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Anonymous #1
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I'm sorry.
#8009546 - 02/11/08 04:51 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I know what I did was pointless.... it only made you more mad. You deserve better anyways. Sorry for all the drama. I'm crazy, you know. Be out soon.
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Anonymous #2
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You are a fucking idiot, and I hope you are out before I get home. Take that piece of shit hamster with you too, what kind of birthday present is that anyways? Please take your cum stained socks with you from under the bed, in the couch cushions, and behind the washer & dryer too...I certainly don't need them. Have a good life. Or not, whatever.
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Anonymous #3
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give me my fucking jacket back. I told you that you can use it once. Now your gonna stretch it all out, i swear to god if the neck hole is stretched out, there will be hell to pay!
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Anonymous #4
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you had BETTER NOT take the dildos you son of a bitch!
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Anonymous #5
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i love you we don't have to hate each other. I don't know why that makes it easier for people to leave. i would rather tell you i love you in the end
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Anonymous #6
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Anonymous #2
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That is not me, and I am not gay. Celebrities do not frequent these boards, we have much more important things to be doing.
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Anonymous #5
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here little doll I just saw this this person has a better way with words than i do
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JoseLibrado said: I would not suggest going from such a close intimacy that you shared to be followed by a break off of any intimacy, even the intimacy of talking.
I know this may seem like the best thing, but really when your in a relationship, you cannot just end all form of intimacy if you want to heal from the hurts of being sexually intimate(a high form of bonding), to heal in a natural way.
From what i can see the only reason you two are breaking off of any contact, is because you saw no future together.
This is the usual break off between people that leads to alot of pain and even adaptual fear from the mind, when we begin to feel like we are enagaging ino a new intimacy and the mind remembers of the extreme pain that was associated with the last relationship it was put through.
I am in the midst of what most people would say is 'breaking off' my relationship, but i do not live by this and act on it, letting it create my feelings for that person, in the same way that i did allow the notion of 'being in a relationship' alllow guide my feelings for the person for reasons that i will note, but basically because they had no meaning to me and i was just infatuated with all the ideas and how they reflected any ideal of intimate, romantic love between people.
From personal experience these Beliefs are powerful things and they are deeply connected with how we feel and ultimatly how we act in relationship with others. These ideas of "braking up" and "the question of a future" can effect to the largest extent how we feel in the relationship and the way we choose to act. It is through these beliefs that many people in my life have founded and ended relationships, and deeply hurt themselves in the process.
The place that these conceptions come from, begins at a young age when we begin to learn these ideas and see them in the movies and in others. The main idea that is the foundation to most of the the status of our relationship, is that a relationships should be formalized into a categorie - with each categorie havings its own set of ways to be intmiate with the person, deciding in many cases how we will act towards a person regardless of feelings. What happens in many instances is that we attach social meaning to our feelings, which are unique to the relationship and the feelings the individuals have for each other and thus are meaningless and only decieving to the two people in the relationship.
Ie/ Just because you know and feel that sex would hurt you more now than it would help, doesnt men you should stop all types of intimacy, such as hugging, kissing and caressing. Actually im here to say from personal experience and logic that our culture has it all wrong.
I, from personal experience and from listening to others about experiences with "break ups" noticed that a relationship, is like climbing a mountain, the mountain signyfying the relating of each others lives together and the climb, resembling the intensity of the relationship. Eventually, you reach the summit of the mountain. When you get there with the person, you feel like you are ontop of the world and that this is the most amazing thing ever. Shortly after this spike in wonderful emotion, we begin to see things are changing and the summit is not fun anymore, in your case even begin to feel that there is no future on this summit. Once we realize this most people, because of the belief that all relationships should be formalized , will either hold on to the summit staying there as long as possible even if it knowingly hurts them, then after enough torture, they see nothing left but to let go completely and free fall to a disasterous pain of the heart. Once at the bottom they feel heart broken and depressed for the most part, because the jump was intitiated by the belief that since they didnt have a future on the summit together they may as well free jump down, to rush up another summit.
What i noticed is this is true, for every relationship, especially sexually intimate ones and most definatly the one i am climbing down from, together with the person, reflecting and reliving those crucial things we learnt about ourselves in it, not withholding any intimacy from each other and taking the walk down the summit as an inevitable and also beautiful in its own, experience.
I am happy to say that this has been and feels like the most natural and healing way of dealing with a relationship that is inherently intimate that is begginging to come down from its climax.
It seems only logical and ideal to climb back down the way we climbed up - to let those feelings go on their own course and boil down experiencing them physically whenever compelled, instead of trying to do the impossible task of generating feelings we know we do not have for eachother, taking a huge free fall dive, tumbling off the mountain of intimate love.
I wish you all the best, and trust that we all are making the best decision, in any situation.
love and joy. To all you girls and boys. hehe.
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Anonymous #1
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Love and Joy.
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Anonymous #7
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I'm pretty sure this is just one person.
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Anonymous #8
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Fuck you, it's too late for apologies. I hope you contract chlamydia from a syphilitic hermaphrodite. And you better not have given away my copy of License to Drive.
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Anonymous #8
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Anonymous said: I'm pretty sure this is just one person.
And I'm pretty sure you're just one person!
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Anonymous #9
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Out of where?
The mental institute?
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Anonymous #5
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Bahaha
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Anonymous #10
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Maybe out of the closet.
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Anonymous #11
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i think they have something called myspace for posts like this.
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Anonymous #12
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Anonymous #13
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Ill do a cock stain.
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