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Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? * 1
    #22489243 - 11/07/15 04:53 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I had THE MOST amazing date tonight. Literally did not think I would connect on that level with anybody. After running through tons of hot but super basic and BAF (boring as fuck) guy after guy, I finally hit it off with somebody who's on my cerebral level.

We are both the same age, I loved the smell of his pheromones almost instantly from the moment I got in the car with him, we ended up having a lovely conversation all night on the beach for close to 6 hours and stargazing watching shooting stars and comets. I swear there was a meteor shower tonight, because we ended up seeing 3 shooting stars. Almost felt magical.

But, just before I was about to have sex with him, he dropped the bomb on me. He told me he has a 5 year old CHILD who he shares joint custody with, which has always been a deal breaker for me. He could sense that I was panicking and really freaking out about him having a kid (I honestly didn't even realize I was having a complete anxiety attack in front of him),  and reassured me that I don't ever have to meet his child if I don't want to. He looked me dead in the eyes and reassured me that he's not looking for a replacement mom or anything like that, and that I could just speak up and meet his child whenever I feel ready.

And of course, me being the opportunist that I am, I still HAD to have sex with him and see how he was in bed before giving a final assessment of him or rejecting him completely. First of all, just out of curiosity. Like come on, I have needs too. And, because every single one of my serious relationships always started out with a one-night stand (seriously, I'm not even lying or exaggerating).

Turns out he BLEW. MY. MIND. He feels A MILLION TIMES BETTER than any of my exes or anybody I've ever had inside of me. Which is crazy, because I always thought one of my exes from 3 years ago was a sex GOD, and that NOBODY could EVER top him. (He always made me cum from oral first, and then again in pretty much any position possible, but even then it still took us at least a month to achieve that point, it NEVER happened from the first time). Lately I'll admit I've been kind of missing him, but now I feel super glad and relieved knowing things didn't work out between us, knowing what other type of magic dick is out there in the world.

I don't remember exactly how many times I came, I'm pretty sure it was at least 5 times (without clitoral stimulation even, AND while partially under the influence of alcohol, which NEVER happens for me). I ALWAYS need clitoral stimulation, and I can almost NEVER cum under the influence of any drugs, especially alcohol (or if I do it ends up taking me FUCKING FOREVERRRRRRR LIKE A FUCKING HOUR WTF IS THAT SHIT). I was making faces I've NEVER made during sex before, and grinding my fucking teeth and going fucking cross-eyed like there was no tomorrow. Amazing. Hallelujah.

And no, I was not even ovulating. Not even remotely close. Even though he claimed he totally wants to marry me and have my babies (I just LMFAO'ed and snickered silently to myself because uhh, let's just say, he don't fucken' know the crazy that is me yet LOLOLOLLLLL :lol: ), I was guaranteed at least several weeks away from even being close to possibly pregnant. Basically meaning, that was 100% his skills, and not the "perfect timing" that did it for me.

So now, after that amazing time, I am left more confused and perplexed than ever. If he just royally SUCKED in bed, then I could easily give him up and dump his ass on the spot. But now, because of the connection we had mentally AND physically, I'm left wondering whether I should forgo my "no kids" rule and just go for it. I mean why not, right? Seems like my "no kids" rule has led me nowhere. Maybe the person who will FINALLY be able to take care of me would be an experienced daddy figure. (Seriously, wouldn't that be the ultimate irony if the thing I was avoiding most was the thing I actually needed most? Because in my experience, life is most certainly backwards and a beautiful paradox like that.)

Oh, and BTW, he's black and Latino and Irish and Asian. What a wonderful combination. But the best part is, he looks mixed ethnic, BUT being a video game developer, he totally has an authentic Asian brain. THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS!!!! Sorry, did that sound racist? Totally sounds racist as fuck LMAO. Oh wait... sorry not sorry. Turns out that's exactly the type of guy that attracts me the most, and exactly the type of person I was looking for all along.

I agreed to see him a second time, and told him that I wanted to spend the night at his place and cook for him. I'm really not sure why I said that, to be honest, and I'm totally fucking kicking myself now for saying I would do that. But now that I blurted it out, I feel like I have to do it. What should I do guys? Should I give it a shot, or be like, nahhhh kids are too much work, F all that noise, and fuck him (both literally and figuratively) altogether?

God, life is soooo strange and ironic. I feel like in a strange way this was meant to happen, and I should just go for it. You guys don't understand, I literally JUST made a POF profile last night, and he was the VERY FIRST person to message me, and we ended up sending each other paragraphs and paragraphs of conversation to each other all night. It's funny, because I do not even bother responding to 99% of guys who message me first on any online dating website, but for some strange reason I was really drawn to his personality from the get-go.

The very next night, I ended up agreeing to meet him, and we had this unexpectedly beautiful 12-hour date. The timing on this is so fucking perfect it's fucking INSANE. What fucking luck I have, that THE VERY FIRST person I meet from online dating actually ends up this way? THE FUCK!?!!?!?!?!

Seriously, I'm left confused and wondering now which step to go in my life. Going this route could completely change my life, for better or for worse. This is a MAJOR life changing decision, and I am not about to take it lightly. Considering the fact that he is already head over heels in love with me and is already talking about marriage and wanting children with me (he even told me that the first thing he is going to do when he gets back home is delete his POF profile, because apparently I've been the woman he's been looking for for the past 2 years). Which means, the decision is basically 100% mine to either leave him or give him a chance. SERIOUSLY WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO, GUYS?!?!?!! Because I have a feeling there are NOT plenty of fish like him out there in the sea, despite the fact that he has a child.


Edited by Crystal G (11/07/15 06:30 AM)


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22489304 - 11/07/15 06:00 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I once saw a funny image of a bunch of women gathered around a large table. The caption read: "Waiting for the perfect man." The women were all dusty skeletons. I you want to join them, be my guest, it's your choice.

How much closer to finding Mr. Perfect can you get? Lose the need for TOTAL control just for once. Let life amaze you.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Aldous]
    #22489307 - 11/07/15 06:02 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I do not ever want kids so it would be a huge dealbreaker for me.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #22489339 - 11/07/15 06:37 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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I do not ever want kids so it would be a huge dealbreaker for me.




He did notice me freaking out about his kids, and looked me dead in the eyes and said that I never have to meet his child if I don't want to. On my online profile, I said that I do not want children, and I think he knew that the kid thing would really bother me.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22489358 - 11/07/15 06:54 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Kids are the best thing in the world. You don't know what you don't know. Give this relationship an opportunity to flourish.(obviously)


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Aldous]
    #22489467 - 11/07/15 07:56 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Aldous said:
I once saw a funny image of a bunch of women gathered around a large table. The caption read: "Waiting for the perfect man." The women were all dusty skeletons. I you want to join them, be my guest, it's your choice.

How much closer to finding Mr. Perfect can you get? Lose the need for TOTAL control just for once. Let life amaze you.




I'm really not that picky though. I've dated all different ethnicities, and all sorts of guys with different looks, careers, ages, and personality types.

Things like height, the type of career they have, how much money they have, etc. are never factors for me in a relationship. I've dated guys who had absolutely ZERO money and I've even dated a guy who was shorter than me (he was 5'4"). I've dated unemployed guys, students, marines, business men, hippie artist types, BDSM fetishist types, hedge fund CEO's, I've even dated homosexuals. In fact, my longest relationship of 5 years was with a homosexual twink. I clearly am one of the least picky people, while at the same time having oddly high standards (but in a different way).

Basically, all I ask are for the following things in a relationship

1. That we have mutual sexual attraction for each other (for me this is a combination of personality, looks, and PHEROMONES, the way their natural body odor smells to me is super important, probably more important than looks for me.)

2. They be good in bed. I don't care what kind of technique they have, they MUST be a pleaser in bed and work to make me cum. This is one thing I am definitely adamant about and will not budge about. Will not give somebody who is a bad lay my time of day.

3. I am one of those women that does not give a shit about a sense of humor. If I want laughs, I have certain friends I can go to. All I care is that you are sweet and kind and not temperamental, irritable, moody, or angry. I prefer easygoing types.

4. I don't care how tall you are, how much money you have, but I DO care what age you are. You must be no more than 3-5 years older than me, or 5-7 years younger than me. No exceptions, unless you're a VERY special person who can make me overlook a significant age difference.

5. Don't be boring or basic. No conventional guys. But don't be a scumbag either. Just because you're not a 9-5 Republican white collar guy doesn't mean I want a criminal piece of shit gangbanger dope fiend. (I know, I'm totally a hypocrite, but I don't date addicts EVER, because I know that they are all full of shit, including myself, I know what kind of bullshit they bring to the table, and also because I don't want to risk my own sobriety as well.)

6. No kids.

That's literally all I ask. Is that so much?

But the thing about kids... I mean, that's a pretty BIG thing to overlook. That's probably the biggest one out of my entire list, in fact. It's probably the biggest thing I could ever overlook, aside from having a serious criminal history.


Edited by Crystal G (11/07/15 08:33 AM)


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22489774 - 11/07/15 09:24 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

You may have just found your Twin Flame.



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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G] * 2
    #22489851 - 11/07/15 09:38 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

If he's telling you that you never have to meet his kids, that's a euphemism for "we can keep this NSA".  If you want it to be more than a sexual thing, you're gonna have to meet the kids eventually.  From what I know of you, I'm kinda doubting you'd like being in a relationship that involves kids, but maybe I'm wrong.  If you don't want to be in that kind of relationship, break it off or keep it extremely casual.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G] * 1
    #22490095 - 11/07/15 10:34 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Wait!? You didn't marry the guy that you previously were with and said that you've never connected with anyone else with like you did with him?

