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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: gettinjiggywithit]
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Jiggy, I have been doing my best to take a balanced look at the issues. To my credit I can call Bullshit on both sides. :grin: But we have to dive in here and look at first things first. In the case of hiding or not hiding posts we need to take a look at the motivation for each case. Then we take our best guess at what's going on and then we ask for an explanation and see if that makes sense. I have found that explanations from the mods on specific questions I have asked are not forthcomming so far.


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"Don't believe everything you think". -Anom.

" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC

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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Icelander]
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Icelander said:
Icelander said:
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First a warning, then a temp ban. It's written, those are the rules.



If I remember right those flames were left undeleted at least for quite a long time. So no one could tell any action was taken. I never understood that and still haven't gotten an explanation. Why would anyone leave those posts undeleted for so long if not forever?



Mods? :confused:



Third request for information. I invoke the Icelander rule here. :wink:


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" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Icelander]
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The 'Icelander Rule' needs to be made official. Three dodges = a warning!


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: LunarEclipse]
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What some folks (me) wonder is how you (Swami) seem unable to grasp the concept of Property Ownership.

I grasp it totally. What you and (some) others fail to grasp, is that it is impossible to follow unwritten rules or rules unequally applied.

What does "Stop it!" mean to you? I sincerely asked why my S&P tradition of posting pictures Holiday Treats as a way of sharing with my brothers and sisters could possibly drive any members away or violate the spirit of giving and love.
There was zero reason except that this is private website.

What could I not post about myth when myth is frequently talked about?
This is a private website.

Why is it OK for mods and other members to attack me in ways that I have never done to anyone?
This is a private website.

Why was I banned last year when I broke no rule (and they admitted so)? Why did the mods need a special Swami lifetime achievement award?
This is a private website.

Why will I be punished for merely discussing this even though others can?
This is a private website.

Why was my inoffensive Avatar brought into question?
This is a private website.

Imagine playing a championship tennis match. You scratch your nose with your pinky before serving and the Umpire says, "We think you were making an obscene gesture towards us and are penalized a point." Then you protest and the official says, "We are going to take another point for questioning our judgement. One more transgression and you will forfeit the match! REMEMBER the WPTA is a private organization."


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Icelander]
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Icelander said:
To my credit I can call Bullshit on both sides. :grin:



An equalization of pressure is at hand!

Members are put under pressure to decipher the rules of a screwy forum that mixes spiritual discussion and philosophical debate and they get blamed for not making it work.

The mods and admins are under pressure to decipher the rules fairly of a screwy forum.

Even if the current members "magically" found a way to read and see invisible lines between debate and discussion there will always be newbies.

Newbies, will come seeing the word philosophy and pull out Occam's razor, and start shoving in the spirit of debate they learn in college. The may get warned or banned and not understand what they did.

Newbies will come in seeing the spirituality header with their fabric softener and get hit in the back of the head with a 2 x 4 and say "wtf is wrong with you people.  I was just trying to have a  discussion?" They may get warned or banned and not understand what they did.

Anyway, this thread isn't about deleting that flaming rampage of a post.

It's about why every so often, this flare up of a hemorrhoid keeps happening in S&P and what to do about.

The only reason why the rules get subjective and lines become invisible and crossed for both mods and members is because of the current forum structure.

Those subjective invisible lines end up coming down to someones "feelings"

One feels they have a right to get to the truth through philosophical debate and using the razor and hammer.

One feels they have a right to be discussing their spiritual sensitive side in a sensitive manor.

The members nor the mods are mind readers and those lines get crossed and toes and get stepped on so often we should have a Geiger counter in their for the toxic radio activity that develops between members and mods because of it.

If the admins are reluctant to tamper with the current S&P the just leave it as is and create a new forum.

Call it Kumbuyah, Mysticism, meta-physics, the paranormal, spirituality for sensitives, the wacko corner I don't think anyone much cares any more, other then that a solid and clear for all line to see gets drawn between, cold hard logical philosophical debate and warm soft sensitive spiritual discussion.

Just like nature, put a cold front and warm front together and you get a bad ass storm.

There are always going to be skeptical debaters who will push how far they can use the hammer and razor and fluffer nauts who will see how far the can push the envelope of sanity. Within that, you have those who are on egg shells not knowing, how far they can push without hurting someones feelings and getting warned or banned and those not knowing how far they can push the limits of consciousness without being reduced to a delusional nut cake without having to get defensive which may get them warned or banned.

Then enter mods with a natural bias for one of the two and all hell breaks loose.

Or, for those chill times, no body is pushing and it gets lame and boring with safe topics, nothing going anywhere interesting and so the pushing starts again.

