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How do I stop crushing on someone...
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...that I can't be with (in the near future anyway), when non-contact isn't an option.

It's driving me nuts!

To the point of depression even.

Meaningless sex hasn't worked.

Advice?

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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: Apocalypso]
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get a new dog

just kidding.. but in all seriousness.. seek mental help.. in the very least theyll give you something that will make you think of rainbow butterflys instead of killing yourself over some crush

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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: R10tGuNn3r]
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Convince yourself to stop liking them. Takes a hell of a lot of willpower but it does work. Just remember that like/love/lust is a series of chemical and mental reactions that can be initiated by practically anyone.

Just a mean cold cynical way to look at it :grin:.


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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: R10tGuNn3r]
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Wouldn't say I'm thinking of killing myself...its not that severe.. Just feeling real low all the time over it, losing alot of motivation and such.

Bumbed out also cos I missed a real obvious chance a while ago. So i'm kickin myself for that.

This isn't some short term thing either, its been goin on for a while now and gettin worse and worse. Tryin to convince myself to stop but its pretty hard lol

Edited by Apocalypso (09/10/09 01:24 AM)

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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: Apocalypso]
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Think about the negative aspects of their personality and dwell on them.


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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: claraclairvoyant]
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Ahahah! You're brilliant! I hope I never, ever meet you.


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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: Corrie]
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drink until you go into a coma. wake up when you can get with him/her.


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goodbye sober day / hello milky way

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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: Apocalypso]
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Apocalypso said:
This isn't some short term thing either, its been goin on for a while now and gettin worse and worse. Tryin to convince myself to stop but its pretty hard lol


you're in love with a person who isn't in love with you. You are not in love with what it really is, you are in love with what you want it to be...it's not, and probably never will be, even if you got with her, so let it go and stop with the self-destructive mindset.

If you think it's bad now it would be a million times worse when she broke up with you for some reason that was beyond your frame of mind, and good chances are that would have something to do with you placing all of your desires upon her, when she is just a person trying to live their own life. Just let it be...things work out better when they happen naturally, not forced


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YOUR ARGUMENT IS INVALID

Edited by the bizzle (09/10/09 01:47 AM)

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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: the bizzle]
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Wise words. Good advice everyone, appreciate it

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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: the bizzle]
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Yeah man there ain't no point dwelling on something that ain't gonna happen no matter what you do. All this emotional energy you're putting off by being depressed and thinking about this person, put that energy in to finding somebody else, who could potentially be even better.


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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: Corrie]
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Corrie said:
Ahahah! You're brilliant! I hope I never, ever meet you.




Made sense to me.:shrug:


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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: DeathCompany]
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It doesn't help that she used to like me, I had a girl at the time though. Maybe I'm just taking that and blowing it up to a big deal. Ah well, just gonna have to get over it. If anything happens in the future its gotta happen naturally, otherwise, fuck it.

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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: Apocalypso]
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You should find another bitch to date. Maybe she will get jealous and come running.


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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: z_x_x_z]
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i feel where OP is coming from though. I mean, I've been crushing on this girl since I was 16, and we fooled around/pretty much dated for a while, but nothing official. I've even been in other committed relationships and still couldn't shake the crush/puppy love I felt for her. It was never too bad because I could always hang out with her whenever I wanted to. Until recently that is, when she joined Americorps and moved to Yakima WA.

Something about the distance made it even harder.

OP, I feel you man.

I just remember the good times :shrug: like as if we had been together and then broken up or something. It helps.

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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: z_x_x_z]
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dr_gonz said:
what's the story?


Basically I've gotten to close with this girl who I've been good friends with for a while. Problem is she's already in a relationship (that's been on and off). I'm not the type to fuck with other people for my own benefit though so I'm trying to get it out of my head and let it go.

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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: Apocalypso]
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Mchaggis said:
i feel where OP is coming from though. I mean, I've been crushing on this girl since I was 16, and we fooled around/pretty much dated for a while, but nothing official. I've even been in other committed relationships and still couldn't shake the crush/puppy love I felt for her. It was never too bad because I could always hang out with her whenever I wanted to. Until recently that is, when she joined Americorps and moved to Yakima WA.

Something about the distance made it even harder.

OP, I feel you man.

I just remember the good times :shrug: like as if we had been together and then broken up or something. It helps.


Sorry to hear that man, nothin like young love huh?

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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: Apocalypso]
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yeah, no shit.

You're not alone I guess is what I was trying to say.

I hope eventually you and me both can get over it. You especially man :thumbup: I'm not depressed about it really like you are.

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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: Mchaggis]
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I, for one, refuse to believe that mindless sex isn't the answer.  If it isn't working you must not be doing it right.

Anyhow, I would pick up a hobby.  Your problem is that you need something else to focus your mind on. 

. . . perhaps mindless sex.


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The trouble with fighting for human freedom is that one spends most of one's time defending scoundrels. For it is against scoundrels that oppressive laws are first aimed, and oppression must be stopped at the beginning if it is to be stopped at all.
     
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Re: How do I stop crushing on someone... [Re: Smackshadow]
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or another chick...


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