I'd say take it slow and meet the kids.. If this guy really wants a relationship with you so much that he will ditch his kids, he's a piece of shit or he's lying to you.


Or the NSA thing like said above.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Distorted Vision]
    #22490383 - 11/07/15 11:34 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Yes. NSA, or if he is interested in a relationship then he's testing the waters to see how you react. If he has any sort of parenting instincts, then he wants to make sure that introducing his kid to you is not a bad idea before he does it. It's better for the kid that way, and the kid's well being and happiness comes well before yours at this point. If you can't accept that, then he probably won't consider having a serious relationship with you.




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Wait!? You didn't marry the guy that you previously were with and said that you've never connected with anyone else with like you did with him?





Also, this. What do you want out of a relationship anyway? I can't tell if you just want sex, or if you want other stuff too but can't get it separated from wanting sex. You sort of sound like you're confused about what you want.


Edited by Mr.GuessWork (11/07/15 11:43 AM)


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Mr.GuessWork] * 3
    #22491113 - 11/07/15 02:28 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I hope for the sake of this child you do not fuck with this poor dudes life


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: bloodsheen] * 3
    #22491117 - 11/07/15 02:29 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Try mentioning you've slept with like 100 dudes and are a drug addict (recovering or otherwise). Hopefully his parental instincts will kick in and he won't let you into his life


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G] * 2
    #22491633 - 11/07/15 04:13 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Didn't we hear roughly this same spiel about the last guy?  I'm not going to go into what you told me privately but maybe, just maybe, it might not be a bad idea to consider somebody who is decent and responsible enough to take care of a kid.  It isn't like you'll have to do any shit you don't want to.  Who knows.  It might not suck as much as you think.  I never wanted to have a kid either.  Now she is my raison d'etre.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: bloodsheen]
    #22493206 - 11/07/15 09:46 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I would wait and take things slow with him. See how you feel. But I wouldn't rush meeting his kid.. if it ends up not working out between you two it can be really disruptive for the kid. If he really is so amazing, maybe his kid is too.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: bloodsheen] * 1
    #22493257 - 11/07/15 09:59 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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I hope for the sake of this child you do not fuck with this poor dudes life




You know, it's sad, because I was thinking the same thing as well.

From my understanding Crystal, you're a poly-drug abuser who constantly is on some kind of binge or anything, constantly "finding the right guy" to fuck and constantly "finding the right situations"

Are you REALLY ready to tone things down a bit and be apart of a guys life who has RESPONSIBILITY?

You can't fucking smoke PCP and have his child be in the house. You can't be fucking doped up. Can you do that? Is that worth it to you?

Yeah, you can snicker all you want, because you're right... he doesn't know you, the real you, not yet...


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Uzziel]
    #22493274 - 11/07/15 10:03 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

His brothers a drug addict. I'm sure he can deal just fine with me.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Distorted Vision]
    #22493312 - 11/07/15 10:14 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Wait!? You didn't marry the guy that you previously were with and said that you've never connected with anyone else with like you did with him?




I was under the influence of drugs then, and also for some reason I never trusted that guy. My first instincts were constantly screaming at me to GTFO and away from him, because he gave off an extremely untrustworthy vibe. I've never mistrusted anybody so much ever in my life. This new guy is a complete stranger, and he already gives off a way better and friendlier vibe than the last guy.


Edited by Crystal G (11/07/15 10:22 PM)


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G] * 1
    #22493327 - 11/07/15 10:18 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Are you sure? Is that your attitude with someone who has a kid? "He can deal with me because his brother..."

That's exactly why I'm telling you to stay the fuck away if you're gonna have that attitude.

Oh well. It's not like you give a fuck about these posts. This is your giant ego saying I'LL DO WHAT I WANT

Yeah. Go cheat on him too on the side while you're at it. We already know you Crystal. Who the fuck are you kidding? People like you don't change unless you really decide it yourself

All these posts you make are some artificial bullshit to make yourself feel better about it when you do fuck his life up.

I never thought I'd talk so badly about someone. But I've read enough of your posts over the years to know you and responsibility don't mingle, period.

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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Uzziel]
    #22493339 - 11/07/15 10:21 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

:lol:

I'm not asking or agreeing to meet his kid, calm down.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22493350 - 11/07/15 10:24 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Yes and in your title it says "What to do"

And I'm saying stay the fuck away from his life if you don't want to really be a part of it.

Yeah you're gonna fuck him a few times then what? What about a few months down the line?

You can laugh it off all you want...


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Uzziel]
    #22493366 - 11/07/15 10:30 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Yes and in your title it says "What to do"

And I'm saying stay the fuck away from his life if you don't want to really be a part of it.

Yeah you're gonna fuck him a few times then what? What about a few months down the line?

You can laugh it off all you want...




I'll eventually tell him I've been on suboxone for years. He used to work as an EMT, I'm sure he knows exactly what suboxone and Narcan is, and has dealt with plenty of people overdosing in his career.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22493377 - 11/07/15 10:34 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

That isn't what I'm talking about Crystal. I'm not talking about just the drugs.

I'm talking about your incessant need to do fucking crazy shit. Is he down with all that?

I know I'm coming of as harsh and that's my intent. I don't mean to insult you, I think your lifestyle is fine and acceptable.

I'm just leaving this here to for you to ponder yourself, do you want to slow your roll down and live a more normal life with a man or do you want to continue your insanity?

Maybe he'll even be down to be apart of your lifestyle. What the hell do I know.

Either way. It's clear you need to figure out what life means to you and what you want from it. It seems you're confused that someone is actually connecting with you on a mental level and you're not sure what to do.

Best of luck. Really. Wish the best for ya. This is one of those things that it's really only going to be you to figure out in the end.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Uzziel]
    #22493630 - 11/07/15 11:55 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

crystal g
you suck

but nah for reals wtf you can't feed some lil kid now it's practically free if you don't marry him the lil fucker gets free school too


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Konyap]
    #22494002 - 11/08/15 01:45 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I am not sure he's going to be thrilled when you tell him you are an addict. He has first hand experience and chances are he drops you like a rock and lives in fear until his std-check comes out clear.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Tripsurfer]
    #22494012 - 11/08/15 01:47 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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I am not sure he's going to be thrilled when you tell him you are an addict. He has first hand experience and chances are he drops you like a rock and lives in fear until his std-check comes out clear.




You would be surprised how many people are accepting of it, even conservative types


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22494148 - 11/08/15 02:41 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Show him this thread.

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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: mm.]
    #22494154 - 11/08/15 02:45 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

:lolsy:

I will say, there was one point where he was holding my hands across the table from me, and he noticed my track marks and was rubbing up against them. (I've only been taking subs but I still shoot them sometimes even though it doesn't get me high, and the only place I can shoot up is on my left knuckles because that's where I can find veins the easiest, so I have several scars on my knuckles that looks makes it look like I was in a fight or something.)

He was rubbing my knuckles and noticed my scar, he was feeling my knuckle scars up and down and looked at me quizzically, and I could tell he wanted to ask me about them, but I smiled and readjusted my hands to distract him. Hopefully he forgot all about what he saw.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22494165 - 11/08/15 03:01 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Do the NSA thing for a bit and once things get serious, walk away. At that point, there isn't much the kid has to offer you or vice versa and steering clear of the kid for the rest of your life isn't going to work.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: koraks]
    #22494173 - 11/08/15 03:07 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Do the NSA thing for a bit and once things get serious, walk away. At that point, there isn't much the kid has to offer you or vice versa and steering clear of the kid for the rest of your life isn't going to work.




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    #22494795 - 11/08/15 09:03 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I think it would be a shame to throw away a potential amazing connection because of your "rule". That being said - personally, I would be way more concerned about the person I'm dating having recently been a heroin addict than having a child. Since he shared his thing with you, I think you should share your history with him soon. He deserves the opportunity to decide about that the same way you deserve the opportunity to decide about whether you want to be with someone who has a kid.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: yogabunny]
    #22494803 - 11/08/15 09:06 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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I think it would be a shame to throw away a potential amazing connection because of your "rule". That being said - personally, I would be way more concerned about the person I'm dating having recently been a heroin addict than having a child. Since he shared his thing with you, I think you should share your history with him soon. He deserves the opportunity to decide about that the same way you deserve the opportunity to decide about whether you want to be with someone who has a kid.




Yeah, that's a bunch of bull. If something is in your past and doesn't pertain to your life anymore, you are under no obligation to tell the person.

I'll tell him I smoke PCP and take acid on occasion whenever I can find it, because those are things I still do. Actually, I already did tell him I fried on acid recently and take benzo's regularly.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G] * 1
    #22494890 - 11/08/15 09:37 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Didn't you say that you're shooting subs? That would qualify you as an addict in most people's opinion. It might qualify you as a recovering addict (shooting them isn't part of the program as far as I know). You can't really claim it doesn't pertain to your life anymore if you're still getting rid of a physiological addiction. I get that you want to put it behind you, but you're lying to yourself if you think that battle is over. Dealing with your addiction is absolutely part of the present, it's almost definitely going to affect your life and relationship, and a potential BF would want to know about that kind of shit before introducing you to his kid. Hiding it and pretending it's not at all relevant is definitely an uncool thing to do if you respect the guy. :thumbdown:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
    #22495112 - 11/08/15 10:47 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Like I said, when the time is right, I'll tell him I've been on suboxone for years. Which is in fact the truth. I've been on it for 5 years. I am not obligated to tell him anything more, or the extent of all the crazy shit I did from years ago. Because none of that shit is pertinent to who I am today.