Two forums where the push is a given constant and we'll rock the house and let them equalize themselves out. It will be beautiful. When the skeptics push each other two far, they will learn to self balance and equalize. When the koo koo nuts push each other to far, they will better learn to self balance and equalize. They won;t fight the process so much when they feel they are with their peers who respect them in their own environment.

In the mean time, the pioneers from both camps, leave or get pushed out. The pioneers push us to grow in both directions. Some want to sharpen critical skills and the pioneers like Phred, who left and swami, being pushed out help them grow. Some want to explore what more is and is going on behind the veil and pioneers, to many names I miss around to mention, have left or felt pushed out.

Do nothing for much longer, and S&P will just become pub like and fizzle out for good. The shroomery already has the pub. The majority are asking for two separate forum extremes that currently keep clashing like the Titans under the same roof.

Looking at the big picture, I am sorry if I think your request to have that thread deleted in this post is a bit petty and irrelevant to the big topic at hand Icelander.

My bud swami and I are like polar opposites in S&P who both love to push the limits , who both don't want to be pushed out, directly or indirectly and both have seen a need for the split for a long time.

People want S&P to be a safe kiddie park and we have that in the pub. Where are the forums for those who like extreme sports?

They have to be separated for hemorrhoid flare ups to stop.

You can't put mountain climbers looking for higher vistas to view from in the same pile with people who like to tear down Goliath sized mountains with their bull dozer's in favor of the linear flat lands and expect peace and civility to rule the day.

And every 3 months or so, you will be in here dealing with the Same Old Shit as in S.O.S, Save Our Ship please because S&P is going down hard and fast and becoming the pub with "safe" everyday topics and convo.

Unchallenging and unstimulating for both extremes. Swamis probably so tired of having to pretend he's cozy soft making tooth fairy posts to get some game and I am so tired of having to pretend simple problems are complex to get some game.

Yes, it's become pathetic.

I dunno bout you swami or where else you have to go. I have other forums I can mountain climb with others at. I like doing it with shroomery members too when it goes down on occasion, but not nearly enough to keep my interest anymore.

I am speaking up for the people yet to come and those here now who feel the same way, obviously from the poll, and just are to introverted, shy or timid to speak up.

What sucks is, the admins are waiting longer to hear from them and they will keep mum because it's not in their nature to make waves for change even though they obviously want it. They are not comfortable sticking their necks out around these parts because the reductionists hammer may come out and pound their head in or the Occam's razor may come out and chop it off.

I'm made out silly puddy.  :crazy2: I can just stretch my head back out or stick it back on.

Peace respect all! In the end, I agree with Lunar 100%. I'm just a guest here and fulfilling the requests to discuss this matter.


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Ahuwale ka nane huna.

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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Silversoul]
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Paradigm said:
The whole "private website" shit is such a cop-out. Sure, it's privately owned, but if that excuses the admins of any responsibility, then why even have rules? Why not just say, "We'll ban you if we damn well please, because this is our website"?


While the admins hold ownership over the website and are in a way accountable to our members, we are only truly accountable to ourselves. This is not to say we don't want a happy membership, because of course a happy membership makes our jobs easier and the experience here better for everyone involved. However, our various rules/guidelines are in place primarily as instruction to our moderators as to how the administration would like to see matters handled. In so far as why we don't just come out and say that "We'll ban you if we damn well please," I have said as much on more than one ocassion in the past. Most recently, in the following excerpt from a private message sent to Swami. I have removed portions of the conversation that are unrelated to the point being made here:

Sent to: Swami
Subject: Tired.
Date: 9/27/05


It is time that you lightened up. I would like to share some comments I made to our moderators this evening:
Quote:
Swami himself stated "This thread is about why a different procedure or lack thereof is being applied" --- and I've already answered him: We have NO obligation to follow any type of procedure. [...]


[...]

The reason why some users may get a warning for behavior that you may receive a ban for is simple. You have consistently upset the moderators and administrators of this website over the years. [...] There are no absolutes and there are no rigid rules here. We act as we feel, and those who do not cross us will be given the benefit of the doubt - however those that get on our bad side, for whatever reason, are going to get the short end of the stick more often than not. You can attempt to make the staff believe that you don't deserve the negative treatment you receive, but your methods thus far have only served to reinforce much of the staff's opinion that you simply get a thrill out of jiving others and picking apart specifics until you feel that you have won some sort of notoriety by pointing out someone else's error. Point out all the errors you want, it is not going to change the fact that the administration won't look kindly upon this type of attitude.

[...]

