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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: moonrockmushy]
#14568219 - 06/06/11 06:13 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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he's back and it seems fine, albeit just rocky between those two. when he got back i think they spent like one night together "sorting shit out" and she told him to leave because she wanted to be alone. considering how shit she was feeling when he was away im surprised theyre not spending all possible time together, its odd. and as i said, when he was back she was on the drink one night with some friends and youd think she would be spending all her time with him that night considering hed just got back but no she barely spoke to him, was with me until 4am (of her own accord, she kept coming into my room at all hours to talk and whatnot)
everyone was really suspicious of us before anything even happened. we were hanging out a lot, and the bf even knows as she once said to him ages ago that if they weren't together she'd be with me. he knows that we are pretty close and was fine with it, but i done gone and fucked it up now by getting into this mess
chances are if she tells him she will tell the truth and she would not blame me (not that im not to blame) she is a very honest and down to earth girl and is very level headed. i think that is quite hard for yall to understand given the situation
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14568393 - 06/06/11 08:10 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Edited by shLong (03/03/12 11:43 PM)
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moonrockmushy
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: shLong]
#14569688 - 06/06/11 02:29 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Well my anonamous friend, I hope you find your girl, maybe this is not the one. If she is I hope your friend is understanding, and does not your ass.
Sounds to me like it could make for some very awkward situations but like you sez, I'm not privy to all the bits. I'd love to hear what you end up doing and how it turns out.
It sucks how people are suspiscious, gossipy, and judgemental
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: moonrockmushy] 1
#14571404 - 06/06/11 08:37 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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You are a serious dickhead, hope you fall in love with a girl who goes behind your back with a good mate. Maybe then you will know how it feels ya scumbag.
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: moonrockmushy]
#14571761 - 06/06/11 09:47 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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moonrockmushy said: It sucks how people are suspiscious, gossipy, and judgemental 
Yeah it totally sucks when people are correct and right in their intuition... what?
They were suspicious because something was going on and everyone in his circle could see it. They are gossiping because HOLY SHIT, I dunno, one of their friends in their "tight circle" as the OP describes, is fucking another one of the friend's girlfriends in their tight circle. Gee, this wouldn't be a point of conversation? And they're judgmental because it's wrong. How can you fuck your friend like that? Bros before ho's.
You need to be honest with your friend. If you can't do that then you tell her to break it off with him before you hook up with her again. Have some fucking decency and don't fuck your friend's girlfriend. Jesus. Glad to know you feel bad about it but do you feel bad enough to do what's right?
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Jwlst]
#14572212 - 06/06/11 11:22 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Jwlst said: You are a serious dickhead, hope you fall in love with a girl who goes behind your back with a good mate. Maybe then you will know how it feels ya scumbag.
It's already happened to me, in a way much worse than this.
Also, we never fucked.
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#14572510 - 06/07/11 12:56 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Fuck your friend.
I had a choice to make, keep my friend or take her fiance. We decided on getting together and fucked everone else over (my husband included).
Im a selfish bitch I see what I want and I take it.
I life with no regrets. Turns out we're perfect for each other. Almost six years together and two kids together. So fuck them in their arses.
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14572618 - 06/07/11 02:03 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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you should have fucked her dude.
i had this same problem, I had this friend, and this chick he had broken up with was a total ho, she fucked like all his friends. anyway one night we are making out and i start fingering her and she is like "stop.. it feels so good, but stop... oh yeaahhh!! i mean stop" finally i stopped. then she suggests we go to his place and she crawls on me and we sleep on the couch in his room. the next day was ackward.
anyways awhile later they go back out for a week, and this time I'm sleeping in his room on the couch, while they are like fucking really obviously. at first it's under the covers, but then i would pass out for a few hours then wake up in the middle of the night, and just see her riding him like right there no covers or nothing.
so a week later she breaks up with him and goes out with this other guy, a total ho. she moves up north a ways, and at this point i don't really care about her anymore, so it's like no hard feelings, i fucked around with her, and w/e hey business is business, pleasure is pleasure, either way have fun and move on. so every week she calls me up to hang out and drink and smoke weed, I'm like "fuck yeah, why not, get high for free." i go up and chill with her and her new b/f like every weekend thinking it's all good. little do I know she still likes me.