I do have to mention the subs though, because this guy is totally baby crazy. I know this, because when I told him I was having a hard time quitting vaping, he actually said, "Oh don't worry. I'll just get you pregnant, and then you'll finally get the motivation to stop nicotine altogether."

I almost spit out my drink and LMAO'ed and coughed like a motherfucker when he said that, but I was really thinking, "Goddammit, now I'm going to have to tell him I'm still on subs before he tries to knock me up." :freshwtf:

Not going to lie though, it's totally hot when a guy talks about how badly he wants to impregnate me. Which is weird, because I do not want kids AT ALL, and it's a huge part of the reason I've been so wary about dating anybody with kids... but for some reason, I find it so irresistibly sexy when a guy tells me he wants to knock me up and have my babies. Man oh man, that is hot.


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    #22495156 - 11/08/15 10:58 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

You scare me sometimes, CrystalG.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22495169 - 11/08/15 11:02 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

No offense CrysG, but he has a kid and you're an ex(?) junkie, I think you both could judge the shit out of each other if you wanted too, but where would that lead?

The real question is, do you plan on painting in blood for him, and how do you think he would take that.:smirk:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Lucis]
    #22495378 - 11/08/15 12:01 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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No offense CrysG, but he has a kid and you're an ex(?) junkie, I think you both could judge the shit out of each other if you wanted too, but where would that lead?

The real question is, do you plan on painting in blood for him, and how do you think he would take that.:smirk:




I actually showed him my blood paintings and even told him that I painted those in blood. I'm telling you, we told each other quite a lot about ourselves on our date. He was not scared or deterred at all.

He was an EMT for crying out loud. He's probably gotten other people's vomit, blood, piss, and shit all over him in his line of work. Guys like that ain't scared of blood or shit. I'm actually excited about the fact that he's not afraid of blood, it means he ain't afraid to earn his red wings. :awesome:

I even mentioned the prospect of period sex with him on our date. Because I am horniest when I am on my period, and I told him, "Let's just say, I like guys who aren't afraid to get a little dirty." :lol: I will not date guys who won't fuck me on my period. That's another deal-breaker.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22496867 - 11/08/15 05:27 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I always get super horny right before my period but once it starts I usually am in a lot of pain so the idea of sex usually turns me off. Though it normally doesn't stop me if my partner is riled up and wants some fun.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G] * 1
    #22497244 - 11/08/15 06:28 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

if he stays with you, that kid will be in protective services in no time.

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    #22497337 - 11/08/15 06:49 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

:incredible:  :derail:  :mindblown:  :youseethisshit:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: rackem]
    #22497386 - 11/08/15 06:57 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I was really drunk when I posted that I hope this guy gets scared off and I was totally expecting to get completely railed in here. Glad to see I had kid gloves on compared to the rest of you :lol:

Uzziel's got your number. This is just you jerking yourself off. You'll make this guy fall in love with you, make him toss aside all of his scruples and morals, possibly do a bunch of drugs, possibly not see his kid as much, and in the end he won't be the right person because there is no right person for you. Not at this point in your life anyway.

My ex used people the way you do. Treated humans like a giant chemistry lab, "lets just add a little of this and try a bit of this...nope, that didn't work, throw it in the sink and try again."

Funny how even though every single person essentially said the same thing you're still gonna pursue this guy to the bitter end. And by funny I mean it makes me want to give up on humanity


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22497464 - 11/08/15 07:11 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I once had a drug addled skag for a stepmom that would run her mouth endlessly and never fucking listen, lieing about any random detail in her life to try and sound interesting. It was such a godsend when I got the chance to kick her to the curb. You seem sweet though. I think the kid would be lucky to have you in his life.


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    #22497486 - 11/08/15 07:16 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

:booooom:  :disappointedlaugh:


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    #22497503 - 11/08/15 07:23 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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:incredible:  :derail:  :mindblown:  :youseethisshit:




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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: bloodsheen]
    #22498833 - 11/09/15 01:30 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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I always get super horny right before my period but once it starts I usually am in a lot of pain so the idea of sex usually turns me off. Though it normally doesn't stop me if my partner is riled up and wants some fun.




Weird, the couple days right before my period is when I'm the LEAST horny. The 3 or 4 days before my period comes are like the 3 or 4 days out of the entire month that I want nothing to do with sex. And that's how I usually know my period is going to come, is if I lose my drive suddenly. Then it comes back, and the day of my heaviest period is the day I enjoy sex the most. Orgasms help a lot with the pain.


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I was really drunk when I posted that I hope this guy gets scared off and I was totally expecting to get completely railed in here. Glad to see I had kid gloves on compared to the rest of you :lol:

Uzziel's got your number. This is just you jerking yourself off. You'll make this guy fall in love with you, make him toss aside all of his scruples and morals, possibly do a bunch of drugs, possibly not see his kid as much, and in the end he won't be the right person because there is no right person for you. Not at this point in your life anyway.

My ex used people the way you do. Treated humans like a giant chemistry lab, "lets just add a little of this and try a bit of this...nope, that didn't work, throw it in the sink and try again."

Funny how even though every single person essentially said the same thing you're still gonna pursue this guy to the bitter end. And by funny I mean it makes me want to give up on humanity




I'm really not like that though. The only person I really gave up on was my last ex, and that's just because he was perpetually unhappy. I mean, could YOU be happy with a person who was temperamental and moody every single goddamn day? We're not just talking about 1 bad day out of 100 or even 20 good ones. We're talking about somebody who is perpetually miserable every single day and is irritated pretty much 24/7.

And even still, I gave it a legitimately good shot. I did the best that I could, and tolerated him for as long as I could. He was quite literally the worst person possible for me however.

See, I'm a chill, optimistic, happy, laid-back type of person. But I'm also very receptive to other people's feelings, so if I'm around people who are angry or upset all the time, it starts affecting my psyche negatively. No no, the perfect person for him would either be some autistic girl who can't sense or react to people's feelings, or another person who is just as miserable and moody as he is. They can both be perpetually unhappy and miserable together for the rest of their lives together. Not for me.

In a perfect world, I would totally take back my ex from 3 years ago, as well as my ex from 5 years ago. I'll admit, I screwed that relationship up. My ex from 5 years ago wanted to get married and was also baby crazy, but I was 25, still young, not ready to settle down to just 1 person, and was more interested in exploring polyamory and alternative lifestyles. So I gave him up. That one was just bad timing. I wasn't ready to get married or have a child at age 25. I always saw myself settling down in my mid 30's. Had I met him like 7 years later though, things would have been perfect.

Well actually, now that I think about it, I would not take back my ex from 3 years ago. He was the perfect guy in almost every way, but the only problem with him is that he was perpetually insecure. Constantly going through my Facebook and my phone every day, and I let him, because I had nothing to hide. But we have no hard feelings against each other. If he called me or if I called him and needed something from him, we would have each other's backs.

I'm still friends with a majority of my exes. The fact that most of them still want to be friends with me, is just proof that the breakup was mutual, and that I did nothing of the sort such as "use them."

I know exactly what I like. That's why I choose the people that I choose in my life. 99% of guys that I meet, I want nothing to do with them, or I let it be just a 1 night stand.


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    #22499212 - 11/09/15 07:10 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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And even still, I gave it a legitimately good shot. I did the best that I could, and tolerated him for as long as I could. He was quite literally the worst person possible for me however.




Do you see what you've written here?  Compare it to what you wrote about him in the pub after you first met.  Talking about how the chemistry is perfect, the guy is perfect, how you're going to marry him, etc.

My point is: you fall hard and fast for guys.  The army dude, the personal trainer, the Peruvian from Philly, all of them the same at first.  And then you look back at what you called incredible and see how awfully flawed it is.  I'm seeing a real pattern here.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #22499227 - 11/09/15 07:20 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Do you see what you've written here?  Compare it to what you wrote about him in the pub after you first met.  Talking about how the chemistry is perfect, the guy is perfect, how you're going to marry him, etc.

My point is: you fall hard and fast for guys.  The army dude, the personal trainer, the Peruvian from Philly, all of them the same at first.  And then you look back at what you called incredible and see how awfully flawed it is.  I'm seeing a real pattern here.




Oh yeah, that's absolutely true. I'm a very intense and impulsive person, and this shows through in my love life. I fall hard and fast for them, and they fall just as hard and fast for me. Almost all of my relationships have either ended up with a proposal by the end of the week, or me moving in with them by the end of the month.

I will say though, I was never in love with my personal trainer. I never fell for him. I always kept him at a distance, because I knew he was a scumbag, but I loved having him around because he was nice eye candy. :lol:

In any case, I have taken your guys' advice, about "taking things slow." I have several other dates booked this week. I'm broadening my horizons, instead of fixating on just 1 person this time.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22499228 - 11/09/15 07:20 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Crystal, what is your reason is for never wanting to have kids?


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    #22499339 - 11/09/15 08:01 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Crystal, what is your reason is for never wanting to have kids?




I don't like the idea of having tons of responsibility. I can't even commit to buying a car, because I don't want the responsibility of having payments and all that crap. Whenever I have bought a car, it's always been something worth under $500 so I can just pay once and never have to worry about ditching it or setting it on fire whenever I move or don't need it anymore. I can't even commit to living in the same city or working the same job for more than 2 years. I like change and new experiences in my life.

I don't like the idea of not having any alone time.

I don't like the idea of not having a good night's sleep for years and years. I've always needed much more sleep than the average person. Some days I still sleep as much as a teenager.

