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thirtygoats
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An unfortunate set of circumstances
#17782235 - 02/11/13 10:02 AM (11 years, 1 month ago) |
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So I don't have cable on my tv anymore and the radio sucks. My laptop just broke and I have no one to talk to in my area.
I don't know what I would do if I didn't have a job... probably go more insane.
I happened to get some green the other day and got high... then I realized how alone I was and how empty I felt. I have no girlfriend, I don't hang out with anyone my age and I'm only 22
All my friends and social connects were... on the internet... and since I had no computer anymore, it felt like I didn't exist. It's a difficult feeling to explain and it's depressing...
wtf is going on
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Uzziel
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Re: An unfortunate set of circumstances [Re: thirtygoats] 1
#17782249 - 02/11/13 10:06 AM (11 years, 1 month ago) |
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I was in the same boat man. I lost all my friends from HS from either them moving away and just drifting apart or I realized they weren't worth the time anymore.
You just gotta get out and do what you like.... people with the same interests will fall into place if you do this. Go see some live music and meet people, go to a pool hall, or whatever interests you
You might be alone now but that doesn't mean you have to be. Number of friends don't matter... go find a quality friend
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The5thElement
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Re: An unfortunate set of circumstances [Re: Uzziel]
#17782429 - 02/11/13 10:40 AM (11 years, 1 month ago) |
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Try exercising too, go for a run everyday. Do it first thing in the morning or about and hour after a light breakfast... I found this helps, I feel a lot happier after a run and feel pretty good for the rest of the day. Uzziel has some pretty spot on advice too.
-------------------- Fail forward
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Re: An unfortunate set of circumstances [Re: thirtygoats]
#17782664 - 02/11/13 11:38 AM (11 years, 1 month ago) |
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You're a New World man. You do your gregariousness on the net
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circastes
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Re: An unfortunate set of circumstances [Re: Anonymous #1]
#17784715 - 02/11/13 05:39 PM (11 years, 1 month ago) |
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Chill out man, I am 25 and I have basically no friends, but everyone I meet likes me, most people smile at me, and I am at the very least content, at the most full of wonder.
Loneliness is actually a psychological issue. You shouldn't feel alone no matter what you're doing. You should experience love without other people or material objects etc.
Learn to observe reality properly, and you will never be bored, never be alone, you will always be living in the ultimate moment.
Become a producer of love not a consumer, and you will only give to friends and have nothing to take, so what is their necessity?
The best thing to do is to choose to not hate anything, anything at all. It will get you 99% of the way to where you want to be.
-------------------- My solitude... My shield... My armour... TESTED WITH FULL FORCE
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Almond Flour
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Re: An unfortunate set of circumstances [Re: circastes]
#17785155 - 02/11/13 06:57 PM (11 years, 1 month ago) |
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Psalm 68:6 God setteth the solitary in families: he bringeth out those which are bound with chains: but the rebellious dwell in a dry land.
-------------------- Hippies and Liberals love Pope Francis, so why dont I quote him for you guys. "There is NO SALVATION outside the Catholic Church"
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