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Troubble with GF and roomates....
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So, as of lately, things have been rough between my girl and I. we have been together for over a year now.


but the problems really arent just hers and mine, its her roommates.

She lives with 3 other girls in a house and it feels like were at war all the time.

I suppose that they feel that i dont do enough around their house, despite that i have done FAR more than any of the other men that hang out there combined. a point which my gf and i agree on.

I dont know what to do. today i actually had to wake up to this nonsense, and hostility, and for some reason, if any of these girls has a problem with me, they take it out on her, even after asking them nicely to talk to me about their issues, they still take it out on her.

the other day, my gf asked me to go aplolgise to one of her roomates (roomie 1), just to placate her so that we could  'all get along', which is something i refuse to do in EVERY other situation, aside from work (which is dishonest enough) but i did, i went out and literally ate shit.

I told the roommate that i was sorry for never doing anything to help, and then had to sit through a half an hour of being bitched out for every problem under the sun, and personally insulted.

so i thought that would be enough, but no...

this morning roommate 2 called my gf (who was sleeping at my place) to ask for some help building this fence at their house. my GF was sleeping, so i woke up and answered the phone, but another call was coming in so i tried to answer it, accidentally dropping both calls.

I told my gf about it as she had woken up, and she just put her phone on silent and we went back to bed.

when we finally got up, she had a message from roommate 2 saying something to this harsh tone...

    Quote:
    why wont you answer your phone, what is wrong with you, i see your letting your boyfriend control every aspect of your life



then as if that wasn't enough, she goes home and roommate 1 bitches her out to high hell about how i disrespected roommate 2 on the phone... WHICH I DID NOT DO!

so i call my GF and she then tells me that I was disrespectful to her roommate, its as if these girls can make her believe anything about me..... which is a very very bad situation...


so, now im about to go over there to get the tools back that i loaned them for the fence (which i built the majority of) and im sure that there will be some more shit.

Help me out here, i really dont know what to do about this whole thing.

i want peace, and im even willing to be the bigger person, and bow down before these girls, as i do love my girlfriend..... but it seems that even that situation will not work.....

oi!


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Re: Troubble with GF and roomates.... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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What is wrong with these roommates cunts?

Your GR seems not to give a shit about what really is happening

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Re: Troubble with GF and roomates.... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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easy way to solve it, get rid of your girl or move your girl out and give a 30 day notice to the landlord and the room mates and they wont be able to sue you, they will say they can but if you give them a 30 day notice, that is adequate time to find a new room mate, watch Judge Judy, she has all the answers

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Re: Troubble with GF and roomates.... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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What a bunch of whores.

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Re: Troubble with GF and roomates.... [Re: lukey2411]
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don't hang out there.
duh.

Go do shit - even if it means seeing less of your GF.  I'd rather see my girlfriend 5 hours a week and have all 5 hours be delightful than see her 45hours a week and have 35 of them suck balls because of dumb cunt roomates.

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Re: Troubble with GF and roomates.... [Re: memes]
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:crankdre:


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Edited by RonaldFuckingPaul (11/14/08 01:18 PM)

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Re: Troubble with GF and roomates.... [Re: RonaldFuckingPaul]
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yah no shit, this solution is easy here man, stop thinking so hard.

You have your own place, so stay away from your gf's place. Her contract agreement states that SHE must pay her share of the rent and not trash the place. Nothing more.

These girls want to get all bitchy with you, then just side with the rights that tenants have.. Have your gf pay her share of the rent, and you two stay away from those other girls.

If they call you and start bitching about god knows what, tell them, "look, this is not my responsibility, why are you even talking to me?"
When they call your gf and bitch her out, she should say, "I pay my rent, and I dont trash the place, nothing else is my responsibility."

If I were you I would take my tools back, it is up to you whether or not you want to tear down the fence, Id probably just leave it. Your biggest lesson here should be: Do not give these girls an Inch, because they will want and take a mile from you, and throw it in your face the whole time. You are getting way too involved with the drama here; Stop! Simplify man, you owe them NOTHING, your gf owes them RENT.. Nothing else should be required here, and if it is, you are getting hosed. Are those bitches going out of their way to do random shit for you? No, because they bitches and want to take advantage of the situation at all times. Simplify. When they get all witchy on you and threaten to blah blah blah, do the Office space thing and just zone out. Forget about them and their attempts to ruin your good life; become indifferent to them in every way, then there is nothing they can do to you.

seriously dude, stop worrying, stop trying so hard to understand the situation; just minimize your contact with them, and do only what is necessary for your GF to live there, which by contract is to pay rent. Nothing more, nothing less. fuck them bitches, theyre FUCKING WITH YOU


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Re: Troubble with GF and roomates.... [Re: Anonymous #1]
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When I was living in a less than optimal roommate situation, I found the best option is to just isolate yourselves from them.  In my case, this was a temporary arrangement, so it wasn't like this would go on indefinitely.  Just be cordial when approached, but do not give in to their petty demands.  State your position clearly when confronted.

Like mickdawg said, just make sure the rent gets paid and any of the mess laying around isn't yours (ESPECIALLY if you aren't on the lease).

Best approach in this situation is to keep your head low and avoid these inconsequential arguments.


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  Moderation is key 

  "There is no god higher than truth." 


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