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OfflineSilven
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Relationship advice? :)
    #3212860 - 10/04/04 08:50 AM (12 years, 2 months ago)

So, here is my situation.

The girl I'm with now is constantly in a bad mood, she wants to quit her job and work for a tanning place for half pay / half tanning (3 hours a day, 3 days a week), and that doesn't pay bills, and I find it putting me in a bad mood when all she does is bitch about her job, all her/my friends, anyone I talk to, or anything I do.  The only reason I'm with her is because I told her I wouldn't be the one to leave her, back in the day when we used to have things in common and when she wasn't such a constant thunderstorm waiting to strike me with lightning.

Now, there is this other girl, Tara, whom I've been hanging out with and she has a boyfriend.  Coincidentally her boyfriend is a mental case and just the other night got drunk and punched her passenger window out of her car while she was in it, showering her with glass, etc.  Anyway, yesterday we were talking about our significant others and all the things we like to do, and all the complaints we had seemed to be basically the same.  Eventually we went to this tunnel that her and my sister knew about and wanted to show me.

When we got to the tunnel we were all laughing and smoking a bowl, and went in.  When we were in the tunnel she ended up putting her arms around me, and kept clasping my arm in both hers and following as close to me as she could.  A few times I put my hand on hers, and one time I squeezed her arms around me...

I think I know what I want, but don't know how I should go about getting it since I had made that promise to my current girlfriend.  But given my current state and the way she constantly is, I need to get away from this relationship I think... 

What I was hoping you could help me out with is your opinion on my situation.

Would you continue this relationship I'm in, even if it means being miserable, or would you find some way to end it?

I don't even know if Tara is going to break up with her boyfriend, even though she said she wants to.  She feels the same way I do.  Constantly miserable, up against a wall, and unable to cope.  I should mention her boyfriend doesn't even have a job and refuses to help her pay bills or do anything except get high.  The way it seems is that my girlfriend and her boyfriend need to get together. :lol:

Anyway.. gimme feedback if you read all this.
- Silven :mushroom2:


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Born: 10/31/83, which makes me a Scorpio.

1) Scorpios are the most highly sexed of all the signs of the zodiac.
2) Scorpios are prone to excesses: booze, drugs, sex, bad puns, etc.
They usually exploit the weaknesses of others, who fall victim to
their capacity for total lust & sexual abberation.
3) Scorpios possess great intellectual curiosity & creative talent. They
think they are rebels & are arrogant, proud, conceited, and worth every
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What do you bring to the table?


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Re: Relationship advice? :) [Re: Silven]
    #3213002 - 10/04/04 10:18 AM (12 years, 2 months ago)

Get rid of the woman... if your not happy its only gona get worse. This Tara sounds like a good lady. Dont go single expecting anything from her, but id definatly concider the outcome if you do. Hell if you wana protect your interests, help her break up with her BF first, then ditch yo woman.


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Re: Relationship advice? :) [Re: Suffer]
    #5324035 - 02/21/06 03:20 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

cheat on your girlfriend, therefore tara cheats on hers
they'll dump you and you'll be single people that can be together!


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Re: Relationship advice? :) [Re: Silven]
    #5324167 - 02/21/06 03:57 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Don't be "that" guy that cheats on your g/f...be a man, and break up with her first. She'll be pissed off, but it's the right thing to do.

It's one thing to stay in a relationship because of a 'promise' you made, but if the circumstances have changed and so has she, I would say that releases you from that committment.


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Re: Relationship advice? :) [Re: Rono]
    #5324176 - 02/21/06 03:59 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Aww, this is an old post..

I thought Silven was back posting


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Re: Relationship advice? :) [Re: Boom]
    #5324178 - 02/21/06 04:00 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Yeah, I haven't seen him in a while.


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