one night I'm there with this chick, and her b/f is sleeping in the room, we are lying on the floor watching t.v. and her heroin addict sister is passed out on the couch, with her b/f. she starts rubbing my dick with her feet and shit, and I'm just kind of like "ok, didn't expect this, w/e, just roll with it" then she crawls on top of me. at this point I can ask her if she wants to go fuck in the car, or just straight up tell her that i don't want to fuck in the living room in her b/f's house, with her b/f in the bedroom, and her sis 2 feet behind us on the couch. but something else jumped in my mind "this is my home boys ex girl, poor dude"
anyway, i pass up a chance to get laid. but like years later, this dude is going out with a completely different chick, that I'm not interested in what so ever, and is a total bitch. long story short she hates his friends, convinces him to stop hanging out with them, including me. he becomes a total asshole, i mean this dude treats this bitch like she is his mommy or something, totally needs this bitch to think. real pussy whipped type. he ends up not hanging out with me over some other shit that never happened, because she convinced him so.
so in hind sight, the guy was a total asshole. never pass up a chance to get laid. if you are this dudes friend, do him a favor, take one for the team. fuck that bitch. i mean she doesn't care about him, right? she is kissing you and cuddling and shit while he is gone. he doesn't care about her, he takes off for weeks on end whenever he pleases, maybe he is fucking some other chick? who knows right... i don't know. fuck her now. she'll probly take off and never see him or you again. later on if he is a man you and him will get over it. boys are boys again. chicks will be chicks. life goes on. enjoy your night. you are giving me a head ache.
i wish i was you for a night just so I could fuck this chick and get rid of my head ache. I'm getting blue balls just reading your post. it's painful man. fuck her or don't. either way move on. I'm sure your boy would do the same shit to you if he were in your shoes. which.... maybe aint too great, but w/e I'm just saying I've seen it happen, you think you are such good friends with someone, but like they won't fuck your girl.
idk, anyway good luck
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Ravana]
#14572622 - 06/07/11 02:04 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ravana said: Fuck your friend.
I had a choice to make, keep my friend or take her fiance. We decided on getting together and fucked everone else over (my husband included).
Im a selfish bitch I see what I want and I take it.
I life with no regrets. Turns out we're perfect for each other. Almost six years together and two kids together. So fuck them in their arses.
glad that worked out for you
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: imachavel]
#14572638 - 06/07/11 02:13 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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meh, you misread the characters, personalities are quite different to what you are seeing I think
Thanks for the advice, but I'll pass on fucking her, as much as I want to, but it's just a really bad idea. I'm in deep enough as it is, I think.
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Bipolarbear]
#14572762 - 06/07/11 03:03 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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moonrockmushy said: It sucks how people are suspiscious, gossipy, and judgemental 
Yeah it totally sucks when people are correct and right in their intuition... what?
They were suspicious because something was going on and everyone in his circle could see it. They are gossiping because HOLY SHIT, I dunno, one of their friends in their "tight circle" as the OP describes, is fucking another one of the friend's girlfriends in their tight circle. Gee, this wouldn't be a point of conversation? And they're judgmental because it's wrong. How can you fuck your friend like that? Bros before ho's.
You need to be honest with your friend. If you can't do that then you tell her to break it off with him before you hook up with her again. Have some fucking decency and don't fuck your friend's girlfriend. Jesus. Glad to know you feel bad about it but do you feel bad enough to do what's right?
I don't really see it as anyone else's business but this dude here's, and the said couple. Of course, here I am poking my nose in as well, but I'm not ready to pass judgement as I don't know what he is going through, where he has been. Everyone out there is just doing their best, but sometimes our human desires get the better of us and we do things that we regret.
When it comes to love and sex, 'right' and 'wrong' can differ greatly from one person to the next. As I've said, I have very close friends that have constant problems with infidelity who I do not see as bad people, maybe confused, but good people all the same. Then again, I don't think monogamy is for everyone, especially when it comes to long-distance relationships. This guy sounds genuine in that he apparently really likes this girl, and at the same time is concerned for the well-being of his friend.
"Bros before hos" in my experience is just something that silly frat-boy types say until they get pussy-whipped, or realize that they are gay.
I do agree with the last paragraph here, honesty is always a good thing. That doesn't make it easy. As I have gotten older and learned to become more honest with myself and others, I find myself with much fewer "friends", but much better ones who accept me for what I am, and make my life happy rather than complicated.
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: moonrockmushy]
#14572889 - 06/07/11 04:53 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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moonrockmushy said:I don't really see it as anyone else's business but this dude here's, and the said couple.
Well, it got posted on a public forum so its gonna get a bunch of different opinions and judgements. Ones he likes and ones he don't, its just the way it goes...