I will readily admit that this has become entirely personal, and yes you will be treated unusually, because you act in unusual (and abrasive) fashion. Don't expect to be treated fairly because that privilege was lost when you kept hammering your arguments into the ground even after myself and I'm sure others have tried to point out to you that we are tired of that type of attitude. I mean here you are arguing in WA&F about why you didn't receive a length of time PM with respect to your S&P forum ban, when I had already addressed that matter to you in PM last week; stating that this was a new system that does not have an integrated notification system and thus is not working as efficiently or effectively as it could.

[...]

In closing: I am not here to debate with you. I tell you how we are going to handle things and that is that. As of now, you are on very thin ice, and while I'm sure you could find a way to access the boards again, do not be surprised if your Swami alias is retired the next time you create waves.





Sent to: Swami
Subject: Re: Tired.
Date: 9/28/05


[...]

Nothing I have said is meant to intimidate you. Are we coercing you by requiring that you act in a respectful and tolerant manner by otherwise banning you if you fail? Yes, we are - and it may not be fair in your mind, but we are being straight with you.

[...]





Sent to: Swami
Subject: Your Account has been Banned from the S&P Forum
Date: 9/29/05


Duration: 15 Days

Reason: Persistence in fueling the drama accompanying
your previous bans, specifically in S&P, by attempting to mock
the moderators of the forum with your thread re: "The Tooth Fairy"

Had this thread been made by a new user without your history,
it likely would be overlooked. In the context of recent events,
and being that the thread in question has little to do with
Spirituality or Philosophy but rather much more to do with
testing the the rules, guidelines, and politics of this community
- the thread is inappropriate, has been locked, and you will
not be welcome in the S&P forum until you understand that
this is precisely the type of behavior we are looking to avoid.




There is indeed more, but I think these excerpts should make it quite clear that
the administration has done its best to be straightforward with Swami.

I would also like to take the time to note that much of dissenting argument here - including the quotes and various paraphrases that the members are providing in this thread - are referencing and/or based on actions carried out by the moderators (and even regular members, in the case of Swami's complaint about his Avatar being brought into question). Trying to roll up the member's, moderator's, and administrator's actions into one collaborative argument is absurd! The administration has no direct control over the members, and we have only given guidance to our moderators but of course they are people just as you and I, and are suceptible to making their own decisions that may not fall in line with the wishes of the administrators. That being said, we are coming full circle to the points I've been trying to make to MLF (above in this thread), about how members that have complaint with respect to specific staff members are to reconcile their differences in private, either between the involved parties or failing that, by bringing your complaint along with as much reference material as possible directly to the administration. I am not going to bother explaining again why we handle things this way, as I have already done so in my previous posts above.

In attempt to put some more minds at ease, I would also like to note that a lot of these arguments have stemmed from a fallout in communication, record keeping, and ultimately consistent action. As such, I would like to let you all know that we are working to improve these matters by adding additional functionality to our diciplinary structure at the Shroomery. Specifically:

  • Add "Official Warning" Automated PM Warning System and Ban/Warning History to ************.php

    This would be similar to the "User Notes" field. However, the
    input placed in the "Official Warning" field would cause the
    warning to be automatically forwarded to the user's PM box,
    while subsequently appending the "User Notes" field with the
    date and ban information. Alternately, the ban history could
    be kept in a separate file for easier reference, leaving the
    "User Notes" for instances that do not merit an official warn-
    ing, but are perhaps worthy of noting for future reference.


  • Add a Timer and Automated PM Notification System for the Forum-Specific Bans

    This would have helped avoid Swami's latest bitchfest about
    not being notified for a few days as to how long his S&P
    forum-specific ban was going to last. It will also make it
    considerably easier on our moderators so that they don't
    have to remember when to unban users who should be let
    back into the forum at some point.


I am of the firm belief that the implementation of the above features will cause many of these arguments attacking specific policy measures to become moot, as there will soon be a detailed history of all prior infractions, moderator direction, and subsequent notes on your behavior, kept in a reference file that will allow for less subjective banning in the future. For some people, this may end up in longer bans, for others, it may mean that you will not be banned as quickly as you may have been in the past. At any rate, please know that we do listen, we are trying, but for crying out loud.. the administrators WILL ALWAYS make the final call in interpreting and enforcing our guidelines, regardless of how you or anyone else may feel about it!


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: gettinjiggywithit]
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You said "fluffernaut"! :dielaughing:

All-in-all, a very insightful post. :thumbup:


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: gettinjiggywithit]
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gettinjiggywithit said:
What sucks is, the admins are waiting longer to hear from them and they will keep mum because it's not in their nature to make waves for change even though they obviously want it. They are not comfortable sticking their necks out around these parts because the reductionists hammer may come out and pound their head in or the Occam's razor may come out and chop it off.


