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CherryBom
Yoga Gypsy


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Loc: Ontario
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In Limbo....
#5646017 - 05/18/06 12:00 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I have two options:
1. Stay in Pembroke, find a roommate, keep my job and financial security.
2. Move back to Toronto, live with Gill and find a new job.
Finding a new job isn't so bad, I guess. I really love where I'm at right now tho so I'm having a lot of trouble convincing myself to give it up. Not having a steady income scares me to death. I can't be broke, I can't lose my car.
How do I find a roommate? Should I put up flyers or something? What if I find someone who seems cool, but turns out to be a psycho?
Any Shroomerites in the Ottawa valley need a roommate? Time's a tickin'....
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PurpleKush
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646022 - 05/18/06 12:02 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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fliers on college campuses work well, as long as you don't mind living with a student. you might get lucky and get a rich kid who you know will never be late for rent!
good luck
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646023 - 05/18/06 12:02 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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How long do you see yourself enjoying the job you're at?
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CherryBom
Yoga Gypsy


Registered: 12/26/98
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Loc: Ontario
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Quote:
McKennaDMT said: How long do you see yourself enjoying the job you're at?
Hmmm, that's a good question. It's not a career, but it's pretty stable. I'd like to stay for as long as possible, I'm making great money. I've worked in a few shitty places in the past few years, but this place rocks.
Great atmostphere, great friends and security.
I...just...don't...know....
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KingOftheThing
the cool fool


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646056 - 05/18/06 12:10 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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dont ya live in like the middle of nowhere?? bac to toronto i say!
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blissedout


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646069 - 05/18/06 12:13 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Go where your heart leads you, Bom. You are a smart girl with a good heart. You will figure out what's best and stay he course, I am sure.
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goobler
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646076 - 05/18/06 12:15 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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may I ask what happened to your BF?
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eris
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646078 - 05/18/06 12:15 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Great atmostphere, great friends and security.
Jobs like that are hard to come by.. I don't know much about Canada, but as far as my area goes, starting over and looking for a job that you like and that has those qualities is very hard.
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Krishna
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646086 - 05/18/06 12:17 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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i thought this was going to be a lyrics thread 
Quote:
Sitting here in limbo, but I know it won't be long Sitting here in limbo, like a bird without a song Well they're putting up resistance But I know my faith will lead me on
Sitting here in limbo, waiting for the dice to roll Sitting here in limbo, got some time to search my soul Well they're putting up resistance But I know that my faith will lead me on
I don't know where life will lead me But I know where I've been I can't say what life will show me But I know what I've seen Tried my hand at love and friendship But all that is passed and gone This little boy is moving on
Sitting here in limbo waiting for the tide to flow Sitting here in limbo knowing that I have to go Well they're putting up resistance But I know that my faith will lead me on
I don't know where life will lead me But I know where I've been I can't say what life will show me But I know what I've seen Tried my hand at love and friendship But all that is passed and gone This little boy is moving on
Sitting here in limbo waiting for the tide to flow Sitting here in limbo knowing that I have to go Well they're putting up resistance But I know that my faith will lead me on
Sitting in limbo Sitting in limbo
best of luck to you, though, bom!
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CherryBom
Yoga Gypsy


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Loc: Ontario
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: goobler]
#5646106 - 05/18/06 12:20 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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goobler said: may I ask what happened to your BF?
We broke up and I moved out. My current apt sucks balls and I hate it. He's another reason that I want to stick around because I love him with every fiber of my soul, and I keep thinking that things just might work out....but I also think I'm mostly living in a dream world.
So if I leave, I'm leaving him behind too...which is actually harder then leaving my job, which I'm using as a cover.
/secrets
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646115 - 05/18/06 12:22 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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You need to stop living for someone else.
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blissedout


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646116 - 05/18/06 12:23 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Aww. That sucks, Kel. I'm sorry to hear that.
You are a beautiful and intelligent woman, though. Moving on will be easier than you think. You just gotta set your mind and do it.
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goobler
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646117 - 05/18/06 12:23 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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awww man that sucks
I told my wife the first time we met that I would marry her someday, she had a BF at the time, I never gave up though
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CherryBom
Yoga Gypsy


Registered: 12/26/98
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Loc: Ontario
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McKennaDMT said: You need to stop living for someone else.
Yes, yes I do. That's pretty straight up.
Love makes people pretty stupid sometimes. I'm having a hard time giving up. My head knows I need to be in TO, moving forward...but my heart has so much more power over me.
FUCKING EH.
What to do, what to do? Talking it out, thinking it out. Turn off the heart, listen to the head? Find a new job, a new life? Give it up? Let it go?
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Le sigh. I know what I need to do, but it's really hard.
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KingOftheThing
the cool fool


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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: Krishna]
#5646161 - 05/18/06 12:32 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Krishna said: i thought this was going to be a lyrics thread 
Quote:
Sitting here in limbo, but I know it won't be long Sitting here in limbo, like a bird without a song Well they're putting up resistance But I know my faith will lead me on
Sitting here in limbo, waiting for the dice to roll Sitting here in limbo, got some time to search my soul Well they're putting up resistance But I know that my faith will lead me on
I don't know where life will lead me But I know where I've been I can't say what life will show me But I know what I've seen Tried my hand at love and friendship But all that is passed and gone This little boy is moving on
Sitting here in limbo waiting for the tide to flow Sitting here in limbo knowing that I have to go Well they're putting up resistance But I know that my faith will lead me on
I don't know where life will lead me But I know where I've been I can't say what life will show me But I know what I've seen Tried my hand at love and friendship But all that is passed and gone This little boy is moving on
Sitting here in limbo waiting for the tide to flow Sitting here in limbo knowing that I have to go Well they're putting up resistance But I know that my faith will lead me on
Sitting in limbo Sitting in limbo
best of luck to you, though, bom!
hilarious this is exactly the song i thought of when i saw the thread title. garcia and grisman, good shit
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646280 - 05/18/06 12:59 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Move to Toronto. It would be a great change of scenery, plus you would get to be near a great friend. If I were you, I would want to live with Gill considering how well you two get along. You're like separated sisters.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646282 - 05/18/06 12:59 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Find a new job, a new life? Give it up? Let it go?
Yes, if it's meant to be, then it will happen...anywhere. Do what YOU need to do first and everything else second. Especially if you guys are not together anymore.
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CherryBom
Yoga Gypsy


Registered: 12/26/98
Posts: 11,177
Loc: Ontario
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Pretty sure I know what I need to do... 
I really appreciate your input guys. Sometimes talking it out really does help. I'm a very lucky person to have a friend like Gill, especially in shitty times like this, I know she's got my back.
Pubbers, too. I you bitches. Thanks for letting me unload.
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EarthDroid
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646326 - 05/18/06 01:13 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ya, go visit gillette, you will have fun! I still havn't visited toronto yet, but when I do me and gillette are going to make box forts.
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blink
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Re: In Limbo.... [Re: CherryBom]
#5646372 - 05/18/06 01:24 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I hope you choose TO
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