But to the OP, you know your situation better than anyone here so I'm sure you'll do what you feel is best. All the best buddy.
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14573359 - 06/07/11 08:57 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: meh, you misread the characters, personalities are quite different to what you are seeing I think
Thanks for the advice, but I'll pass on fucking her, as much as I want to, but it's just a really bad idea. I'm in deep enough as it is, I think.
whatever works for you man
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Ravana]
#14576097 - 06/07/11 07:11 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ravana said: Fuck your friend.
I had a choice to make, keep my friend or take her fiance. We decided on getting together and fucked everone else over (my husband included).
Im a selfish bitch I see what I want and I take it.
I life with no regrets. Turns out we're perfect for each other. Almost six years together and two kids together. So fuck them in their arses.
Cool story, bro.
You live life with no regrets or morals apparently. I mean, leaving someone because you think you found the one I understand but to do so and actually enjoy the part where you are fucking over people who cared about you and that you (gasp!) supposedly cared about? That's a helluva way to live your life.
I see your tagline "Aussie Bitch" and your signature "Being unstable and bitchy is all part of my mystique"
Yep. I know all I ever need to know about you.
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Ravana] 1
#14576234 - 06/07/11 07:34 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ravana said: Fuck your friend.
I had a choice to make, keep my friend or take her fiance. We decided on getting together and fucked everone else over (my husband included).
Im a selfish bitch I see what I want and I take it.
I life with no regrets. Turns out we're perfect for each other. Almost six years together and two kids together. So fuck them in their arses.
I hope someone rapes and murders your children and their excuse for the crime is:
"Im a selfish bitch I see what I want and I take it."
Selfish bitch.
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Jwlst] 1
#14576238 - 06/07/11 07:35 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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i dont read bullshit posts that are 20 pages long with NO pictures
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: moonrockmushy]
#14577056 - 06/07/11 10:05 PM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I posted here so I expected no sympathy. I know what I did was wrong, and while i was less hammered I had a conscious mind to not let it go forward, unfortunately as I got more hammered the willpower to say no got weaker, I'm not blaming alcohol, I should have just stopped drinking and left. I don't want to fuck anyone over, and I don't want to hurt anyone, what happened was selfish but in true hindsight it was bound to happen eventually, we were hanging out a lot. I never made any flirtatious moves or anything, I made my best effort to keep my feelings to myself. I think I succeeded, she told me first.
It's a big drama pile of shit, really. I should just get over it and move on. It's a shame, I have had this crush on her for so long now, and to see it come out like this is quite shitty, really. I should have just put moves on her all the way back then.
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Jwlst] 1
#14578068 - 06/08/11 02:37 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sounds like you got a handle on it OP, hope things work out better for ya next time  Quote:
Jwlst said:
I hope someone rapes and murders your children and their excuse for the crime is:
"Im a selfish bitch I see what I want and I take it."
Selfish bitch.
That is a terrible thing to say, I know you are probably just being dramatic, but I don't see what her children have to do with this. So what, she is selfish, at least she is aware of it. Some seem completely oblivious that they are human and have faults.
We all come up with different explanations for the way we act, its not like any of them make any sense anyway if you look very deeply.
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: moonrockmushy]
#14578128 - 06/08/11 03:03 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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I have the social skills of a weather balloon. I have no confidence when it comes to talking to girls, which is how I end up in these situations. When I know a girl is taken, I immediately feel a lot more comfortable around her, because I can be myself around them without being paranois they think I'm hitting on them. It's a vicious cycle.
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14578372 - 06/08/11 05:57 AM (12 years, 7 months ago) |
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You and me both, man.
Its only lately that I've learned to be somewhat happy with myself, but I still don't feel that ladies are into me. I sometimes think its that I'm too nice, and that doesn't seem fair, maybe I'm just ugly I've given up on that stuff for now and am persuing other interests, trying to find my own peace.
I can't say I'm all that jealous usually, but a few times I've clicked with close friend's girlfriends and it is surely awkward. With all my lacking confidence I am still able to think, 'what is she doing with this dickhead, she should be with me!'. I always do my best to respect the people who have stood by me, that is just what is most important to me, not sex.
I've been the dude on the side when its not a friend's girl, I invariably end up feeling used. They take advantage of me for my sensitivity, get an ego boost, then go back to the asshole boyfriend when they're feeling better, I am left wondering what the hell I was thinking, feeling like a sucker. It really burns I hope I never make that mistake again.
Edited by moonrockmushy (06/08/11 06:00 AM)
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