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JettaJay
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Friends
#3802918 - 02/19/05 10:26 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Why do certain so-caleld friends only call when they know you have some nugs ??? I got some really really good nugs last night and he has called 33 times since 8:15 this morning. Literally. What do you guys think about this ?
-------------------- I saw a little green light buzzing around in a tree, and it dawned on me that "they" were here ~~~LouiseLouise
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SidiHidi
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If you are his regular hook-up, I don't see the problem. Just answer and tell him why you can't hook him up this time.
If its just a smoking buddy then he is using you. Either way I would just answer and deal with it instead of letting him have the hope of smoking your stash all day long...
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JettaJay
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SidiHidi said: If you are his regular hook-up, I don't see the problem. Just answer and tell him why you can't hook him up this time.
If its just a smoking buddy then he is using you. Either way I would just answer and deal with it instead of letting him have the hope of smoking your stash all day long...
Not a regular hook up ... He will come over and be like lets toot one bro. Ok so we smoke a j or 2. He says man I don't have any cash but I'll pay you next week. No problem no need for money Bro. Now he calls all the time and says can you go pick me up an 1/8. Yeah you got some cash. No but I will next friday. It's always next frieday with him.
I was trying to sleep since I didn't get to sleep last night till about 8 this morning. He calls @ 8:15.
-------------------- I saw a little green light buzzing around in a tree, and it dawned on me that "they" were here ~~~LouiseLouise
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Adom
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This is why I don't have a cellphone and don't keep my ringer on, ever. I only return messages, I dislike phones and make it very difficult for people to find me.
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ToTheSummit
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"I will gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today."
He is not your friend.
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Adom
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Real friends are hard to come by.
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SidiHidi
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Fronting every once in a long while is a good way of building trust imo, but you have to know the person very well before considering it. I wouldn't front to this guy in question though...
-------------------- R.I.P. Hunter, you will certainly be missed
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JettaJay
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Re: Friends [Re: Adom]
#3803010 - 02/19/05 11:00 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Adom said: Real friends are hard to come by.
so true so true ... for some reason I feel I have some good friends here at the shroomery.
I only front my best friend. Hell most of the time he doesn't even have to pay me but he does. I front you guys more shit that I would people in real life. I feel like I know some of you people better.
-------------------- I saw a little green light buzzing around in a tree, and it dawned on me that "they" were here ~~~LouiseLouise
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Toricious
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I try so very hard not to be that person, I feel real guilty when I ask a friend I don't talk to often if he can help me out....although I always pay, and for some reason I tip too...
-------------------- "There's a guy in my apple!" "Jerk off on weed man, that's where it's at... " -Anjaba
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Mushie_Man
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Friends are not users, if you give him stuff for free all the time, your being the friend, his being the user.
I hate people like that, only recently have i realized who my real friends are, i don't see how people can treat me like shit for nothing. I don't treat no-one like shit, not for no reason anyway. If someone does me a favor, ill respect them for it, and let what ever problem we have lie. But no, some people there is no pleasing, those people are a waste of time, they just take and not give. I myself, am happy to give and help people, i see no need or reason to be a hater. It just pisses me off when i don't receive the respect that i happily give.
I guess that just life, and it sucks.
-------------------- Ecstacy got me standing next to you Getting sentimental as fuck spillin' guts to you We just met But I think I'm in love with you But you're on it too So you tell me you love me too Wake up in the morning like "yo, what the fuck we do?"
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largosnook
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I was thinking the same thing last night. I have some friends that only come around when the want to eat some caps, my mistake was letting them know I can get some. They wonder how it is I usually have some. (They don't know the "whole" story!) Fuckers man, and they never want to give up anything for them. My true friends, its cool, I have no problem hooking them up for fun, but the others, its not a problem for the first 20,000 times but then it gets to be a bullshit-hassle.
the ones I'm talking about are bitches, plain and simple.
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JettaJay
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largosnook said: I was thinking the same thing last night. I have some friends that only come around when the want to eat some caps, my mistake was letting them know I can get some. They wonder how it is I usually have some. (They don't know the "whole" story!) Fuckers man, and they never want to give up anything for them. My true friends, its cool, I have no problem hooking them up for fun, but the others, its not a problem for the first 20,000 times but then it gets to be a bullshit-hassle.
the ones I'm talking about are bitches, plain and simple.
I hear ya man .... BTW Welcome and glad to see a fellow Kentuckian Here !!! I think we have 3 or 4 now !!
-------------------- I saw a little green light buzzing around in a tree, and it dawned on me that "they" were here ~~~LouiseLouise
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Learyfan
It's the psychedelic movement!
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Stop talking to this guy. He's not your friend.
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Hendostan
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agreed, there is a clear pattern here. i have friends who i smoke up ocassionally, or give a gram or 2 for free, but it's rare and it always comes back to me next time i am out and need a smoke. this i don't mind, but when the only time i ever hear from someone is if i have nugs and they always want to be smoked up, it gets to be quite a resentful situation, you just gotta cut off those people. they aren't friends.
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UpSwell
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Real friends in the drug underworld are few and far between. How many of these people would you interact with in the absence of psychoactive chemicals? Honestly answered, I bet the the number is few few few.
But this guy sounds worse than usual.
If you were to do an experiment and stop all chemicals for 120 days, this guy would be the first one to stop contact with you. That's not a friend that's a customer.
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delta9
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Learyfan said: Stop talking to this guy. He's not your friend.
We call people like this guy "user friendlies".
-------------------- delta9
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