlook the kid thing.
I'm personally the opposite from most people. Every time I ended up waiting 10 dates only to have sex, I've lost interest in the guy almost immediately afterward. Then I'm like, "Damn! Why did I waste so much time doing that?"
Almost all my relationships have started out with a one-night stand. Totally true.
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Madcaps
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
#22558534 - 11/22/15 07:22 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Shooting subs= drug addict in waiting. Sad but true.
Your 30, soon you will be 40, and you will be still on shoomery, telling us you met the best guy ever, and he wants to impregnate you.
Your like me. A extremist. You will never be happy with one person for long. Sad but true. So own it.
Just tell dude, you want to fuck, that the sex is good. That ur not looking to get serious. Because in the end, well you already know how this fairytale ends, you live it time and time again, just like the drug fairytale. In the end you will die alone and with lots of cats, but with great stories.
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zappaisgod
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
#22559157 - 11/22/15 11:17 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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lillFish said: think of all the things you missed by having sex so quickly. I know everyone is different, but if this guy seemed so special why would you wanna rush into it? He'd have to be one in a million for me to overlook the kid thing.
I'm personally the opposite from most people. Every time I ended up waiting 10 dates only to have sex, I've lost interest in the guy almost immediately afterward. Then I'm like, "Damn! Why did I waste so much time doing that?"
Almost all my relationships have started out with a one-night stand. Totally true.
Me too.
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Madcaps]
#22559355 - 11/22/15 12:03 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Crystal G



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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Madcaps]
#22559356 - 11/22/15 12:03 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Madcaps said: Shooting subs= drug addict in waiting. Sad but true.
Your 30, soon you will be 40, and you will be still on shoomery, telling us you met the best guy ever, and he wants to impregnate you.
Your like me. A extremist. You will never be happy with one person for long. Sad but true. So own it.
Just tell dude, you want to fuck, that the sex is good. That ur not looking to get serious. Because in the end, well you already know how this fairytale ends, you live it time and time again, just like the drug fairytale. In the end you will die alone and with lots of cats, but with great stories.
I'm allergic to cats. I'll own a ton of robots probably. But I'll definitely have great stories. :-D
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zappaisgod
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
#22559446 - 11/22/15 12:28 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm allergic to cats.
Well that puts the kibosh on you and me.
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: zappaisgod]
#22559482 - 11/22/15 12:36 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm allergic to cats.
Well that puts the kibosh on you and me.
Do you have long-hair, short-hair, or medium-hair? Because I'm not allergic to certain types of length of hair of cats. I stayed at this bodybuilder guy's place for about a week a few weeks ago, and he had a cat, and I wasn't allergic to it until I held it and put it up to my face.
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zappaisgod
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
#22560731 - 11/22/15 05:47 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Two shorts and one that is probably medium/long. So you're saying we still might have a chance?
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: zappaisgod]
#22561365 - 11/22/15 09:01 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Just maybe zaps.
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zappaisgod
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
#22564156 - 11/23/15 03:58 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Woo hoo.
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: yogabunny]
#22614125 - 12/04/15 06:16 PM (8 years, 1 month ago) |
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Atrium said: For sure, this chick could probably suck the white off paint and still smile to swallow the cum. Like my ex that went to my friend after.
I find this post, and the way you're talking about her to another dude like she's not even here extremely disrespectful. Although we may not agree with Crystal's choices, this doesn't need to turn into a "shit on Crystal in the most vulgar way possible" party.
Deal with it.
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
#22614144 - 12/04/15 06:20 PM (8 years, 1 month ago) |
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This thread is pointless. You met a guy who has a kid, with the kid being a deal breaker.
Why are you asking for advice?
You already said the kid is a dealbreaker, so move on and forget the guy.
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
#27970439 - 09/27/22 10:14 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: I had THE MOST amazing date tonight. Literally did not think I would connect on that level with anybody. After running through tons of hot but super basic and BAF (boring as fuck) guy after guy, I finally hit it off with somebody who's on my cerebral level.
We are both the same age, I loved the smell of his pheromones almost instantly from the moment I got in the car with him, we ended up having a lovely conversation all night on the beach for close to 6 hours and stargazing watching shooting stars and comets. I swear there was a meteor shower tonight, because we ended up seeing 3 shooting stars. Almost felt magical.
But, just before I was about to have sex with him, he dropped the bomb on me. He told me he has a 5 year old CHILD who he shares joint custody with, which has always been a deal breaker for me. He could sense that I was panicking and really freaking out about him having a kid (I honestly didn't even realize I was having a complete anxiety attack in front of him), and reassured me that I don't ever have to meet his child if I don't want to. He looked me dead in the eyes and reassured me that he's not looking for a replacement mom or anything like that, and that I could just speak up and meet his child whenever I feel ready.
And of course, me being the opportunist that I am, I still HAD to have sex with him and see how he was in bed before giving a final assessment of him or rejecting him completely. First of all, just out of curiosity. Like come on, I have needs too. And, because every single one of my serious relationships always started out with a one-night stand (seriously, I'm not even lying or exaggerating).
