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friendship to sex...?
    #8807057 - 08/21/08 08:04 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

things have been rocky for us the past six years.  but in the last year, we've developed a decent friendship.  we dated back in 2002 and again in 2003 (that was somewhat of a fluke, i suppose, and she really hurt me that time around), but i really haven't had a desire to be in a relationship with her

she's been calling a lot more and wanting to hang out.  she came over for a little while today and laid herself out on my couch, wearing the usual little khaki skirt, and had her legs open for a while...didn't seem like she was wearing anything underneath, either, but i couldn't tell for sure.  also, we had quite a few awkward moments this afternoon where she'd start talking then just stop, leaving us staring at each other in silence. 

she lives about 45 minutes away in a different town and said she might come down this weekend to go to a show with me.  she also sort of volunteered herself to stay at my place during the week while she has class, and driving home on the weekends to work

we went to a show a couple weeks ago and she made a remark hinting that we could be together if i wasn't so, ummmmmmmm, anti-social.

in the last year she has told me that she isn't interested in dating, that she wouldn't date any of her close friends, etc...in the last two years, we've almost fucked quite a few times (end up sleeping together at festivals, but she's always too fucked up for me to go along with her initiations; she's left parties to come sleep here instead of driving home, but, again, is too fucked up for me to feel right about it)


i feel as if i'm receiving mixed signals.  i value our friendship, but it's not like i'd be depressed if we weren't friends.  but, i can't decide if it's worth adding more awkwardness to it all to try and get some tail


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: demiu5]
    #8807146 - 08/21/08 08:17 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Dont mess with Alcoholic chicks who have reppressed issues.

I learned that one the hard way. Stay away buddy. Having sex does "SOMETHING" Spiritual to you. Im not saying your damned or that your cursed. But having sex with someone links your emotions like nothing else.

You will either end up getting hurt, Feeling lonley, ect ect.


Go jack off. By the time you shoot your load it wont matter HOW you reached that point. Save your sex for someone you have feelings for. Its better that way anyhow........no pregnancy


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: Spiritual Seeker]
    #8807180 - 08/21/08 08:22 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

what are you talking about?  nowhere did i say anything about alcohol, or feelings.


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: demiu5]
    #8807188 - 08/21/08 08:23 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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what are you talking about?  nowhere did i say anything about alcohol, or feelings.






Alcohol is my way of saying "Getting fucked up" I dont care what it is.

As for feelings you used to DATE this chick. Go ahead and learn the hard way man.


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: Spiritual Seeker]
    #8807220 - 08/21/08 08:28 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

fucked up = lots of molly and a little lsd

and yes, we dated 6 and 5 years ago.  but i've dated other girls in this time, and fell hard for another


i'm not worried about "learning the hard way", i just want some peoples' opinions/experiences with having sex with friends and how to approach the situation


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: demiu5]
    #8807261 - 08/21/08 08:34 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I had sex with an ex girlfriend for awhile.

It was great while it lasted!


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: circularvortex]
    #8807315 - 08/21/08 08:43 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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I had sex with an ex girlfriend for awhile.

It was great while it lasted!




Haha, me too dude. 3 1/2 years of knowing eachothers ins and outs made for the best sex ever. Unfortunately it's getting to that point now where she's seeing someone and I'm seeing someone... last encounter was a little awkward to say the least.

To the OP: The only friends I've had sex with were girls who I'd never get into a relationship with, I just was horny at the time. To say the least, it bit me in the ass, all of them got clingy and took sex as a hint towards a relationship and were heartbroken when I told them I didn't want one. Keep in mind I told them right off the bat I wanted to stay single as I just got out of a loooong relationship.

But if she said "I don't want a relationship with close friends", go for it, just make sure she says what she means. We all have needs, man.


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: Zodiak]
    #8810888 - 08/22/08 02:15 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

my friend is kinda fucked up i went at stayed at her house for 2 days. she said i wasnt aloud to kiss her or toucher her sexually. then she got really sexual we loved it. then she said when i was gona she doesnt know if we can see each other cause she doesnt want to make things sexual and its my fault cause i cant respect her boundries. its fucked up she cant respect her bounderies thats not my fault. if tell her she cant even respect em she will flip out at me. so damn hypocritical. totally made a sexual fustration post about it. but then i got my food and sexual gratification so...


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: thedudenj]
    #8811072 - 08/22/08 02:53 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Why cant you have sex without being in a relationship? I do it all the time man...

or do you think that by having sex with her those feelings you have for her might rekindle...


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: Platinum]
    #8811142 - 08/22/08 03:07 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

IDK. In my experience, having sex with someone that you have *some* feelings for, is better than sex with someone without them. personally, I don't like having sex with random people. Or even people I know for that matter. I prefer to have sex with girls that I am dating, going to date, or already have dated. I think it just makes for better sex.


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: misos]
    #8811153 - 08/22/08 03:10 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

or you can just tear some bitch apart with your dick... do that with chicks you dont have feelings for... thats what i do... rofl.

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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: Platinum]
    #8811561 - 08/22/08 04:29 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

You could.... But, not all guys are pigs.


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: demiu5]
    #8811631 - 08/22/08 04:43 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I might say something when she's only a little fucked up, like, "Do you remember coming on to me at {festival}?" If she grins and says yes (or no for that matter) you can say something like "Well you were too fucked up then. But you're not that fucked up now, so it might work this time if you did it."

If she looks repulsed and says something like "oh HELL no" then you cooter punch her.


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: misos]
    #8811634 - 08/22/08 04:43 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

most are...


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: misos]
    #8811637 - 08/22/08 04:43 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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You could.... But, not all guys are pigs.




Not true. We are all pigs.  Some of us show more restraint than others, but that's all it is - restraint.  Or they're gay.


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: Srirachi]
    #8811659 - 08/22/08 04:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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If she looks repulsed and says something like "oh HELL no" then you cooter punch her.




cooter punch her anyway, I already don't like this girl.


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: jenns_hot]
    #8811667 - 08/22/08 04:49 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

heh... cooter is a funyn word. my favorite vagina slang term...


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: jenns_hot]
    #8811672 - 08/22/08 04:49 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Damn, Demius, you should hook up with Jenn!  I hear she's hot, but need pics to verify it...


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: Platinum]
    #8811674 - 08/22/08 04:49 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

lol cooter :grin:


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Re: friendship to sex...? [Re: Coaster]
    #8811694 - 08/22/08 04:53 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)



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