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Advice
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There is this girl at my work iv known for years and have always been interested in and its got to where we have been leveling with each other about our hopes and dreams and it is makeing me more attracted to her but she hsa a boyfriend atm. I know for a fact that she is having problems with her boyfriend cause she ask me my opion about her situation from time to time and i keep hinting about my feelings for her by saying my opion is bias but she pressits any way for my opion. One time she listened to me and broke up with him, but went back to him a day latter but shes still not happy with her situiation. Then a couple a days ago she asked me if i wanted to go clubing with her to meet some people and i told her i didnt know atm because iv been thinking of how i should handel this sitiuation.

Should i just flat out tell her what im thinking or should I play my cards smart?


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Re: Advice [Re: Protester]
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TELL HER! She probably doesn't think you're interested.

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Re: Advice [Re: adrug]
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adrug said:
TELL HER! She probably doesn't think you're interested.


This is one time that I would have to agree with adrug!

Sounds to me like the feeling may be mutual. Go for it and good luck.


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Re: Advice [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
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Hmm, seems like everyone's lobbying towards telling her. And I agree.

Find a good time to tell her, don't just spurt it out. You don't want to come off as a prick, but at the same time you have to be true to yourself. It'd be better to tell her how you're feeling now before your feelings escalate. Hope things work out for ya. :smile:

*addendum*

Nice peices in your avatar!! Whoot whoot! Hope you put them to good use. :grin:

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Re: Advice [Re: Protester]
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seems likes shes attached & codependant on this guy.
if she breaks up with him, to be with you,
do you really want a relationship based on a rebound?

what happens if she doesnt like you that way
and you tell her how you feel?


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Re: Advice [Re: 40oz]
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Yeah Im kinda getting the same pitcure fortyounces2freedom. She did agreee to go to the club with me the otherday on saturday, but today she she was wanting to me to help her with how shes feeling right now and i never have any luck after i do help girls because I become a FRIEND. But i really do care for her and have for years, went to high school together. What I think I am going to do is wait till saturday away from work before i try to really talk to her about this because i dont want her to get upset at work and have a break down I. respect her too much to do so. And as far as her not likeing me back thats not a problem my whole life has been one big rejection from my parents to most areas of society so im used to it and would rather know where i stand so i can move on and not worry about what might have been if I dont.


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Re: Advice [Re: Protester]
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just tell her that you have strong feelings for her and that you are not the best person to give her advice about the problems she is having with her boyfriend. Tell her you will be there for her but she has to decide what to do about him on her own.


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Edited by UncleMike (08/18/04 06:25 PM)

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Re: Advice [Re: Protester]
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tell her, there is way too much indirectness in this world and its making people weak, its the harder thing to do, but the right thing.


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