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 THEBOSS
THE BOSS
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 Looking for some help................. 
#2443697 - 03/17/04 04:07 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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**PLEASE NO FLAMING**
Hey everybody, maybe someone out there can help me out. What im trying to do is help my dad find info on my mom. She has been unfaithful and is spending a lot of money on the "DL" and they are now in the middle of a divorce witch she has throw in his face that she will take my youngist brother (because he is a paycheck to her) and will be coming after him for "all the money she can get". I need to get ALL the dirt i can to help my dad he has done nothing wrong execpt staying with her as long as he has, but thats neither here nor there. Any help would be great. Thanks everyone.
THE BOSS
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 notapillow
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: THEBOSS]
#2443715 - 03/17/04 04:10 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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wow that sux man
ya this would be flame city in any other fourm
uh what i would do is start looking into a private infestigator
shop around thought
i here they r expensive
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: THEBOSS]
#2443734 - 03/17/04 04:14 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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I wouldn't know what to tell you ??????
But I hope things work themselves out.
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Che_Night_Soil
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: notapillow]
#2443739 - 03/17/04 04:15 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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I was gonna say the same. How do the PI's findings work in court, I wonder. Maybe she would just be so freaked out by the potential evidence against her that she would back down a little.
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: THEBOSS]
#2443755 - 03/17/04 04:21 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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just tell them in court that she'd beat u on the balls of yer feet with a cane frequently resullting in no bruising but lots of mental anguish proving she is unfit to care for children
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: Che_Night_Soil]
#2443761 - 03/17/04 04:24 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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My dad cant afford a PI, because my mom has drained the accounts, but my dad and i have a TON of things to go on, like passwords to work e-mail, cell phone messages and such. We think we know who he is but i dont want her to know we know anything so we can get more information. Im looking for like Net Detective software or someone that knows how to hack or anything to that effect. It just makes me SOOO mad that she has my younger brother brain washed and he will only be hurt in the end. Get this "the family" has no money for rent or any extras for my brother (like going to the movies or anything) but shes has a cruz with this guy in the works after she takes my dads money (found and recorded the message from her cell phone). Thanks for not flaming this, i know if i went to OTD that it wouldn't even get a positve respones. Thanks again everyone.
THE BOSS
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: Che_Night_Soil]
#2443765 - 03/17/04 04:26 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Che_Night_Soil said:
I was gonna say the same. How do the PI's findings work in court, I wonder. Maybe she would just be so freaked out by the potential evidence against her that she would back down a little.
Thanks for your help, but im serious.
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shriek
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: THEBOSS]
#2443773 - 03/17/04 04:29 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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maybe its just better to back away and let them figure it out, but one effective weapon is always to speak the truth and how you are seein things. do not worry about saving them for details, tell them both exactly how you feel about it. hearing the truth from your own kids makes you think more about it than hearin it from a husband you are cheatin on and wants to divorce.
hope things work out for the best for both you and your brother
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: THEBOSS]
#2443779 - 03/17/04 04:32 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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that sucks. i unfortunately have no advice for you. i hope it works out good for you though. divorce sucks unless its for good reason, but you said she was unfaithful which sounds like a reason, but it still sucks. sorry man. and thats stupid if she is taking your younger brother just cause of child support and shit.
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THEBOSS
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: shriek]
#2443806 - 03/17/04 04:39 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
shriek said:
maybe its just better to back away and let them figure it out, but one effective weapon is always to speak the truth and how you are seein things. do not worry about saving them for details, tell them both exactly how you feel about it. hearing the truth from your own kids makes you think more about it than hearin it from a husband you are cheatin on and wants to divorce.
hope things work out for the best for both you and your brother
I would agree, but my mom is a sick and twisted person. Myself and another brother and sister (all adults) all came to my mom and told her we new what she was doin about a year ago and told her we wanted nothing to do with her since all she did was try and pawn it off on my dad because he didn't show her enough atention, she doesn't care and would have nothing to do with my younger brother but hes her pay check.
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: THEBOSS]
#2443832 - 03/17/04 04:46 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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Howm old is your brother?...he may be old enough to have a say in where he lives and what happens to him
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: monkey_monkey]
#2443839 - 03/17/04 04:49 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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yea that would be really cool if that would work out. i was in that situation of being able to pick where i wanted to live. but i didn't wanna completely ditch my dad so i just wanted more time with my mom.
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Che_Night_Soil
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: THEBOSS]
#2443845 - 03/17/04 04:51 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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Okay, so was I. If your dad left a manilla envelope full of pictures of her and the other guy on the kitchen table, don't you think that would have some affect on her? She could be followed and photographed w/out hiring a PI, and she wouldn't have to know who took the pictures. If she's essentially told you guys she doesn't care, I doubt her attitude is going to change much between now and the divorce.
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: Che_Night_Soil]
#2443860 - 03/17/04 04:58 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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NetDetective sucks.
go here..
Good Luck man. 
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Re: Looking for some help................. [Re: THEBOSS]
#2443873 - 03/17/04 05:06 PM (13 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'd be careful about snooping through email accounts and the like... it would reflect poorly upon you and your father if the info came to light in court. But best of luck, sounds like a shitty situation.
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