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Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me
#21733004 - 05/28/15 03:42 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Long story short I work with this bitch. She's cute and flirty so I get her number. We plan on going hiking. We start texting about relationships and I say that I'm a sexual person. She says she doesn't want to date. I say well I am cancelling the hike because I thought it was a date. Next Monday I'm sitting in my bosses office and he's fucking foaming at the mouth. Saying I was sexually harassing her and he shows me a print out of the texts. I say that might be inappropriate but how is that sexual harassment? He just gets more pissed so I shut my mouth. Be careful with women some of them are fucking cunts. She put my career in jeopardy for no reason.
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: i like cow poo]
#21733051 - 05/28/15 03:53 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah that's BS, I don't see how that's harassment either. When she said she wasn't interested you backed off. Kind of seems like she was trying to get back at you for cancelling.
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: i like cow poo] 10
#21733056 - 05/28/15 03:54 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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This is why you shouldn't try to date your co-workers
Nothing good can come of it
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: i like cow poo] 4
#21733058 - 05/28/15 03:55 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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no joke. Women can say damn near anything about you, and if its related to sexual misconduct, everybody will believe her. Ruins lives.
Nothing you say as a man can change peoples mind once a woman has accused you. its completely bogus
(It is kind of nice to see that at least some things are biased against men instead of everything being biased against women, but eh.)
You've just got to remember to try to never seriously wrong a woman. Because you never know who will play this ugliest of all cards. Sorry to hear that happened to you OP. This must be where the phrase 'hell hath no fury like a woman scorned' comes from.
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: i like cow poo]
#21733066 - 05/28/15 03:56 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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damn bro. I would hate to be in your position. best thing you can do is sit down with your boss and explain how your not that type of person. Also a word of advice to you man and im speaking from experience . DONT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT!
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: i like cow poo] 2
#21733068 - 05/28/15 03:56 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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why would u cancel the hike just because she didnt wanna bang or w/e? thats weird to me
she still is a cunt tho
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: Psilosopherr]
#21733078 - 05/28/15 03:59 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Truly sucks.
I remember the good ole days when you could just grab a woman by her hair and drag her to your cave. Easier times back then.
SO how are you going to deal with this OP? Surely that goes straight to your record. Was your boss that pissed? Did he percieve it as harrassement too? Or is it a "she"?
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: Sheekle]
#21733085 - 05/28/15 04:00 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Cuz being just friends is lame
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: i like cow poo]
#21733088 - 05/28/15 04:01 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Thanks for the responses guys. I can't believe that she tried to pull that shit. Thank god I was playing it safe or else I might really be fucked. I guess the moral of the story is avoid saying anything that can be used against you over text. The bitch basically flirted with me and acted like she was interested.
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#21733095 - 05/28/15 04:02 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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OhMrJohnson said: Cuz being just friends is lame
so you would rather not be friends with someone at all, than be friends with them but not have sex?
bizarre
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: Sheekle] 1
#21733098 - 05/28/15 04:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I think it's dumb what she did but it's good she got that out of the way. idk, would you wanna be with someone who'd do something like that?
Anyway, she might have been interested. You should have went on the hike anyway. Just the fact that you said you're sexual and she still wanted to go means something. She might have said she's not interested because she wants a relationship but doesn't want you to think she's just a lay.
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: Sheekle]
#21733099 - 05/28/15 04:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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OhMrJohnson said: Cuz being just friends is lame
so you would rather not be friends with someone at all, than be friends with them but not have sex?
bizarre
Sarcasm my boy
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: Patlal]
#21733105 - 05/28/15 04:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I bet the fucking Cunt came in crying and overexaggerated everything. That's why my boss who's a man was so pissed. I was let off with a warning but now my boss thinks I'm some molester or shit. If anything else happens I'm lawyerin up. The damn fuckhead didn't even want to hear my side of the story.
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: Psilosopherr]
#21733106 - 05/28/15 04:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Truly sucks.
I remember the good ole days when you could just grab a woman by her hair and drag her to your cave. Easier times back then.
SO how are you going to deal with this OP? Surely that goes straight to your record. Was your boss that pissed? Did he percieve it as harrassement too? Or is it a "she"?
Oh yea cos you were alive back then right?
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rbalzer said: no joke. Women can say damn near anything about you, and if its related to sexual misconduct, everybody will believe her. Ruins lives.
Nothing you say as a man can change peoples mind once a woman has accused you. its completely bogus
(It is kind of nice to see that at least some things are biased against men instead of everything being biased against women, but eh.)
You've just got to remember to try to never seriously wrong a woman. Because you never know who will play this ugliest of all cards. Sorry to hear that happened to you OP. This must be where the phrase 'hell hath no fury like a woman scorned' comes from.
I don't see why a man should teepee-toe around a woman just to avoid her getting angry.
Another thing, how is this considered sexual harassment if this happened outside of work. I mean I assume you were texting her away from the place you work.
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: Sham87] 5
#21733111 - 05/28/15 04:06 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sham87 said:
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Patlal said: Truly sucks.
I remember the good ole days when you could just grab a woman by her hair and drag her to your cave. Easier times back then.
SO how are you going to deal with this OP? Surely that goes straight to your record. Was your boss that pissed? Did he percieve it as harrassement too? Or is it a "she"?
Oh yea cos you were alive back then right?
Alright. I did not think I would have to do this, but apparently I do.
It was a joke.
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: larry.fisherman]
#21733118 - 05/28/15 04:08 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Dude fuck that bitch imagine what would happen if I pissed her off and she actually knew I did illegal stuff. Or just had any real dirt on me in general.
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#21733126 - 05/28/15 04:10 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah I learned that lesson now.
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: i like cow poo] 4
#21733128 - 05/28/15 04:10 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I hate to be the devils advocate but, surely you said something sexual and you're holding it back from us.
Where did you fuck up? What was that one reply that made you a perv?
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: i like cow poo]
#21733130 - 05/28/15 04:10 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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she sounds like a truly terrible person
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Re: Just had a sexual harassment complaint filed against me [Re: larry.fisherman]
#21733136 - 05/28/15 04:11 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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XLCaps said: I think it's dumb what she did but it's good she got that out of the way. idk, would you wanna be with someone who'd do something like that?
Anyway, she might have been interested. You should have went on the hike anyway. Just the fact that you said you're sexual and she still wanted to go means something. She might have said she's not interested because she wants a relationship but doesn't want you to think she's just a lay. 
Yeah it kind of sounds like she was trying to pull some kind of hard-to-get routine, then got pissed when it backfired.
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