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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
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no more anon? haha


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: pachoo]
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whoops :P

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
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i know who you are!!! hahaha

but seriously enjoy yourself. you two seem like you would be a cute couple.

it feels weird when people call you "mommy" or "daddy" when they're into you. haha unless you are of course... a mommy or daddy.


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: pachoo]
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i always attributed that to girls with daddy issues

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
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On a scale of one to greasy this thread is right up there.

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Jwlst]
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I spoke to my mum about this and she talked to one of her friends who is a psychologist and she said we might as well just go for it, like keep doing what we're doing... can't help how you feel about someone, and sooner or later the other guy is going to find out its just a matter of when, something i am not looking forward to at all. it is such a horrible thing like an elephant in the corner all the time when we are together like last night we went out and hung out with some of her old friends and we were sort of like not doing any PDA stuff because you know, its kind of awkward when ppl are asking about the ex or something

fucking horrible... theres so many things i want to do or say with/to her but feel like i just can't or i dont have the right to or something.

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
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So how is the other guy doing?

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #6]
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not too well i dont think... i havent seen a lot of my friends for qiute a while now and tbh i dont know if i actually reallly miss them or anything... feels kind of weird

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Yeah well friends come and go.  That happened to me to for no reason I can figure out.  It sounds like you got your family and thats all that matters.

Just go for it dude, you've got nothing to lose! 

Don't live in guilt, do your best to make things right, but maybe the best thing is to move on and make new friends.

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #6]
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i have plenty of other circles of friends, these ones are kinda my 'main ones' or something... but it wouldnt be hard for me to move away and 'start again' (kinda done it a few times anyway)

the other day i got home from her place, i was in the toilet and my mum has a bunch of those kind of motivational quotes all over the toilet door and one of them was a list of how to live your life and one of them was "if a relationship has to be a secret... you shouldn't be in it" it kinda stuck out like dogs balls to me


i really love this girl

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
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they've been broken up a few weeks now, we've been hanging out virtually non stop. the ex is really adamant on getting back together with her... but she doesn't want a bar of it.. we spoke last night and she said she could really see us working together as a relationship but seriously it would be next to impossible with that in the background behind us, no doubt raging. he sent me a message saying basically stay away, why am i lingering around her, she's the love of his life etc, and i kind of got worried... i dunno... i feel like it's worth pursuing a relationship with this girl, in fact i really fucking want to but i feel there is no avenue for us to go down for it to happen..

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
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i think you should grow some balls. you pretty much love her, she cares deeply about you. the only one in the way is the ex. because he's a bit heart broken. don't be afraid of your feelings towards one another.

i wouldn't flaunt in the guys face but maybe i would talk to him about it. tell him she cares for you and you care for her, and you're sorry it ended between them. but don't know how much anger the guy has pent up, you might get punched in the face. but seriously, what's one punch for a happy relationship? i'd totally get into a girl fight with my fiance's ex, she was crazy though but i know how to fight. i believe of fighting for what i believe in and what i want. there's no shame in that.

once you get over this hurdle with the ex, then you two can go public and get on with it.


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: pachoo]
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pachoo said:
i think you should grow some balls. you pretty much love her, she cares deeply about you. the only one in the way is the ex. because he's a bit heart broken. don't be afraid of your feelings towards one another.

i wouldn't flaunt in the guys face but maybe i would talk to him about it. tell him she cares for you and you care for her, and you're sorry it ended between them. but don't know how much anger the guy has pent up, you might get punched in the face. but seriously, what's one punch for a happy relationship? i'd totally get into a girl fight with my fiance's ex, she was crazy though but i know how to fight. i believe of fighting for what i believe in and what i want. there's no shame in that.

once you get over this hurdle with the ex, then you two can go public and get on with it.


I dont think its going to be just a fight lol, this kid was his good friend or something. But yah what he said just go for her everything its way to late to consider any other option


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: remember_me]
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In all honesty I think it would come down to me probably getting my ass kicked, which I would deserve. There would be no talking to him about it.. it would just be incredibly awkward.

it would result in me having to quit my job and move away, or he would have to do the same. we work together and see each other a lot so yeah one of us would have to go, and i'm almost betting it would be him as he has been talking about it for a while now... or if he decides to make things incredibly hard for me (woudn't blame him) then I would have to go.

