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Winter came and I lost all motivation
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My friends stopped coming out as much.  Then I quit my job.

Now I'm sat at home playing Oblivion and Halo 3 or posting on here 18 hours a day.

I've lost all my motivation to do anything apart from goto a pub on Friday night.

On the plus side though I've managed to get down to 1 cig per day thanks to not having the stress of work and I've plenty of time to work on the music I make.

Even my posts here used to have content.  I kinda feel like I've given up on life at the mo.  I'm just existing, floating along, waiting for something to happen that never does.

I'd like to get a girl but that won't happen while living here...  I don't even bother with women anymore.  The ones I know are just friends to me and I don't even want to date them.

I don't even have sex drive or food drive anymore they are at bare minimum.  Its 3 in the morning and I'm not even tired.  I have a gram of coke and a gram of MDMA.  They have been sat there for months and I don't even have the desire to do them.  :crazy2:


To some it up I'm pretty much emotionless and desireless.  I don't think that until that sun comes back out that I'm gonna change.

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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: Ego Death]
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Ego Death said:
I have a gram of coke and a gram of MDMA.  They have been sat there for months and I don't even have the desire to do them.  :crazy2:



i can come over plz?

nah seriously though, i know exactly how you feel, but i kinda foster my situation since it keeps my spending to a minimum, savings to a maximum, and time flies by sooooo fast. i am literally fast forwarding to the important part of my life, which is approaching, so ill eventually have to slow everything down. but in the meantime my hermit lifestyle is very satisfying.

wish i had what you had tho.

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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: Ego Death]
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An all so common story my friend. What can we do? I guess we just wait untill "it" happens right? Haha. I know you want that sense of fulfillment right so you can be content with yourself. Well that shit ain't gona happen till you do somthing about. Too bad were all too pussy to do anything and when it all comes down to it we would rather just be here sitting, wasting away, watching our screens.


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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: fawhit]
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i wouldn't say all of us

you make it sound so pitiful, do what makes you happy.


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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: hazey]
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If you were here I'd dose you up :grin: I got 2 hits of mescaline too (brag).  I tried it once and just haven't felt like doing it again.

I've got to the point where I don't have any desire to do any drugs anymore.  My experimenting years are done.  I hate being addicted to anything and I've got good quitting will power.

What is the important part of your life?  I don't think I'm gonna have an important part.

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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: AgingHippy]
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teefizzle said:
i wouldn't say all of us

you make it sound so pitiful, do what makes you happy.


What if having sex with 3 hot ass women at the same time is what makes me happy? How do I do that lol. Oh and no prostitutes because that would just make me feel sorry for myself.


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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: fawhit]
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you have to be realistic though  :dying:

*if you haven't figured it out yet, the key is not feeling sorry for yourself. 

Whenever I feel like a bought of depression is coming on, I do the following:

1)  smoke some weed (to make the next step seem more profound)
2)  Realize that your mood is directly affected by the thoughts in your head
3)  Try to think positive about the situation, even if you don't completely think you believe it, and voila!


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Edited by AgingHippy (11/22/08 08:24 PM)

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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: AgingHippy]
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I don't even know what I can consider realistic. I can't even get myself a girlfriend, always just end up being "friends". If I could just find that one girl then my life would make so much sense and finally have some direction. Right now, like the first poster, I am just floating along... waiting.

I'm not even depressed about anymore man. I acknowledge it and want to do somthing about it, just don't know what... well maybe I do but it's complicated.


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Edited by fawhit (11/22/08 08:27 PM)

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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: fawhit]
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do you really want the girlfriend, or do you just feel obligated to get one due to societies expectations? :naughty:


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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: fawhit]
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If you just want 3 hot women and no love/intimacy then you may as well get 3 ho's.

I don't see why you should feel anymore guilty than indulging in 3 ice creams, provided the women are as happy as you are to be doing it.

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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: Ego Death]
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Ya I realize the 3 hot women thing won't really make me happy it was just an example.

And yes I really want a girl friend man, not just because of social expectation (but it's probally part of it). I need someone to share my life with, someone to complete me. I want to have children and I want to teach them everything I have learned but never applied so maybe one day they will become the person that I have always wanted to be.


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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: fawhit]
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I love our leaders and the feds ,they are great people and the laws they make help us!:rofl2:

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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: fawhit]
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My trouble is if I really like a girl then I get nervous so I don't talk to them or become obviously anxious.  If I don't like them in a relationship way then I just be friends with them.