I like seeing all the 0000's in my bank account, and everything that I have worked for will quickly turn to 0 in less than a year if I have a child right now at this point in my life. Things I want to do in life: I want to start a business, I want to travel, these are all things you cannot do with children until they're a certain age.

Sometimes I think I would make a good mother and want a child, but I realize this is fantasy type thinking that sounds far better in my head in dreamworld than in real-life. Like "expectations" VS "reality."

Being a single mother is one of my biggest fears. It's such a big fear for me, in fact, that I've thought extensively about what I would do if I ever found out I was pregnant while in Brazil or Costa Rica or somewhere where abortions are not readily legal. Or if I was 6-9 months pregnant and the father left me or something. I would be one of those women that would probably freak the fuck out and drop their baby off at a fire station (which you can do anonymously and legally in California to a newborn baby). You can drop your baby off without giving your name so they can't track you down, and you can disappear off the face of the earth. And walk away.

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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22499347 - 11/09/15 08:07 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

This being the case I would definitely not date seriously a guy who has a kid and after a couple dates is already talking about putting a baby in you.

I also don't want to have kids, but my reasons are different. If someone came into my life who already had a kid, I would be happy to be part of raising that child in a loving and supportive environment. Thankfully I am already in a relationship with a partner who feels the same way I do about it.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting children, but if I were you I would not get involved with this man. There is someone else out there who you can have just as great of a connection with who feels the same as you about children and life.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: yogabunny]
    #22499416 - 11/09/15 08:38 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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This being the case I would definitely not date seriously a guy who has a kid and after a couple dates is already talking about putting a baby in you.




I don't think he's being for real about the baby thing. I think that's just foreplay for him. Honestly, I do.

He's the type of guy that wants me to talk to him in bed about all the kids we’re going to have. He even admitted to me that that's what turns him on the most in bed and gets him to orgasm the fastest. He wants me to talk to him about our future and all this shit in bed. That's really what he asked from me.

I'm pretty convinced that talking this way is just a sexual thing for him. But I am not 100% sure, and I can't rule out the fact that he might have serious intentions about trying to impregnate me.

I have to admit, talking like that is really hot, even though the thought of having kids terrifies me. In a strange way, it's a HUGE turn-on. Kind of like how nothing terrifies me more than cops, and so consequently, my biggest sexual fantasies almost always involve cops or the SWAT team. Man oh man, I fantasize so hard about cops it's not even funny. :lol:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22500195 - 11/09/15 12:15 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

So crystal G finally hit her wall somewhere around 30? That's weird...


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    #22500218 - 11/09/15 12:20 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

"hit her wall"?

I'm sorry I think you got lost on your way to the red pill, here's the right link: https://www.reddit.com/r/theredpill

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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: yogabunny]
    #22500379 - 11/09/15 12:58 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

What does the phrase "hit her wall" even mean? Because I haven't changed since I was 25. Before 25, I will admit I was a totally different person.


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    #22500456 - 11/09/15 01:16 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

It's a concept that "the red pill" & "MRA" types use to describe the point at which a woman ceases to be at her peak level of attractiveness and fertility. They say that when a woman "hits the wall" she becomes less desirable to "alphas" and starts getting kind of desperate to find any mate.

I actually got banned from the red pill subreddit for rationally explaining why I believe some of their main principles to be completely paradoxical.

If you enjoy torturing yourself by making yourself really angry, then go read some threads in the red pill subreddit.

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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: yogabunny]
    #22500495 - 11/09/15 01:27 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

The thing is, I'm not really desperate to find a mate. I just find these types of guys psychologically fascinating. I'm actually kind of interested in exploring this "impregnation fetish" sexually, because so far I'm pretty convinced this is nothing more than a sexual fetish for these types of guys.

Personally, I find the whole concept of "alpha" and "beta" to be nonsense anyways. Because, #1, nobody is either 100% alpha or 100% beta, just like how nobody has 100% masculine or 100% feminine traits. People usually have a combination of both personality traits in them.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22500511 - 11/09/15 01:33 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Dude, you may want to find out if that impregnation stuff is just pillow talk, or if it's something this dude is about for real.  You seem uncertain, and I get that that may be part of the thrill for you, but this guy could actually be mentally unstable and is trying to procreate with you.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22500523 - 11/09/15 01:37 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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The thing is, I'm not really desperate to find a mate. I just find these types of guys psychologically fascinating. I'm actually kind of interested in exploring this "impregnation fetish" sexually, because so far I'm pretty convinced this is just a sexual turn-on for these types of guys.

Personally, I find the whole concept of "alpha" and "beta" to be nonsense anyways. Because, #1, nobody is either 100% alpha or 100% beta, just like how nobody has 100% masculine or 100% feminine traits. People usually have a combination of both personality traits in them.




Dude, I don't think you are + I 100% think that the alpha beta shit is nonsense, as well as everything else these misogynistic tools have to say.

Another one of their theories is that the ideal female is around 23-24 and also never to date an female who has children, or who has "hit the wall". They think the best females only go for alphas and basically spend every waking minute of the day trying to become alpha to attract these females, and they generally refer to human interaction and relationships like the narrator of a nature documentary.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #22500556 - 11/09/15 01:49 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Dude, you may want to find out if that impregnation stuff is just pillow talk, or if it's something this dude is about for real.  You seem uncertain, and I get that that may be part of the thrill for you, but this guy could actually be mentally unstable and is trying to procreate with you.




:horrified:  :dafuq:  :ohyou: Soooooo I didn't even think about that, and I totally might have let him inside of me without protection.:foreheadslap: It's cool though, because he didn't cum, and I was nowhere close to ovulating I'm pretty sure.

Do I regret it? No way.....  he felt fucking amazing! YOLO :lolsy:

He doesn't give off the vibe that he's mentally unstable to me though. I mean, he's nothing at all like the LAST guy that tried to impregnate me.

So, I didn't share this story on the Shroomery, but a few weeks ago, I actually DID run into a guy who was legit completely mentally unstable and wanted to wife me up and impregnate me. I was standing around on the street in Beverly Hills, and this guy driving a Maserati calls out to me and asks for my number. I gave it to him thinking, "Why the fuck not?"

Dude ended up being a crazy psycho stalker. He was half Persian, half Italian, so basically incredibly passionate and intense and insane to the point that it was WAY too much, even for me. In the 2 hours after I met him, he pulled some weird shit.

Within the hour it took me to drive back home, he called me over a dozen times, 3 out of those calls which I picked up to tell him "I'll be home in 20 or 30 or X amount of minutes," only to have him call me back again the next minute later.

I call him after I get back home, and here is already what transpired via phone call and text:
-he is already insisting I meet his parents and move in with him, says he will "take really good care of me"
-he is already insisting I be 100% faithful to him
-he is already talking about how he is going to fuck me so hard he impregnates me, and is talking about the perfect little daughter he has always wanted and is going to have with me
-tells me he loves me with his heart over and over again, and talks about what a beautiful wedding we would have
-keeps sending me diamond ring and heart emojis
-talks about how God meant for us to meet on that street in Beverly Hills, so we could be together for the rest of our lives
-He is crying, saying he misses me, says he wants to marry me on New Year's Eve and is already planning out our wedding and shit

Bear in mind, this guy did not even know my name yet. I never even told him MY NAME the whole time we conversed with each other, nor did he asked.

The guy was fucking borderline psychotic, and I should have seen all the warning signs, but of course I ignored them all and just ate it all up instead. For some fucked up reason, I fucking LOVED IT!!!! It's like this guy had no borders or filter whatsoever in his mind, and this intensity and passion was admittedly a huge turn on for me. Dude. Is. FIERCE. Can you imagine what this guy must be like in bed?!?!?!??!

So I was on the phone totally egging him on, like "Yeah, keep talking to me like that baby." :lolsy:

EVEN THOUGH I could already tell this was going to end up horribly for me, and he was probably going to end up losing his shit and murdering me when he finds out all the guys I've been talking to. :lol: HAHAHA. Dead. DEATH BY TKO AHHAHAHAHHAHAA!!!!!! :lolsy: FUCK, I'm so fucked in the head.

I ended up having to say, "Hi. I'm totally ready to marry you, but only as friends. :lol: And in exchange for giving me a cushy lifestyle, I will give you a baby, and you can have her. I will sign away my parental rights and everything. She's all yours."

Still didn't work deterring him. So yeah, I totally egged him on at first, and he blew up my phone a million more times before I eventually stopped returning all his texts and calls after the 3rd day. For 3 whole weeks he called me from different numbers so that I wouldn't know it was him... and he would leave me 3-minute long voicemails of him just breathing heavily on the other end. :flowstone:

For weeks and weeks, every day I would receive around a dozen 3-minute long voicemails of him doing this every day, just breathing heavily or jerking off on the phone like a psycho maniac, until gradually his calls became less and less frequent and eventually stopped.

It was really interesting observing the whole thing though. I've never come across anybody that intense before. Even though it was very short-lived and I never got to experience a relationship with him first-hand, I can only imagine the craziness that would have ensued.

All I have is one question: How the fuck does a crazy person even get a Maserati?!??! That's what I REALLY want to know! :lol:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: yogabunny]
    #22500590 - 11/09/15 01:57 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Another one of their theories is that the ideal female is around 23-24 and also never to date an female who has children, or who has "hit the wall". They think the best females only go for alphas and basically spend every waking minute of the day trying to become alpha to attract these females, and they generally refer to human interaction and relationships like the narrator of a nature documentary.




