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InvisibleLeViTY
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Help?
    #1621212 - 06/09/03 05:43 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

Tonight, all of my best friends will be graduating...

I probably won't see most of them again.

I have no idea how I will continue highschool without them...

How can I keep myself from falling apart?


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Re: Help? [Re: LeViTY]
    #1621339 - 06/09/03 06:24 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

Keep in touch with them  :smirk:
 


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Re: Help? [Re: MushMushi]
    #1621398 - 06/09/03 06:42 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

I was thinking like you abit ago...it was my friends graduation party this saturday. Thats the way life is, things change. It sucks but w/e, you have other friends (hopefully) and the ones that graduated didn't die or anything, they're just going to be going to a new school. Keep in touch, chill on weekends, after school w/e. You got to college and make new friends, same happens when you get a job or move. Its part of life....


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Re: Help? [Re: LeViTY]
    #1621703 - 06/09/03 08:21 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

Remember that real friends stay in contact. Nothing is stopping you from giving them a phone call and meeting them somewhere when you miss them.

Distance is the only thing that can seperate real friends. And I didn't hear you say anything about moving away, did I? :smirk:


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Re: Help? [Re: LeViTY]
    #1621780 - 06/09/03 08:44 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

You'll find that after high school most of your old friends will slowly disappear as they go off to separate colleges/jobs/whatever. I remember when I graduated HS I was really upset about how impossible it seemed to keep in touch with everyone I knew. Three years later I no longer see or talk to any of them, but it's not a big deal because I've made lots of new friends at college. Sure I missed them at first, but I got over it.

So my advice is, make an effort to keep in touch with the people that mean the most to you, but don't don't try to hang on to them forever if fate is pulling them away from you. Everyone has their own path in life and you can't expect to have the same friends your whole life. Anyway, if you lose some friends, making new ones is so much more fun.  :smile: 


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Re: Help? [Re: LeViTY]
    #1621975 - 06/09/03 09:49 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

Hey Levity,
I know how u feel...
The same thing happed to me when I graduated a few years ago.
Then I made some new friends, lost some more friends, made a
few new ones, lost a few, lost a wife, a job, another job, house,
loot, country of abode... and here I am... with Tons of the best
friends I've ever had right here on the shroomery...
times and people come and go, keep in touch with those u can,
but don't strain to hold on to tight to things/people, for all shall pass...
touch the world lightly, with gentle caring, cherish everything
and everyone, clingging to nothing...  :smile: and remind me I said this
when Im down  :smirk: 


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Re: Help? [Re: lucid]
    #1622264 - 06/09/03 11:12 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

personally i find it sweet to get a full new set of friends and start over, i had lots in HS but really know they didn't have that much in common with me.


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Re: Help? [Re: jarby]
    #1622285 - 06/09/03 11:18 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

Yeah, I shudder to think about the company I kept in high school... damn...


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Re: Help? [Re: LeViTY]
    #1622332 - 06/09/03 11:41 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

don't forget you can make new friends, and don't forget the friends you've lost :smile:


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Re: Help? [Re: Strumpling]
    #1622446 - 06/10/03 12:15 AM (13 years, 5 months ago)

and we'll ALWAYS be here for u... :smile:
they'll have to amputate my fingers before they can stop me from postin
at the shroomery...


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Re: Help? [Re: LeViTY]
    #1623559 - 06/10/03 01:37 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

So you and your friends aren't in the same grade?


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Re: Help? [Re: Twelve_Nomads]
    #1623583 - 06/10/03 01:53 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

No, they are above me.


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Re: Help? [Re: LeViTY]
    #1626031 - 06/11/03 11:32 AM (13 years, 5 months ago)

I moved, and had to change high schools, after my grade 11 year.

The move meant a new city, new school, and NEW FRIENDS would be needed.

I'm a shy person by nature, and at the time I was a LOT worse, so getting to know people wasn't always easy for me. That made making new friends hard at times, too.

Well anyway I made new friends when I started grade 12....but all my new friends were in grade 13. They all graduated and went away to university the next year.

So again, it was like I had just moved.

Before long, though, I made new friends again. I had a good set of friends for grade 13.

Then we all graduated and I came to the city I live in now to go to the university here. None of my friends came to this university though. So I had to make all new friends again.

But now comes the part you won't see till it comes:

Two of my friends from my FIRST high school, one of them being a guy I've known since grade 2, also came down to this university. So I had some really good friends, and we became even better friends again as we had not talked much since I moved.

Then after first year they both went home to other schools.

A few years later now. The guys I live with are all people I've known since grade 9. We've started a band together (well they had one, asked me to join). We fight for the same things. They are truely my best friends. Back in high school I hardly knew these guys - they were just aquaintences.

You see how things work out?


Don't worry LeV! True friends will stay with you no matter what. You'll find a way to keep the friendship strong.

But you can't get stuck on the past and not make any new friends. There are plenty of GOOD PEOPLE out there who are also looking for another friend  :smile:


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Driving you mad.


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Re: Help? [Re: trendal]
    #1626534 - 06/11/03 04:13 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

I would suggest not worrying about one happens. If they are good friends they will keep in touch with you. If they don't, they probably aren't good friends now are they.


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Re: Help? [Re: LeViTY]
    #1629586 - 06/12/03 08:15 PM (13 years, 5 months ago)

When I was younger, and applying for high school (we call it college here), one of my good friends couldn't get in, because he was out of the zone and had to place a special application. He didn't get accepted in, so he had to go to another college. But, we kept in touch over the years. Most of the time, I saw him more than my friends I knew at college, because he was a much better friend to be around sometimes. Besides, I saw my friends all week at school. Recently he left the country to study in Oz (Hotel Management). He came back a few months ago, as it was the holidays for his course, and we kept in touch the whole time. We went chat online sometimes a few times a week, and when he came back, we would catch up with a session, and see how he was.
It was over 6 years ago that we got seperated by school, and we still keep in touch and hang out sometimes. So don't despair.
And, my friends from my college, I never see anymore, because we've gone seperate ways really. We were quite different. I made a bunch of new friends when I switched college though, and I hang out with them every weekend, so it's not all bad :smile: 


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