So I'm kinda stuck.  I need a middle ground lady.  One that I'm mildly attracted too but not one that makes me real nervous.  I need a girl with a bit of understanding in that I'm not confident enough to be immediately completely comfortable with people or ideally feels the same way.

Too picky for love. :thumbdown:  Thats what it always seems to come down to though.  Love - seems its all we humans are here for.  Without love you have nothing of any real meaning.

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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: Ego Death]
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Ego Death said:
My trouble is if I really like a girl then I get nervous so I don't talk to them or become obviously anxious.  If I don't like them in a relationship way then I just be friends with them.

So I'm kinda stuck.  I need a middle ground lady.  One that I'm mildly attracted too but not one that makes me real nervous.  I need a girl with a bit of understanding in that I'm not confident enough to be immediately completely comfortable with people or ideally feels the same way.

Too picky for love. :thumbdown:  Thats what it always seems to come down to though.  Love - seems its all we humans are here for.  Without love you have nothing of any real meaning.


Ya seems like it. My whole life besides my wasted time being distracted by the screens revoles around becoming comfortable and confident in my own skin so that when I do find love or a girl I really like I will be able to do what I actually want to without any second thoughts. I work on my body for the girls, I make that money for the girls, I get that education for the girls. I know its probaly the wrong thing to do but I really think a girl is the only thing that will make me happy and so when I'm not working towards getting a girls I become very unhappy.


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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: fawhit]
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fawhit said:
And yes I really want a girl friend man, not just because of social expectation (but it's probally part of it). I need someone to share my life with, someone to complete me. I want to have children and I want to teach them everything I have learned but never applied so maybe one day they will become the person that I have always wanted to be.


i was just messing with you, notice the naughty face :naughty:


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Edited by AgingHippy (11/22/08 08:51 PM)

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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: fawhit]
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fawhit said:
Ego Death said:
My trouble is if I really like a girl then I get nervous so I don't talk to them or become obviously anxious.  If I don't like them in a relationship way then I just be friends with them.

So I'm kinda stuck.  I need a middle ground lady.  One that I'm mildly attracted too but not one that makes me real nervous.  I need a girl with a bit of understanding in that I'm not confident enough to be immediately completely comfortable with people or ideally feels the same way.

Too picky for love. :thumbdown:  Thats what it always seems to come down to though.  Love - seems its all we humans are here for.  Without love you have nothing of any real meaning.


Ya seems like it. My whole life besides my wasted time being distracted by the screens revoles around becoming comfortable and confident in my own skin so that when I do find love or a girl I really like I will be able to do what I actually want to without any second thoughts. I work on my body for the girls, I make that money for the girls, I get that education for the girls. I know its probaly the wrong thing to do but I really think a girl is the only thing that will make me happy and so when I'm not working towards getting a girls I become very unhappy.


Damn, you said it dude.  It seems as though when I'm interested in a particular girl I'll like make a project out of trying to get her, and be in a very good mood for however long the thing lasts.  But then things always come to an end and I'm left feeling unhappy again, and the need to find the right girl or at least something to be content with.

But Ego, just let time take its course and eventually you'll just get sick of sitting around and suddenly find yourself with a lot of built up energy.  Everybody needs time to slow down and regenerate every now and then.


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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: CokedUpHobit64]
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I'm always lazy in the winter, the winter is for sleeping.  All mammals hibernate.

You're also probably suffering from seasonal depression, the shorter days and colder temps can put anyone in a shitty mood.


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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: CokedUpHobit64]
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I have that fantasy thought in the back of my head that if I just wait it will all soon happen and I will live life happily ever after... but I know that in reality it is possible that I will be deep into my twenties doing the same thing I am doing right now, living in my parents basement, and a virgin at that. Sometimes that reality check helps get me motivated.


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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: fawhit]
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Your body will not allow you to remain a virgin. One day it will just decided that you need sex and a girlfriend and it will guide you on that path. It knows what its doing.

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Re: Winter came and I lost all motivation [Re: fawhit]
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You've gotta stop thinking about your life so negatively.

A Miserable depressed person is that way because they think like that.

If you absolutely cannot make yourself feel positive, maybe you need some help, get an appointment with a psychiatrist and say everything you've said in this thread to them.


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