Yeah, that's all bullshit. If what they say is true, the stereotypical "alpha" is going to peak sometime around ages 16-20, and declines in their "alpha" manhood from age 25. (This is actually a legit fact, men decline in testosterone every year once they hit age 25.)

According to these men, women are hypergamous in nature. Yet we find that in modern day society, stereotypical "beta" types make the most money. People like Steve Jobbs, Bill Gates, your typical neurosurgeon or Wall Street investor, they're not stereotypical alpha types.

Your stereotypical alpha is probably going to be bald, with a beer gut, working at a gas station by the time he's in his 30's. He literally has nothing that's attractive to women by the time he's hit age 30.

The whole thing is nonsense. If the whole alpha/beta thing were true, then we'd find that young guys in their teens and early 20's are the most lucky with women, but we often find that these types of young men have the opposite experience and strike out with women time and time again.

Personally, I think believers of this theory took high school social politics a little too personally. High school social politics usually doesn't apply once people venture out into the real world.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #22500821 - 11/09/15 03:06 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Dude, you may want to find out if that impregnation stuff is just pillow talk, or if it's something this dude is about for real. 




Either way it's fucking weird.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: zappaisgod]
    #22500876 - 11/09/15 03:18 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Another one of their theories is that the ideal female is around 23-24 and also never to date an female who has children, or who has "hit the wall". They think the best females only go for alphas and basically spend every waking minute of the day trying to become alpha to attract these females, and they generally refer to human interaction and relationships like the narrator of a nature documentary.




Yeah, that's all bullshit. If what they say is true, the stereotypical "alpha" is going to peak sometime around ages 16-20, and declines in their "alpha" manhood from age 25. (This is actually a legit fact, men decline in testosterone every year once they hit age 25.)

According to these men, women are hypergamous in nature. Yet we find that in modern day society, stereotypical "beta" types make the most money. People like Steve Jobbs, Bill Gates, your typical neurosurgeon or Wall Street investor, they're not stereotypical alpha types.

Your stereotypical alpha is probably going to be bald, with a beer gut, working at a gas station by the time he's in his 30's. He literally has nothing that's attractive to women by the time he's hit age 30.

The whole thing is nonsense. If the whole alpha/beta thing were true, then we'd find that young guys in their teens and early 20's are the most lucky with women, but we often find that these types of young men have the opposite experience and strike out with women time and time again.

Personally, I think believers of this theory took high school social politics a little too personally. High school social politics usually doesn't apply once people venture out into the real world.




I don't think you use the term alpha male the same way other people do.  It isn't just about fucking.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: zappaisgod]
    #22501164 - 11/09/15 04:28 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Oh wowwwww okay guys, I really have to share this, because this drama series is just starting to get good. After only 1 date, baby crazy guy has already asked me to move in with him. I made a bet with my friend that this would happen. I told him that all my relationships are so intense and guys always fall for me so hard, and I bet my friend that by the end of this month I would either get a marriage proposal or he would ask me to move in to his place. Pay up buddy, you lost. HAAAAAA!!!

And the ridiculous part is, I might actually just say yes. I'm a very "go with the flow" kind of person. I mean, I DID tell him that I was looking to move to a new location after I came back from Costa Rica, and the city he lives in is one of the locations I was thinking of relocating to. He has his own 2 bedroom apartment so I could have my own bedroom if he started smothering me too much.

Edit: FUCK!!!! I just realized I agreed to move in, and I TOTALLY FORGOT HE ALREADY HAS A KID THAT HE SHARES CUSTODY WITH!!!!! LMFAO!!!!!!! Goddammit why did I do that?!?!?!!??!

My own life is like a drama series that I never cease to be entertained by. I fucking love it. Raising the motherfucking stakes.





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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22501356 - 11/09/15 04:58 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Knock yourself out but the second bedroom is for his kid when he has him/her.  I don't recall you saying if it's a boy or a girl.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22501378 - 11/09/15 05:01 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Hurry have unapproved sex and snag this one with a baby






Good luck girl shits hard out there and even being married has its ups and downs


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: zappaisgod]
    #22501385 - 11/09/15 05:02 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Knock yourself out but the second bedroom is for his kid when he has him/her.  I don't recall you saying if it's a boy or a girl.




5 year old boy. I don't know what difference that makes in the kid world.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22501755 - 11/09/15 06:06 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

This thread is filled with more fail than I've seen in a long time.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #22501822 - 11/09/15 06:18 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I wouldn't know where to start giving you advice. I would say maybe get a pet. :smile: You can teach a pet to love but sometimes a pet can teach it to you:hippie:. Because when you get to be my age everybody you date has a fucking kid, if you're lucky just one.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: SoloTrip]
    #22501953 - 11/09/15 06:40 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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I wouldn't know where to start giving you advice. I would say maybe get a pet. :smile: You can teach a pet to love but sometimes a pet can teach it to you:hippie:. Because when you get to be my age everybody you date has a fucking kid, if you're lucky just one.




And how old are you? Because I'm in my 30's, and a majority of people my age are childless and unmarried. In fact, having children or being married is much more rare until you hit at least the mid to late 30's.

But, I live in a very liberal and expensive state, in a middle-upper class area. I know that people get married and have children much earlier in rural areas.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22501955 - 11/09/15 06:40 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Knock yourself out but the second bedroom is for his kid when he has him/her.  I don't recall you saying if it's a boy or a girl.




5 year old boy. I don't know what difference that makes in the kid world.



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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #22501962 - 11/09/15 06:41 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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This thread is filled with more fail than I've seen in a long time.



:wonka:

You must be new here.


I dont know if he can accept you for you and him for him shit can work itself out one way or another.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: zappaisgod]
    #22501965 - 11/09/15 06:41 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Knock yourself out but the second bedroom is for his kid when he has him/her.  I don't recall you saying if it's a boy or a girl.




5 year old boy. I don't know what difference that makes in the kid world.



A lot




Tell me more. Seriously. Shed me some insight, you have experience raising boys and girls. Which is better to have when you're dating a single dad? And why?


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22502026 - 11/09/15 06:52 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

If you're in your thirties, then I'm less than 10 years older :wink:. But you should know by now that time moves pretty fast and you'll be right where I am before not too long.:yeahthatsright:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22502117 - 11/09/15 07:08 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Knock yourself out but the second bedroom is for his kid when he has him/her.  I don't recall you saying if it's a boy or a girl.




5 year old boy. I don't know what difference that makes in the kid world.



A lot




Tell me more. Seriously. Shed me some insight, you have experience raising boys and girls. Which is better to have when you're dating a single dad? And why?



Boys are assholes.  Not at his age but by the time he starts high school he will be a complete asshole.  We all were.  Girls have other issues but boys are way worse.  Aggressive and needy is a bad combo.  The girls aren't aggressive.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: zappaisgod]
    #22502140 - 11/09/15 07:11 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

It would be a major faux pais to get in bed with his teenage kid right? :bored:


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    #22502301 - 11/09/15 07:43 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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It would be a major faux pais to get in bed with his teenage kid right? :bored:



5 is not teenage.  If by the time he is a teenager you guys are in cuddle mode and you can keep your perv hands off his wee widdler then it is no problem


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    #22502352 - 11/09/15 07:53 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

um what happened to the guy you married last year?


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    #22502367 - 11/09/15 07:55 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Knock yourself out but the second bedroom is for his kid when he has him/her.  I don't recall you saying if it's a boy or a girl.




5 year old boy. I don't know what difference that makes in the kid world.





IF you get them under 10 you have a chance.  If you're going to get involved with a man who has a teenager, its pretty much hopeless.  especially if its a male teen, he'll end up crushing on you causing all sorts of problems.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: sprinkles]
    #22502556 - 11/09/15 08:39 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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IF you get them under 10 you have a chance.  If you're going to get involved with a man who has a teenager, its pretty much hopeless.  especially if its a male teen, he'll end up crushing on you causing all sorts of problems.




Honestly, that has been my dream come true.

Not even lying, I've had fantasies about fucking my own (hypothetical) teenage son and all his friends. It's the main reason I dreamt about having a son, actually, when I was a high schooler.

Is that weird? Cause I've probably only had that fantasy because I didn't grow up with any men in the household. Come to think of it, I didn't really have any male relatives growing up. So I don't really know what it's like to have nonsexual, family type feelings for a male.

I'm sure if I actually had a son, I would be repelled and disturbed at the thought of actually doing this.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22502635 - 11/09/15 08:59 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Guys can't have that fantasy our penis' look like foreign invaders to other people


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Konyap]
    #22503295 - 11/10/15 01:30 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I used to be happy to have girls fall for me. I'm actually realizing as I grow older that most people are fucking stupid and do shit like you've just mentioned, moving in together at 1 month of knowing a person.

Don't take advice from me though. I've had countless amazing girls fall for me and I'm nearly emotionless from the shit I have went through.

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    #22504001 - 11/10/15 08:19 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Wow! just fucking wow! I can't believe this thread Crystal. You jump from the pan to the flame...now to Mars...then, I guess the sun?
All I can think is that you must be amazing in bed...and that this dude has very little regard for his kid along with himself. Please do them both a favor, as well as yourself...and, step away from this one.
You are an addict and rife with the behavior that accompanies an addict. You are looking for self esteem through the eyes of others and will fail because of this. You need to take care of Crystal for once....I mean really take care of her...try staying off these drugs (subs and all) for a year....then maybe think about getting a hamster or something and keeping that alive for a year. Then maybe a relationship.
Honestly, I don't see any good coming out of this and your runaway addict presence could do irreparable harm to this kid and his dad...maybe I should say to go for it with complete abandon...you usually do the opposite of what people recommend..lol.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Thayendanegea]
    #22504776 - 11/10/15 12:00 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

For sure, this chick could probably suck the white off paint and still smile to swallow the cum. Like my ex that went to my friend after.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Thayendanegea]
    #22505168 - 11/10/15 01:48 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

She has a dog that licks her pussy and I think she masturbates the dog too. She has had pets, this creature doesn't need pets.