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
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edit: i posted in the wrong thread :shrug:


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Edited by remember_me (11/02/11 02:56 AM)

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: remember_me]
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So dont tell him i guess, most people find out eventually i think though


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: remember_me]
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well i hope he leaves then. it would be good for him. and for the both of you. it seems like you guys aren't even close anymore. i mean, he told you to stay away from her. and honestly, i would kick your ass too. haha but people get over it and that's life.

you and this girl really seem to be good together and they weren't. no one's fault.


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous said:
In all honesty I think it would come down to me probably getting my ass kicked, which I would deserve. There would be no talking to him about it.. it would just be incredibly awkward.

it would result in me having to quit my job and move away, or he would have to do the same. we work together and see each other a lot so yeah one of us would have to go, and i'm almost betting it would be him as he has been talking about it for a while now... or if he decides to make things incredibly hard for me (woudn't blame him) then I would have to go.


I just got out of a somewhat similar situation except I was in his situation. We were working together, building a business that was going to very soon (within a year) have us both completely set for life. My girlfriend of 5 years left me and within a week, started hooking up with my best friend and in two, moved in with him. And this was all after they promised that my friendship was more important than them being together (I had called them both out on their bullshit), which to be honest is more of the reason why I was so pissed. I went to his house shortly after that when she was in class, completely with the intention of beating him until his face was rearranged and he could barely breathe because his ribs were poking into his lungs. But when I got there, I couldn't do it, because I love him too. So instead, I cracked him so hard in the stomach that he was lying on the ground struggling to breathe for a couple minutes and then I left. This was about a month and a half ago now. I'm still bitter, I never hang around either of them anymore, but I don't hate them. Quite the opposite. I still love both of them but I can't stand to be around them right now. I know I'll get over it but it is going to take a lot of time... Go for it, dude. Love can be a bitch sometimes, but me n her weren't meant to be together, and obviously your friend wasn't meant to be with that chick.

edit: Hmm just saw that this is a really old post. Well I'd like to know what choice you made and how it worked out.

Edited by Anonymous (07/16/12 05:19 AM)

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #10]
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I've been meaning to update this for quite a while now.

Well me and the girl are together. Things are going pretty well. She came clean to him not long ago about her feelings towards me, and he was ok with it. In fact he seems to have taken it really well. We are no longer friends, I havent spoken to any of that crowd for a long time now. Things are pretty icy there but me and the girl are really happy together. Things are going great and I'm moving in with her in a couple of weeks.

HE said he is "as ok as he can be" about us getting together if I just go and talk to him about it. "man up" so to speak. I am planning on doing this, I don't expect to receive the same warm reception she did about it and I'm expecting a quite heated discussion and a while ago he actually said he wanted to "thump me" which is quite expected. She hasn't told him we are actually 'together' as that would cause all kinds of untold drama, but as far as he knows, it looks like we 'will be together' if that makes sense, it still feels shit that it's a lie, but she says she feels a whole lot better now that she has come clean about it. and i told her that it was  a huge step for her to take to do that, and now it's just up to me about how I go about talking to him aout it. i am really nervous as can be expected, obviously ive sacrificed a lot of friendships for this girl, but i think in the long run i will be happy. if we break up, that's going to be really tough but i have other friends and other lives  i can lead elsewhere.

Her and him are still both friends she said she didnt want to lose his friendship over it, he cant hate her about it as much as me.

We have done lots of things together so far, gone travelling and had some great times. Things are going really well, and I'm really glad I pursued this and let it happen, I'm the happiest I've been in a long time. And I think I make her happy too. I know that he has been left in the dust but to be honest it was probably for the best for him, he said he always felt tied down by it and missed his freedom of being single and being able to up and travel whenever he wanted, which he is looking into now (from the info I've gathered) so yeah, I dunno, a silver lining for him, and a new relationship for the both of us.

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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
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I'm glad that you two are happy! I really hope my ex and my friend are happy, because they are both incredibly codependent and codependency is fucking miserable.

She is going to lose his friendship, at least for a little bit. That is something she is going to need to accept. As for whatever chat the two of you have, he is probably going to thump you. Be ready for it. And to be honest, I would let it happen. If my buddy had tried to fight back, I probably would've done what I originally planned, which was fucking break him to the point that his pretty face would never be pretty again and it would forever hurt for him to stand up straight or even lie in a bed.

Time will heal things. He may never be your best friend again, but there will be a time where the two of you will be able to kick the shit without kicking the shit out of each other.

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