Believe me, as things stand it is almost inevitable that the forum will be split to allow the proliferation of the two conflicting styles of debate. However, if past action has taught us anything, it is that being hasty can often lead to more bumps in the road than necessary. As such, we are not only giving time for members to speak their piece on the matter, but also for the staff to organize and effectively prepare for the split behind the scenes. Patience, my friend - we are listening and we will act, in due time!


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: geokills]
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Quote:
the administrators WILL ALWAYS make the final call in interpreting and enforcing our guidelines, regardless of how you or anyone else may feel about it!



In other words folks, business is business. I have been involved with management disputes many times in my business career, and I know the above statement to be true and set in stone. In all my years I don't remember seeing a manager being fired unless they were caught stealing from the cookie jar. The offenses of the managers which go unpunished, if done by the staff workers almost always leads to their dismissal. It's the fucking way of the world and a big part human nature.

So no one is forcing anyone to stay here. If you really don't like it, tough, you'll have to leave.

I'm not saying this to management. You will not change. I'm saying this to the members of the Shroomery so you will know, and if you choose you can stay out of trouble.


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"Don't believe everything you think". -Anom.

" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC

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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Icelander]
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if you choose you can stay out of trouble

Not when intangibles such as 'tone' or 'intent' are subjectively applied. The content of ANY GIVEN THREAD should be judged on it's own merits, not the 'metric' of the liking or disliking of the poster.


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Swami]
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Should? Read my lips (and geokills)  :grin: It ain't gonna be thata way. :shocked:


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" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Icelander]
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I understand, but you said "choose". How can I choose how another will interpret anything I say? I could say, "I apologize for everything," and one could say that I was being sarcastic. I am in a lose-lose position.


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Swami]
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Well you don't know for sure. I think if you are sincere then time will bear that out and people will see by the consistancy of your actions.

In the end I don't think you can lose. There isn't anything that important going on here. If it all falls apart then everyone moves on. That's the great thing about life once you see it. Everything happens because it's exactly what you need. And if you don't resist you will smoothly go on to something else totally appropriate for you. :grin: Win/win. :thumbup: :heart:


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"Don't believe everything you think". -Anom.

" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC

Edited by Icelander (10/01/05 02:48 PM)

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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Swami]
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Win or loose, this whole discussion, and future changes, are because of YOU... and The Shroomery's desire to allow YOU to have every CHANCE to post they way YOU do, and to allow YOU stay here without fear (despite the feelings, and best efforts, of much of The Staff).

The problem is, YOU haven't SEEMED to get that. At least not publicly. Not in written form.

Yes, I understand the Catch-22 you feel (and look) like you've been put into.... but...

You are winning. Be patient and let this play out a bit more.

I imagine you could change your tone, as the Administration recently did, to reflect the ACTUAL situation better.

FOR FUCK'S SAKE, FEEL THE LOVE!

Those S&P Mods, mistakes and all, have done a LOT, and have come a LONG way... in just a few days.

They may hold their tongues in public, but THOSE are the facts.


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Rose]
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You are winning.

R-I-G-H-T!  A two-week ban over absolutely nothing demonstrates that things 'are-a-changing'... :rolleyes:


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: geokills]
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geokills said:
This is not to say we don't want a happy membership, because of course a happy membership makes our jobs easier and the experience here better for everyone involved.  However, our various rules/guidelines are in place primarily as instruction to our moderators as to how the administration would like to see matters handled.  In so far as why we don't just come out and say that "We'll ban you if we damn well please," I have said as much on more than one ocassion in the past.



It makes me, a long-time Shroomery member, very unhappy to hear of such arbitrary abuse of power. :crying:


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Silversoul]
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While the level of clarity remains unchanged; the honesty level is increasing.


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: Swami]
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What does "Stop it!" mean to you?

Me personally?  What are you, a cop?  :smirk:

Or maybe you mean can I read the mind of the moderator that said it to you?  No.

As to your tennis example, if you flipped them off or said "fuck you Ump" after each point, they warn, then take away a point, then a game, then the set and ultimately the match.  Those are in fact the rules, and how they are applied. 

You can argue that you haven't flipped off the Shroomery mods and admins but your case is weak, counselor.  :frown:


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: LunarEclipse]
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Or maybe you mean can I read the mind of the moderator that said it to you? No.

Neither can I. That was the exact 'reason' given as an 'explanation'.


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Re: Can we have a scat-free discussion about S&P? [Re: LunarEclipse]
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You can argue that you haven't flipped off the Shroomery mods and admins but your case is weak, counselor.

I wsih you could read the 'Holiday Cookie' thread that was deep-sixed (not merely locked) and then point out what in there fits your definition of "flipping off'.

No surprise you are NOT allowed to even read it lest you go insane.  :rolleyes:

BTW, do yo consider the use of the 'eye-rolling icon' a bannable offense?


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