That being said, I enjoy Crystals stories like no one elses. I wouldn't want to ever meet her though.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Atrium]
    #22505200 - 11/10/15 01:53 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I don't know, I don't think I'm that good in bed. Whenever guys ask me this question, I always answer that I'm just pretty average. If I'm good at blow job? I always shrug and just answer average. If I'm tight? I just say, IDK average I guess. How would I know how I rank unless I've compared myself to other women?

Here's the thing though, the crucial difference between men and women in bed, is that I've noticed that men get off the hardest whenever the woman is getting off. It's almost like a lot of them can actually FEEL the woman's pleasure.

IDK, maybe I've fucked a lot of empaths in my life. Kind of strange that empaths always seem to be attracted to me.

Women who can't get off or don't enjoy the sex appear to be the worst to men. You guys know what I'm talking about, the type of guy that is quiet and just lays there.

I've been pretty lucky though with all the guys I have sex. Seems like almost all the guys I have sex with end up being bigger than average, and are the types of guys that aim to please. I honestly haven't had sex with a guy who was bad in bed in or even had an average-sized penis since I was like 18. It's like I have a magic radar in my head, and can pick up on things that I don't realize I am picking up on subconsciously.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Atrium] * 3
    #22506521 - 11/10/15 06:41 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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For sure, this chick could probably suck the white off paint and still smile to swallow the cum. Like my ex that went to my friend after.





I find this post, and the way you're talking about her to another dude like she's not even here extremely disrespectful. Although we may not agree with Crystal's choices, this doesn't need to turn into a "shit on Crystal in the most vulgar way possible" party.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: yogabunny]
    #22506870 - 11/10/15 08:09 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Atrium said:
For sure, this chick could probably suck the white off paint and still smile to swallow the cum. Like my ex that went to my friend after.





I find this post, and the way you're talking about her to another dude like she's not even here extremely disrespectful. Although we may not agree with Crystal's choices, this doesn't need to turn into a "shit on Crystal in the most vulgar way possible" party.



http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/22506132#22506132

THIS is why I don't care if people turn it into a shit on Crystal party. Imagine what that poor dad would think if he read this post. Meets this great girl, thinks they are gonna move in together and maybe he won't be so lonely in this world. And this is the woman he's falling for. His cock isn't even dry and shes trying to set up a foursome with a bunch of meatheads. If she wants to post her life for the world to see she gets the judgement she deserves.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: bloodsheen]
    #22506950 - 11/10/15 08:27 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

You guys were the one who advised me not to get too attached to him and broaden my horizons instead. :rolleyes:

I'm dammed if I do, and damned if I dont.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22507328 - 11/10/15 10:07 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I never said broaden your horizons. Your goddamn horizons are too broad as it is. I said don't string this guy along when deep down you're still far more interested in foursomes than settling down with a good man. Your actions have consequences. Its already too late for this guy, once you dump him or it falls apart he will probably experience a significant amount of pain whereas you won't give a flying fuck. Or rather, you will give a whole lot of fucks to random people. Sounds like you've got a solid decade of random fucking and drugs to do before its out of your system. Since you don't want kids your biological clock is no issue. Once you finally see the futility of the millionth one night stand then you'll be ready for a good guy


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: bloodsheen] * 1
    #22507517 - 11/10/15 11:11 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Slow down mannnn

It's been ONE date

And I told him on our date that I am a very promiscuous person. You know, I'm not as dishonest as you think I am.

In fact, once he got really comfortable I was thinking about introducing him to my swinger friends, if he's up for that sort of thing.

And you know, once I introduce him to the prospect of fucking another woman he will have to be okay with my lifestyle of being active with multiple men.

I might not be a monogamous person, but I'm a FAIR AND EQUAL non monogamous person. As long as I'm fucking around, I want my partner to have some fun on the side too. Otherwise I guilt trip way too hard. As long as things are equal, I feel good about what I'm doing. No regrets.

I don't know why people always gotta turn it into an either/or proposition. You can most definitely have your cake and eat it too. You can most definitely have a partner who is your #1 whom you love very much and is your rock and your support and your everything, while still having some other partners who you don't love AS much or necessarily even like, but they are fun to have and something new and interesting besides the same old stuff.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22507705 - 11/11/15 12:42 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

You must be a very lonely person, to come here and post this shit all the time.
If I had a social life I wouldnt' be here, I think i'd be embarassed to tell someone I spend so much time reading dumb peoples stories and opinions


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Konyap]
    #22507775 - 11/11/15 01:12 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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You must be a very lonely person, to come here and post this shit all the time.
If I had a social life I wouldnt' be here, I think i'd be embarassed to tell someone I spend so much time reading dumb peoples stories and opinions




Oh, extremely. I am a loner. I don't have any best friends. I'm not close to anybody and don't hang out with anybody. I don't fuck with nobody.

Because of this, I come here to share all the shit I can't IRL. Alllllll the bullshit I can never ever say to any acquaintances or what friends I do have.

Anyway, why is this so embarrassing? I hang out on Reddit all the time too. Reddit humor is so me.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22507779 - 11/11/15 01:14 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

:hugitout:


Dont worry I know how that goes. Also sometimes you can be to honest.  :rockon:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22507786 - 11/11/15 01:20 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

When I was younger I'd say I played foot ball or exercised or practice music.
Now all I do is play video games and think it seems like. Don't have any friends to do any activities with, besides maybe go out to eat a couple times a year or play a game with online. Since never keep jobs longer then a year once in awhile.
It's fucking pathetic, like what have you been doing the last 7 years? I'm not sure I'd want to share that I visited this board...
I think they'd think I was a nerd or a internet creep/stalker.

So I have to invent someone to have an excuse for these gaps in time.
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Konyap]
    #22507812 - 11/11/15 01:33 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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When I was younger I'd say I played foot ball or exercised or practice music.
Now all I do is play video games and think it seems like. Don't have any friends to do any activities with, besides maybe go out to eat a couple times a year or play a game with online. Since never keep jobs longer then a year once in awhile.
It's fucking pathetic, like what have you been doing the last 7 years? I'm not sure I'd want to share that I visited this board...
I think they'd think I was a nerd or a internet creep/stalker.

So I have to invent someone to have an excuse for these gaps in time.
Even if that someone sucks.




I have hobbies. I make art, I paint, I exercise, I travel, I kayak, I skydive, I swim and surf at the beach, I play music, I ride horses. I don't play video games all day. I still get out there in the real world. I'm visiting 3 countries this year, and within the past year alone I traveled to 5 different cities in America (Seattle, Boston, NYC, Philly, DC).

My lifestyle is one of enjoyment. That is what I do. I follow the philosophy of the great Epicurus. That is the entire reason I'm on this website. Because everything I like is either fattening, expensive, immoral, or illegal.

My idea of a good time is not getting tanked at a bar or a club on Saturday. I like adventure, and that lust for adventure sometimes takes me to a place where I smoke PCP and fuck escorts sometimes.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22507884 - 11/11/15 02:39 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I hear your philosophies etc. but I see the swing side of it.  I don't feel like taking your quotes where in one sentence you say one thing, and then in the next contradict it.  I think you have two different people that live in your head, and they can't see each other.  Depending on the time of day, determines which one takes the wheel and steers.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Amanita86]
    #22507905 - 11/11/15 02:54 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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I hear your philosophies etc. but I see the swing side of it.  I don't feel like taking your quotes where in one sentence you say one thing, and then in the next contradict it.  I think you have two different people that live in your head, and they can't see each other.  Depending on the time of day, determines which one takes the wheel and steers.




That's absolutely true. I definitely recognize that I'm a "grass is greener on the other side" type of person. Once I'm in a relationship, there's nothing I want to do more than get out of it. Once I'm out of a relationship, there's nothing I want to do more than get in one. Once I'm working, there's nothing more I want to do than quit. Once I quit, there's nothing I want more to do than start working again.

That's why I'm trying to live my life in a way that allows me to do both at the same time, at different times. I think I figured out the key to attaining the ultimate happiness, and the key is that my life has to keep fluctuating and changing. I can't always be doing the exact same thing, or I get sick of it.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22521243 - 11/14/15 07:11 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

So, I just wanted to update and let you guys know how REAL sex was with him. Comfortable sex that was not in a car or anything.

He's a very, um.... interesting character. The way he gets off is very, very unique. He prefers woman on top (a position that most guys don't even like, and personally I almost never cum this way so I don't even like it or ever do it usually), and he likes to look you dead in the eyes. He says he prefers it like this because he likes intimate positions and sex. He prefers sex to be as intimate and personal as possible.

I had the holy mother of all orgasms with him. I think my strongest orgasm must have lasted like 2 minutes. We were both laying on the side and he was fucking me from behind to help me get there. He really likes to look into my eyes, so he grabbed my face and turned my neck just as I started cumming, so I was staring at him the whole time my body was shaking and convulsing. It was really fucking sexy, I've never stared into somebody's eyes while having an orgasm before. :drooling: It was quite an experience.

Afterwards he said, "Wow. That was one of the strongest orgasms I've ever seen anybody have." Funny thing is, that wasn't even remotely close to one of my strongest orgasms. Not even top 30. :lol: It was definitely better than any that I've had since like last December though.

