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In Limbo....
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I have two options:

1.  Stay in Pembroke, find a roommate, keep my job and financial security.

2.  Move back to Toronto, live with Gill and find a new job.

Finding a new job isn't so bad, I guess.  I really love where I'm at right now tho so I'm having a lot of trouble convincing myself to give it up.  Not having a steady income scares me to death.  I can't be broke, I can't lose my car.

How do I find a roommate?  Should I put up flyers or something?  What if I find someone who seems cool, but turns out to be a psycho?

Any Shroomerites in the Ottawa valley need a roommate?  Time's a tickin'....  :crazy:


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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fliers on college campuses work well, as long as you don't mind living with a student. you might get lucky and get a rich kid who you know will never be late for rent!

good luck


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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How long do you see yourself enjoying the job you're at?


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
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McKennaDMT said:
How long do you see yourself enjoying the job you're at?


Hmmm, that's a good question.  It's not a career, but it's pretty stable.  I'd like to stay for as long as possible, I'm making great money.  I've worked in a few shitty places in the past few years, but this place rocks.

Great atmostphere, great friends and security.

I...just...don't...know.... :wtf:  :crazy:


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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dont ya live in like the middle of nowhere?? bac to toronto i say!

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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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Go where your heart leads you, Bom. You are a smart girl with a good heart. You will figure out what's best and stay he course, I am sure.

:heart:


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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may I ask what happened to your BF?

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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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Great atmostphere, great friends and security.


Jobs like that are hard to come by.. I don't know much about Canada, but as far as my area goes, starting over and looking for a job that you like and that has those qualities is very hard.


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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i thought this was going to be a lyrics thread :grin:

Quote:
Sitting here in limbo, but I know it won't be long
Sitting here in limbo, like a bird without a song
Well they're putting up resistance
But I know my faith will lead me on

Sitting here in limbo, waiting for the dice to roll
Sitting here in limbo, got some time to search my soul
Well they're putting up resistance
But I know that my faith will lead me on

I don't know where life will lead me
But I know where I've been
I can't say what life will show me
But I know what I've seen
Tried my hand at love and friendship
But all that is passed and gone
This little boy is moving on

Sitting here in limbo waiting for the tide to flow
Sitting here in limbo knowing that I have to go
Well they're putting up resistance
But I know that my faith will lead me on

I don't know where life will lead me
But I know where I've been
I can't say what life will show me
But I know what I've seen
Tried my hand at love and friendship
But all that is passed and gone
This little boy is moving on

Sitting here in limbo waiting for the tide to flow
Sitting here in limbo knowing that I have to go
Well they're putting up resistance
But I know that my faith will lead me on

Sitting in limbo
Sitting in limbo


best of luck to you, though, bom! :smile:


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: goobler]
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goobler said:
may I ask what happened to your BF?


We broke up and I moved out. My current apt sucks balls and I hate it. He's another reason that I want to stick around because I love him with every fiber of my soul, and I keep thinking that things just might work out....but I also think I'm mostly living in a dream world.

So if I leave, I'm leaving him behind too...which is actually harder then leaving my job, which I'm using as a cover.

/secrets


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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You need to stop living for someone else. :smirk: :mushroom2:


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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Aww. That sucks, Kel. I'm sorry to hear that.:sad:

You are a beautiful and intelligent woman, though. Moving on will be easier than you think. You just gotta set your mind and do it.


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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awww man that sucks

I told my wife the first time we met that I would marry her someday, she had a BF at the time, I never gave up though

best of luck

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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
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McKennaDMT said:
You need to stop living for someone else. :smirk: :mushroom2:


Yes, yes I do.  That's pretty straight up.

Love makes people pretty stupid sometimes.  I'm having a hard time giving up.  My head knows I need to be in TO, moving forward...but my heart has so much more power over me.

FUCKING EH.

What to do, what to do?  Talking it out, thinking it out.  Turn off the heart, listen to the head?  Find a new job, a new life?  Give it up? Let it go?

????????????????????????????????

Le sigh.  I know what I need to do, but it's really hard.


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: Krishna]
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Krishna said:
i thought this was going to be a lyrics thread :grin:

Quote:
Sitting here in limbo, but I know it won't be long
Sitting here in limbo, like a bird without a song
Well they're putting up resistance
But I know my faith will lead me on

Sitting here in limbo, waiting for the dice to roll
Sitting here in limbo, got some time to search my soul
Well they're putting up resistance
But I know that my faith will lead me on

I don't know where life will lead me
But I know where I've been
I can't say what life will show me
But I know what I've seen
Tried my hand at love and friendship
But all that is passed and gone
This little boy is moving on

Sitting here in limbo waiting for the tide to flow
Sitting here in limbo knowing that I have to go
Well they're putting up resistance
But I know that my faith will lead me on

I don't know where life will lead me
But I know where I've been
I can't say what life will show me
But I know what I've seen
Tried my hand at love and friendship
But all that is passed and gone
This little boy is moving on

Sitting here in limbo waiting for the tide to flow
Sitting here in limbo knowing that I have to go
Well they're putting up resistance
But I know that my faith will lead me on

Sitting in limbo
Sitting in limbo


best of luck to you, though, bom! :smile:



hilarious this is exactly the song i thought of when i saw the thread title. garcia and grisman, good shit  :gd_icon:

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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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Move to Toronto. It would be a great change of scenery, plus you would get to be near a great friend. If I were you, I would want to live with Gill considering how well you two get along. You're like separated sisters.

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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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Find a new job, a new life? Give it up? Let it go?


Yes, if it's meant to be, then it will happen...anywhere.  Do what YOU need to do first and everything else second.  Especially if you guys are not together anymore.

:sun:


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: Penguarky Tunguin]
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Pretty sure I know what I need to do...  :heart:

I really appreciate your input guys.  Sometimes talking it out really does help.  I'm a very lucky person to have a friend like Gill, especially in shitty times like this, I know she's got my back.

Pubbers, too.  I :heart: you bitches.  Thanks for letting me unload.


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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Ya, go visit gillette, you will have fun! I still havn't visited toronto yet, but when I do me and gillette are going to make box forts.

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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
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I hope you choose TO :hug:


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