JacquesCousteau said:

Tangerines said:

getting a girlfriend is too much work.

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That's a common misconception.

I find that most females are drawn to the self-confidence and care-free attitude that comes as a result of not 'trying to get a girlfriend.'

In other words, it's fairly effortless if you play your cards right.

(Just my two cents and all...)

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exactly. after my last fiasco of a relationship, i just stopped caring, wasnt even looking for a woman, and then she showed up this has been the only relationship that i did not seek out in my life, and after a year of being together, i can say that she is amazing and i will probably marry her.