So, of course after I came like THAT, I wanted to help him cum too by doing it his preferred way--me on top, staring into his eyes, which was really hot actually. I need to do the staring thing more often, I really dig it.

He's like 9 inches fully hard too, but girth-wise he's perfect and exactly what I like. The only time his length bothers me is just moments before he's about to cum, cause he keeps pushing me down on his dick and it HURTS like FAWKKKKK. Like man, I have a pretty deep G-spot, but I can't take 9 inches completely! Maybe 7 or 8 at most. I try my best to take it though, with clenched teeth and growling in pain, for his pleasure. :lol: Balls deep just is not possible with this guy.

I can tell I will be able to cum that hard and intensely in missionary position with him. I need at least 8 inches, and a circumsized dick to be able to cum in missionary with a guy. It's weird, but those are the only guys I've came with in missionary with, ever.

Before I met him, I was fucking this 22 year old gym rat a few weeks ago (who actually is 8 inches and circumsized), and one of the reasons I thought he was such a passionate lover in bed, is because of the WAY that he stares into your eyes the whole time he's fucking you. And not just staring at you, but the faces he makes while staring into your eyes is INCREDIBLE. It's almost like he was putting a spell on me or hypnotizing me.

Seriously guys, you should try this next time you fuck somebody. After experiencing that, I believe you can totally hypnotize somebody while fucking them.

Honestly, I'm pretty spent. Super sore now. We were having sex for a REALLY long time. I'm good on sex for like 2 or 3 more days. :lol: It's been a very, VERY long time since I've said that.

The best part--he's got a way higher sex drive than I do. :awejeez: Never thought I would find this guy, and now I have, and I don't know what to do with him. Oh, the motherfucking irony. :lol:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22523504 - 11/14/15 05:09 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

You've NEVER stared into somebody's eyes while you were coming? How is that even possible when youve had more sexual partners than most of the shroomery combined?

This guy is way too good for you. Go back to your gym rats.

Shit, now I'm just being a straight up asshole. Not even trying for constructive criticism. I don't know why I hate you so much. I'll hide this thread after I post this so I don't have to feel disgust every time I log into the shroomery.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: bloodsheen]
    #22523660 - 11/14/15 05:50 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Oh, the places you to go.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: bloodsheen]
    #22524963 - 11/14/15 09:35 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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You've NEVER stared into somebody's eyes while you were coming? How is that even possible when youve had more sexual partners than most of the shroomery combined?




Honestly, I don't. Even though my actions make it appear as if I'm bold and fearless, I'm actually very shy and bashful deep down inside, and intense eye contact and intense facial expressions is one of those things that makes me extremely nervous in bed.

I also suffer from terrible stage fright in bed. I actually have terrible performance anxiety. I can't cum if I feel like I'm being watched. Like if somebody is watching me masturbate, there is NO WAY IN HELL I could actually achieve orgasm. Same for penetration. Eye contact, while extremely sexy, is also extremely distracting for me.

It's the reason I can usually only cum in positions where I'm facing away from my partner. Either in doggy, or on my side getting fucked from behind.

With the few guys that I have been able to cum face to face in missionary with, usually I'm always closing my eyes and facing away, and imagining something else entirely different in order to be able to cum.

See, you think that the reason I don't do the eye contact thing is because I'm some sinister or detached person, but that's not the reason at all. It's the total opposite. I never did the eye contact thing, because I have a lot of anxiety and insecurities about myself. It's the performance anxiety, in combination with the fact that I feel like I'm really not that good looking (I don't think I'm UGLY per se, I'm just decent you know), so I usually try to turn my face away instead of facing them directly.

And then of course, once the orgasm comes, I'm usually screaming and flailing about and twitching and shaking so hard, and my head and torso is rocking and flying back and forth, so the LAST thing I'm thinking of doing is holding still and staring into somebody's eyes while orgasming. Like you don't understand, I have SUPER STRONG orgasms. I've seen other women have orgasms in person, and their orgasms are tame as fuck and only last 10-20 seconds. When I cum, I cum HARD. I cum for like 1-2 minutes, and I'm screaming and practically having seizures.

Does anybody really do that? In my experience, I don't recall ever having ONE single partner who looked you in the eyes WHILE having an orgasm. Before, for sure. DURING? Not really. And I've fucked a LOT of dudes.

But you know what, a lot of women are like that. They have to concentrate in order to cum. I've met a fair share of guys that were like that too, in fact. In fact, I'd say roughly 50% of my exes were the same way too.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22525146 - 11/14/15 10:10 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

a girl not looking at me would make me nervous
i mean you're a grown adult you should be able to say some kinky stuff at this point
eyes are the window to the soul, I love looking a girl in the eyes to see the reflection and hearing her moan, cheer me on

a girl looking away just makes me think my dick is hittin gher cervix or that she really wasn't attracted to me when we started having sex


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Konyap]
    #22525663 - 11/14/15 11:22 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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a girl not looking at me would make me nervous
i mean you're a grown adult you should be able to say some kinky stuff at this point
eyes are the window to the soul, I love looking a girl in the eyes to see the reflection and hearing her moan, cheer me on

a girl looking away just makes me think my dick is hittin gher cervix or that she really wasn't attracted to me when we started having sex




Hmmmm, that's an interesting take to it. Cause that's not the reason at all for me, the reason I'm looking away is because I have performance issues and because I think I'M not that attractive.

I do make LOTS of noise though so it should be VERY obvious I'm in pleasure the whole time. The only time I get real quiet is literally moments before I'm about to cum. I get quiet but start breathing very heavily, which is a clue for most guys that I'm close.

If he's on top, I also squeeze his butt and push him deeper and harder in to me too and this is when I make the most noise TBH. And when I'm REALLY in pleasure I dig my fingers into his arms and squeal...

I don't talk a lot in bed, I don't do the whole dirty talking thing because that forces me to think which is also distracting for me... at least not elaborate dirty talk where I'm describing things, but I do scream "FUCK" "HOLY JESUS" or "OH MY FUCKING GOD" a lot. I've been told I'm a very very vocal lover, as far as the sounds I make.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22525795 - 11/15/15 12:03 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I've had one girl that was like that. Super loud and couldn't control herself during each orgasm. I have seen a lot of Asian porn and think Asian twats are way more sensitive because they all scream and flail about.

I've never been with an Asian, but I want to bad. It's pretty lame to be with a quiet lover and wonder if they are enjoying themselves after I've been with a screaming girl.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Distorted Vision] * 1
    #22528153 - 11/15/15 04:20 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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I've had one girl that was like that. Super loud and couldn't control herself during each orgasm. I have seen a lot of Asian porn and think Asian twats are way more sensitive because they all scream and flail about.




Who knows how much of that is acting in porn, honestly. I hate watching fake shit, personally. I prefer to make my own porn honestly. :cool:

Orgasm strength varies from person to person. I've seen people (both men and women) have weak-ass orgasms. I've never seen or met anybody who has stronger orgasms than I do though.

I have heard about it. But never seen it in person. Usually whenever guys see me orgasm, they are surprised and elated and they ALWAYS comment about how strong my orgasms are. The funny part is, the orgasms I have around these guys are nowhere close to the strongest orgasms I've ever had in my life.

The strongest orgasms I've ever had in my life either involve squirting, or crystal meff. :lol:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22555700 - 11/21/15 02:00 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

think of all the things you missed by having sex so quickly. I know everyone is different, but if this guy seemed so special why would you wanna rush into it? He'd have to be one in a million for me to overlook the kid thing.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: lillFish]
    #22557206 - 11/21/15 08:16 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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think of all the things you missed by having sex so quickly. I know everyone is different, but if this guy seemed so special why would you wanna rush into it? He'd have to be one in a million for me to overlook the kid thing.




I'm personally the opposite from most people. Every time I ended up waiting 10 dates only to have sex, I've lost interest in the guy almost immediately afterward. Then I'm like, "Damn! Why did I waste so much time doing that?"

Almost all my relationships have started out with a one-night stand. Totally true.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22558534 - 11/22/15 07:22 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Shooting subs= drug addict in waiting.:bubbles:
Sad but true.

Your 30, soon you will be 40, and you will be still on shoomery, telling us you met the best guy ever, and he wants to impregnate you.:ahahaha:

Your like me. A extremist. You will never be happy with one person for long. Sad but true. So own it.:africaface:

Just tell dude, you want to fuck, that the sex is good. That ur not looking to get serious. Because in the end, well you already know how this fairytale ends, you live it time and time again, just like the drug fairytale. In the end you will die alone and with lots of cats, but with great stories.:jokerclap:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22559157 - 11/22/15 11:17 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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think of all the things you missed by having sex so quickly. I know everyone is different, but if this guy seemed so special why would you wanna rush into it? He'd have to be one in a million for me to overlook the kid thing.




I'm personally the opposite from most people. Every time I ended up waiting 10 dates only to have sex, I've lost interest in the guy almost immediately afterward. Then I'm like, "Damn! Why did I waste so much time doing that?"

Almost all my relationships have started out with a one-night stand. Totally true.



Me too.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Madcaps]
    #22559355 - 11/22/15 12:03 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Madcaps]
    #22559356 - 11/22/15 12:03 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Shooting subs= drug addict in waiting.:bubbles:
Sad but true.