Turns out he BLEW. MY. MIND. He feels A MILLION TIMES BETTER than any of my exes or anybody I've ever had inside of me. Which is crazy, because I always thought one of my exes from 3 years ago was a sex GOD, and that NOBODY could EVER top him. (He always made me cum from oral first, and then again in pretty much any position possible, but even then it still took us at least a month to achieve that point, it NEVER happened from the first time). Lately I'll admit I've been kind of missing him, but now I feel super glad and relieved knowing things didn't work out between us, knowing what other type of magic dick is out there in the world.
I don't remember exactly how many times I came, I'm pretty sure it was at least 5 times (without clitoral stimulation even, AND while partially under the influence of alcohol, which NEVER happens for me). I ALWAYS need clitoral stimulation, and I can almost NEVER cum under the influence of any drugs, especially alcohol (or if I do it ends up taking me FUCKING FOREVERRRRRRR LIKE A FUCKING HOUR WTF IS THAT SHIT). I was making faces I've NEVER made during sex before, and grinding my fucking teeth and going fucking cross-eyed like there was no tomorrow. Amazing. Hallelujah.
And no, I was not even ovulating. Not even remotely close. Even though he claimed he totally wants to marry me and have my babies (I just LMFAO'ed and snickered silently to myself because uhh, let's just say, he don't fucken' know the crazy that is me yet LOLOLOLLLLL ), I was guaranteed at least several weeks away from even being close to possibly pregnant. Basically meaning, that was 100% his skills, and not the "perfect timing" that did it for me.
So now, after that amazing time, I am left more confused and perplexed than ever. If he just royally SUCKED in bed, then I could easily give him up and dump his ass on the spot. But now, because of the connection we had mentally AND physically, I'm left wondering whether I should forgo my "no kids" rule and just go for it. I mean why not, right? Seems like my "no kids" rule has led me nowhere. Maybe the person who will FINALLY be able to take care of me would be an experienced daddy figure. (Seriously, wouldn't that be the ultimate irony if the thing I was avoiding most was the thing I actually needed most? Because in my experience, life is most certainly backwards and a beautiful paradox like that.)
Oh, and BTW, he's black and Latino and Irish and Asian. What a wonderful combination. But the best part is, he looks mixed ethnic, BUT being a video game developer, he totally has an authentic Asian brain. THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS!!!! Sorry, did that sound racist? Totally sounds racist as fuck LMAO. Oh wait... sorry not sorry. Turns out that's exactly the type of guy that attracts me the most, and exactly the type of person I was looking for all along.
I agreed to see him a second time, and told him that I wanted to spend the night at his place and cook for him. I'm really not sure why I said that, to be honest, and I'm totally fucking kicking myself now for saying I would do that. But now that I blurted it out, I feel like I have to do it. What should I do guys? Should I give it a shot, or be like, nahhhh kids are too much work, F all that noise, and fuck him (both literally and figuratively) altogether?
God, life is soooo strange and ironic. I feel like in a strange way this was meant to happen, and I should just go for it. You guys don't understand, I literally JUST made a POF profile last night, and he was the VERY FIRST person to message me, and we ended up sending each other paragraphs and paragraphs of conversation to each other all night. It's funny, because I do not even bother responding to 99% of guys who message me first on any online dating website, but for some strange reason I was really drawn to his personality from the get-go.
The very next night, I ended up agreeing to meet him, and we had this unexpectedly beautiful 12-hour date. The timing on this is so fucking perfect it's fucking INSANE. What fucking luck I have, that THE VERY FIRST person I meet from online dating actually ends up this way? THE FUCK!?!!?!?!?!
Seriously, I'm left confused and wondering now which step to go in my life. Going this route could completely change my life, for better or for worse. This is a MAJOR life changing decision, and I am not about to take it lightly. Considering the fact that he is already head over heels in love with me and is already talking about marriage and wanting children with me (he even told me that the first thing he is going to do when he gets back home is delete his POF profile, because apparently I've been the woman he's been looking for for the past 2 years). Which means, the decision is basically 100% mine to either leave him or give him a chance. SERIOUSLY WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO, GUYS?!?!?!! Because I have a feeling there are NOT plenty of fish like him out there in the sea, despite the fact that he has a child.
Hmm. I wonder whatever happened to this story 6 years later? Good ending? Married happily ever after?
Or perhaps she has long since decided to just have sex with lots of other people. We just won't ever know unless Crystal G reappears one day which may never happen.
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#27971727 - 09/28/22 07:05 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I think it's hilarious she's attributing her orgasm to his skill. She's breaking her biggest taboo -- of course she will cum. It's so wrong but oh, so right!
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#27972348 - 09/28/22 02:09 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Hmm. I wonder whatever happened to this story 6 years later? Good ending? Married happily ever after?
Or perhaps she has long since decided to just have sex with lots of other people. We just won't ever know unless Crystal G reappears one day which may never happen.
I suggest you click on the reddit link in crystal g's signature. Her reddit account gives a pretty good idea how it turned out.
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