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Re: Need advice for this situation that I am in. (Woman trouble) [Re: qman]
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MagicMush123 said:
I don't think he implied that at all. I think you're trying to put a male chauvinist spin on his post



qman said:
If you're constantly apologizing for petty nonsense, you have lost control of the relationship.



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Re: Need advice for this situation that I am in. (Woman trouble) [Re: Mercurious]
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So? Control is maybe the wrong word, but if you're constantly apologizing it's not healthy.

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Re: Need advice for this situation that I am in. (Woman trouble) [Re: Mercurious]
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Mercurious said:
MagicMush123 said:
I don't think he implied that at all. I think you're trying to put a male chauvinist spin on his post


qman said:
If you're constantly apologizing for petty nonsense, you have lost control of the relationship.



That means he feels males should control relationships?

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Re: Need advice for this situation that I am in. (Woman trouble) [Re: unam sanctum]
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My point was that either party trying to control anything is unhealthy. So is always apologizing. I don't know what mush is having a fit over--he just likes to argue with me about anything. It's unfortunate.


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Re: Need advice for this situation that I am in. (Woman trouble) [Re: Mercurious]
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Nah. I think he meant that when one party is dominant or is always nagging and bitching as in the op, and he finds himself always having to apologize, and is afraid to divulge his own feelings. That the relationship has lost control and is heading towards disaster. But idk im not such a negative thinker that, i assume everything is either male dominance, racism or trump. Fair enough dusty buffy?

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Re: Need advice for this situation that I am in. (Woman trouble) [Re: Bumbaa] * 1
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If you've broken up and got back together again, IT WILL NOT WORK IN THE LONG RUN.

Deal with the scariness of it and be alone for some time.

You will grow immensely.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
--Jac O'keeffe

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Re: Need advice for this situation that I am in. (Woman trouble) [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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Jokeshopbeard said:
If you've broken up and got back together again, IT WILL NOT WORK IN THE LONG RUN.


I don't necessarily agree with that, but I think if you've broken up with someone and gotten back together...and the problems are still exactly the same, then yes, it's not going to work. Because that person clearly does not care enough about you to try and change for the better. Especially not after multiple breakups like OP has stated. This chick just sounds like a raging bitch.


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Re: Need advice for this situation that I am in. (Woman trouble) [Re: Mercurious]
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I agree with jokeshopbeard on this one....people dont change :house:


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Re: Need advice for this situation that I am in. (Woman trouble) [Re: Mercurious]
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If it ever gets so bad that you can't work through it, then it's gonna get worse in time.

It's simple fucking logic man.

Life gets harder with time. If you can't weather the storm in the early days, you sure as fuck won't in the later ones.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
--Jac O'keeffe

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Re: Need advice for this situation that I am in. (Woman trouble) [Re: Jokeshopbeard] * 1
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hear hear! I went back 4 times to someone still expecting it to "work this time". OP: step back and examine every facet, let go and see where that takes you. I've had about 3-4 serious relationships and I remember the point where they were doomed. It sounds like it may be time to let go no matter how painful it can be. You WILL meet another person someday and you will wonder why you hung on to that other relationship. I do still think about one of them more than I would like to, but 20 years is hard to forget. Going on 3 years now with someone I always wanted to meet, never thought it would happen in a million years and I had just given up and said fuck it, I'll be the single guy that just brings home tricks every now and then when I get tired of whacking it, and then BAM! There they w:grin:ere.


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