k00laid said:

i dont often ask women if they are single or not.

if they are having sex with me, i assume they are single.



i dont do background checks on the bar women i bone.

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....which would be how many girls exactly?

k00laid said:

thats not what was going on in the OP


but thanks for your story

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Az0th said:

If you cheated with my gf I'd bash your skull in to the point of brains oozing all over the pavement. even if we were best friends. She would never do that to me though.

Anyone that would willingly cheat on their BF/GF that easily is a scumbag anyway and not relationship material, if you are willingly facilitating the cheating then yeah you are too. Both people are equally guilty.

Just be careful out there. You may just break some guys heart, or he may unload a magazine into your face. But keep doing it and eventually it WILL catch up to you.

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Az0th said:

Otherwise the OP would say: I sleep with random girls I meet at bars and don't know/care if they have a bf or not.

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Icepic said:

I had a buddy that was a ladies man, always was having sex with other people's wives GFs etc, he thought the same way, if they gonna cheat anyway it might as well be with me. He did this for several years, and had a blast. unfortunately for him one of the women's husbands found out about it, my buddy got shot by the husband as he was leaving his apartment, he didn't make it.

    Il told him for years don't mess with other people's women, it will catch up with you eventually  and it did, I just didn't think he was gonna pay for it with his life. Love is the number one motive for murder, no pussy is worth getting killed over especially when there are plenty of single women. You say the men won't find out, that's what my buddy thought, and he got stalked and assassinated when he was leaving his own home by the guy who was never gonna find out. I'd reassess what your doing man, you are playing with fire big time.

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Az0th said:

If you cheated with my gf I'd bash your skull in to the point of brains oozing all over the pavement. even if we were best friends. She would never do that to me though.

Anyone that would willingly cheat on their BF/GF that easily is a scumbag anyway and not relationship material, if you are willingly facilitating the cheating then yeah you are too. Both people are equally guilty.

Just be careful out there. You may just break some guys heart, or he may unload a magazine into your face. But keep doing it and eventually it WILL catch up to you.

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Az0th said:

I would be pissed at both people in such a situation. No one owes me anything, but I would probably break someone. Just being honest.

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Hiker said:

I think it's ridiculous that all of you are giving OP such a hard time over all of this.

None of you seem to place the blame on the woman where it belongs. She's a human being who is making her own decisions. By putting the blame on the other guy, you're basically objectifying the woman as if she is a piece of property that he has stolen from you.

If her boyfriend isn't your friend, why should he concern you?  Of course, I do agree that people who fuck their friends' wives and girlfriends should be treated as backstabbers, but these are two-faced people who are not trustworthy in any circumstance, not just the cheating wife scenario. Even then, the wife should be equally (if not more) culpable.

To call OP the "scum of the earth" for consenting to sex with a woman seeking it from him--when, for all intents and purposes, he knows nothing of the "boyfriend" on the other end--is childish. It conjures the image of an insecure man who isn't confident enough in his own ability to maintain a relationship with the girl, so he lashes out on those who might be able to actually satisfy her.

Just my 2 cents

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