Your 30, soon you will be 40, and you will be still on shoomery, telling us you met the best guy ever, and he wants to impregnate you.:ahahaha:

Your like me. A extremist. You will never be happy with one person for long. Sad but true. So own it.:africaface:

Just tell dude, you want to fuck, that the sex is good. That ur not looking to get serious. Because in the end, well you already know how this fairytale ends, you live it time and time again, just like the drug fairytale. In the end you will die alone and with lots of cats, but with great stories.:jokerclap:




I'm allergic to cats. I'll own a ton of robots probably. But I'll definitely have great stories. :-D


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22559446 - 11/22/15 12:28 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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I'm allergic to cats.




Well that puts the kibosh on you and me.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: zappaisgod]
    #22559482 - 11/22/15 12:36 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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I'm allergic to cats.




Well that puts the kibosh on you and me.




Do you have long-hair, short-hair, or medium-hair? Because I'm not allergic to certain types of length of hair of cats. I stayed at this bodybuilder guy's place for about a week a few weeks ago, and he had a cat, and I wasn't allergic to it until I held it and put it up to my face.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22560731 - 11/22/15 05:47 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Two shorts and one that is probably medium/long.  So you're saying we still might have a chance?


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: zappaisgod]
    #22561365 - 11/22/15 09:01 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Just maybe zaps. :lol:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22564156 - 11/23/15 03:58 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Woo hoo.:penis:


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: yogabunny]
    #22614125 - 12/04/15 06:16 PM (8 years, 1 month ago)

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For sure, this chick could probably suck the white off paint and still smile to swallow the cum. Like my ex that went to my friend after.





I find this post, and the way you're talking about her to another dude like she's not even here extremely disrespectful. Although we may not agree with Crystal's choices, this doesn't need to turn into a "shit on Crystal in the most vulgar way possible" party.



Deal with it.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #22614144 - 12/04/15 06:20 PM (8 years, 1 month ago)

This thread is pointless.
You met a guy who has a kid, with the kid being a deal breaker.

Why are you asking for advice? 

You already said the kid is a dealbreaker, so move on and forget the guy.



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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Crystal G]
    #27970439 - 09/27/22 10:14 AM (1 year, 4 months ago)

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I had THE MOST amazing date tonight. Literally did not think I would connect on that level with anybody. After running through tons of hot but super basic and BAF (boring as fuck) guy after guy, I finally hit it off with somebody who's on my cerebral level.

We are both the same age, I loved the smell of his pheromones almost instantly from the moment I got in the car with him, we ended up having a lovely conversation all night on the beach for close to 6 hours and stargazing watching shooting stars and comets. I swear there was a meteor shower tonight, because we ended up seeing 3 shooting stars. Almost felt magical.

But, just before I was about to have sex with him, he dropped the bomb on me. He told me he has a 5 year old CHILD who he shares joint custody with, which has always been a deal breaker for me. He could sense that I was panicking and really freaking out about him having a kid (I honestly didn't even realize I was having a complete anxiety attack in front of him),  and reassured me that I don't ever have to meet his child if I don't want to. He looked me dead in the eyes and reassured me that he's not looking for a replacement mom or anything like that, and that I could just speak up and meet his child whenever I feel ready.

And of course, me being the opportunist that I am, I still HAD to have sex with him and see how he was in bed before giving a final assessment of him or rejecting him completely. First of all, just out of curiosity. Like come on, I have needs too. And, because every single one of my serious relationships always started out with a one-night stand (seriously, I'm not even lying or exaggerating).

Turns out he BLEW. MY. MIND. He feels A MILLION TIMES BETTER than any of my exes or anybody I've ever had inside of me. Which is crazy, because I always thought one of my exes from 3 years ago was a sex GOD, and that NOBODY could EVER top him. (He always made me cum from oral first, and then again in pretty much any position possible, but even then it still took us at least a month to achieve that point, it NEVER happened from the first time). Lately I'll admit I've been kind of missing him, but now I feel super glad and relieved knowing things didn't work out between us, knowing what other type of magic dick is out there in the world.

I don't remember exactly how many times I came, I'm pretty sure it was at least 5 times (without clitoral stimulation even, AND while partially under the influence of alcohol, which NEVER happens for me). I ALWAYS need clitoral stimulation, and I can almost NEVER cum under the influence of any drugs, especially alcohol (or if I do it ends up taking me FUCKING FOREVERRRRRRR LIKE A FUCKING HOUR WTF IS THAT SHIT). I was making faces I've NEVER made during sex before, and grinding my fucking teeth and going fucking cross-eyed like there was no tomorrow. Amazing. Hallelujah.

And no, I was not even ovulating. Not even remotely close. Even though he claimed he totally wants to marry me and have my babies (I just LMFAO'ed and snickered silently to myself because uhh, let's just say, he don't fucken' know the crazy that is me yet LOLOLOLLLLL :lol: ), I was guaranteed at least several weeks away from even being close to possibly pregnant. Basically meaning, that was 100% his skills, and not the "perfect timing" that did it for me.

So now, after that amazing time, I am left more confused and perplexed than ever. If he just royally SUCKED in bed, then I could easily give him up and dump his ass on the spot. But now, because of the connection we had mentally AND physically, I'm left wondering whether I should forgo my "no kids" rule and just go for it. I mean why not, right? Seems like my "no kids" rule has led me nowhere. Maybe the person who will FINALLY be able to take care of me would be an experienced daddy figure. (Seriously, wouldn't that be the ultimate irony if the thing I was avoiding most was the thing I actually needed most? Because in my experience, life is most certainly backwards and a beautiful paradox like that.)

Oh, and BTW, he's black and Latino and Irish and Asian. What a wonderful combination. But the best part is, he looks mixed ethnic, BUT being a video game developer, he totally has an authentic Asian brain. THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS!!!! Sorry, did that sound racist? Totally sounds racist as fuck LMAO. Oh wait... sorry not sorry. Turns out that's exactly the type of guy that attracts me the most, and exactly the type of person I was looking for all along.

I agreed to see him a second time, and told him that I wanted to spend the night at his place and cook for him. I'm really not sure why I said that, to be honest, and I'm totally fucking kicking myself now for saying I would do that. But now that I blurted it out, I feel like I have to do it. What should I do guys? Should I give it a shot, or be like, nahhhh kids are too much work, F all that noise, and fuck him (both literally and figuratively) altogether?

God, life is soooo strange and ironic. I feel like in a strange way this was meant to happen, and I should just go for it. You guys don't understand, I literally JUST made a POF profile last night, and he was the VERY FIRST person to message me, and we ended up sending each other paragraphs and paragraphs of conversation to each other all night. It's funny, because I do not even bother responding to 99% of guys who message me first on any online dating website, but for some strange reason I was really drawn to his personality from the get-go.

The very next night, I ended up agreeing to meet him, and we had this unexpectedly beautiful 12-hour date. The timing on this is so fucking perfect it's fucking INSANE. What fucking luck I have, that THE VERY FIRST person I meet from online dating actually ends up this way? THE FUCK!?!!?!?!?!

Seriously, I'm left confused and wondering now which step to go in my life. Going this route could completely change my life, for better or for worse. This is a MAJOR life changing decision, and I am not about to take it lightly. Considering the fact that he is already head over heels in love with me and is already talking about marriage and wanting children with me (he even told me that the first thing he is going to do when he gets back home is delete his POF profile, because apparently I've been the woman he's been looking for for the past 2 years). Which means, the decision is basically 100% mine to either leave him or give him a chance. SERIOUSLY WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO, GUYS?!?!?!! Because I have a feeling there are NOT plenty of fish like him out there in the sea, despite the fact that he has a child.




Hmm. I wonder whatever happened to this story 6 years later? Good ending? Married happily ever after?

Or perhaps she has long since decided to just have sex with lots of other people. We just won't ever know unless Crystal G reappears one day which may never happen.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27971727 - 09/28/22 07:05 AM (1 year, 3 months ago)

I think it's hilarious she's attributing her orgasm to his skill. She's breaking her biggest taboo -- of course she will cum. It's so wrong but oh, so right!


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #27972348 - 09/28/22 02:09 PM (1 year, 3 months ago)

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Hmm. I wonder whatever happened to this story 6 years later? Good ending? Married happily ever after?

Or perhaps she has long since decided to just have sex with lots of other people. We just won't ever know unless Crystal G reappears one day which may never happen.




I suggest you click on the reddit link in crystal g's signature. Her reddit account gives a pretty good idea how it turned out.
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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Markamello] * 1
    #27974021 - 09/29/22 02:00 PM (1 year, 3 months ago)

Is that the same Asianvixen4u on Pornhub?

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    #27974125 - 09/29/22 03:15 PM (1 year, 3 months ago)

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Is that the same Asianvixen4u on Pornhub?

:mindblown:




I can't be 100% sure about a lot of things. But I'm 100% sure that it is lol.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Markamello]
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Markamello said:
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Hmm. I wonder whatever happened to this story 6 years later? Good ending? Married happily ever after?

Or perhaps she has long since decided to just have sex with lots of other people. We just won't ever know unless Crystal G reappears one day which may never happen.




I suggest you click on the reddit link in crystal g's signature. Her reddit account gives a pretty good idea how it turned out.
:ohwow:




No shit? :ohwow:

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Is that the same Asianvixen4u on Pornhub?

:mindblown:




I can't be 100% sure about a lot of things. But I'm 100% sure that it is lol.




I'm pretty sure it is too lol 100%

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Mistress June. The climax queen. Wow she can get really deep in there.


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Re: Had the Most Amazing Date Tonight--But He Has a Child (Dealbreaker for Me). What to do? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #27993673 - 10/11/22 12:28 PM (1 year, 3 months ago)

Yes, its her

We connected on Pornhub :lol:


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