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InvisiblepachooDiscord
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Re: friends gf [Re: cateyes]
    #15213818 - 10/12/11 12:58 PM (12 years, 3 months ago)

anon, don't be so pessimistic and hard on yourself. there are plenty of girls out there. you're in one city. and you're still young.

have some confidence mayne!!!

:hissyfit: 

and @ cateyes

:nono: tsk tsk. but at least you feel bad about it.


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Re: friends gf [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15213929 - 10/12/11 01:18 PM (12 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous said:

i dont think i will ever find true happiness in love

literally, i am :foreveralone: guy




while i am sad to hear that, just know that these things are like that by choice. and you can choose to change them at any time.  :murray:


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Re: friends gf [Re: Mr.PhilCybin]
    #15214162 - 10/12/11 02:02 PM (12 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

i dont think i will ever find true happiness in love






There is no such thing as "true happiness" and love is just a word that means different things to different people.  The type of love that sustains us has very little to do with physical attraction and sex.  You are just confused and afraid to view yourself as a solitary, imperfect creature.


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Re: friends gf [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #15232135 - 10/16/11 12:54 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

things are odd, they are broken up but he is really clingy to her and is constantly trying to go and hang out with her and what not, she said its really frustrating because she wants to be spending time with me but he is always calling her "where r u/what are you doing/who are u with" of course she never lies and says "i'm with 'anon1'" and whatnot but bleh

she sent me a really long msg last night (out of character for her) saying how she would much rather be spending time with me... but can't cut off all friendship ties with him as of their history and whatnot so feels obliged to at least be friends with him which adds to the fuckedupness of the situtation

fuck i dunno

i do know tho that he is still adamant in trying to keep some sort of relationshup with her, which she does not want.

anyway, we are going on a holiday together next week interstate which will be good but will somewheat weird

but i do love her company
and the more i look at her and hang out with her the more i feel in love with her

and basically, fuck all y'all naysayers


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Anonymous #1

Re: friends gf [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #15232149 - 10/16/11 01:00 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

also, please also note we have never had sex... as much as we have ended up in bed together and all over each other i've always stopped before we were just about to go all the way, it's that point and i've always had a lot of difficulty with sexuality and am very apprehensive to let sexual relationships develop. i never seek out sex and it is never high on my agenda. i feel a personality kinship with this girl, i am attracted to her personality above all . she is an amazing girl and i never just thought 'damn i'd bang that' or anything i have always seen past that and just thought she was  an amazing girl


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Re: friends gf [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15232201 - 10/16/11 01:15 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

DSHSB


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
    #15232392 - 10/16/11 03:00 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

anon troll removed

I'm not trying to be a total prick. You seem like a good dude aside from this situation. But I take that stuff seriously. You posted this so I feel like I have the right to post my real opinion. I have never once, online said anything so rude. Friends are my everything and the mean the world to me. They are all I have. I keep my friends close and they keep me close. But if you and your friends aren't that close and work differently than disregard my first sentence with the insults.

Love can do weird things to people, so I understand. Its a very strong drug. But the rules still apply ya know ? I thinks it's fine having sex with your friends girlfriend. It's all on how you want your life to pan out. You have to pick and choose what means the most to you.

You can feel when you cross the line. Do you feel it ? I did it once when I was young by talking shit on my friend and shooting him down to a girl that we both wanted and I learned the most important lesson of my life. DONT FUCK YOUR FRIENDS OVER.

If you and the kid aren't that close and you would rather be with this girl than have his friendship, forget the opinions and comments of your other peers. They will understand if they are good friends, with a good explanation from you, your friend and his girl.
If he doesn't mean a lot to you, meet up with him and say you you both have feelings for one another and you two were intimate(in one way or another) and that it's been that way for a while and it's got to be solved now. Those two will break it off and you two will hook up. It's the least painful and probably the most respectful way to handle this from here on out.

If you two hook up, count on loosing that friend no matter what. Even if the whole "we are still cool and i still wanna kick it" bullshit is said.

I couldn't sleep knowing I fucked up and could wake up to a game over phone call from my rightfully so, hurt, pissed off and betrayed friend of mine. good luck :thumbup:


Edited by koraks (10/16/11 01:29 PM)


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #15232400 - 10/16/11 03:04 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

I like this post. When I posted DSHSB it made me chuckle and worth it.

But not worth it if you were to screw a friend over who was a true friend to you.

And I don't know some parts of me says there was enough posts stating the obvious.


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Anonymous #8

Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: foodsgoodtoo] * 1
    #15232423 - 10/16/11 03:27 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

Also dude. I can tell you are a good guy and that your little mind was just hijacked by this woman. I honestly understand. I'm Anon #9. the asshole. But yeah. You seem like considerate and concerned person that acknowledges and regrets his actions. Which is more than what a lot of others can say for themselves. I hope you get your gal and I hope your friendship with your friend doesn't get to turbulent and that save face with your peers. I honestly do.

I have high standards(I'm also a hypocrite) but I respect that you were wasted, in bed, getting cuddled and smooched on by a girl that you have had undying love for quite some time and still made the right choice and decided not to have sex with her. 

Now that I think about it, if you explained this to your friend, depending on his personality, there is a good chance that he will get over what you did. If you did that to me, I think I might be able to come to terms with you and eventually brush it off since you made the right choice and refused to take it any further. Especially considering your circumstances. My first post... I constantly deal with pretty bad back pain so I get moody. I apologize. I could have handled that better.

Tell me more about this girl. Or if you already did, what page is it on ?


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #15232431 - 10/16/11 03:34 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

I only see 3 pages because mine is set to 50 posts per page...

what do you want to know about her..?


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15232438 - 10/16/11 03:42 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

Why do you like her ? what is she into ? what do you have in common ? is she into music ? a fashion girl ? well kept ? chill ? does she like drugs a lot ? Hey listen. About the "walking trash" I take that back. Really. I was super irritated about something else and popped off on you. I'm sorry. Really. I was just spouting off. Not sober either. I want you to understand that I honestly didn't mean that, since i did what I could to come to terms with what you did to your friend. I have a chill demeanor and never insult people, so it sticks with me when I do. sorry. I can tell you are a good person.


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #15232441 - 10/16/11 03:45 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

Do you forgive me for being a prick ?


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #15232447 - 10/16/11 03:56 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

dude relax

it's fine, you're just another anonymous flame amongst awall of flames lol
we have plenty in common, down to the sense oof humour and everything,

i just really dig her demeanor.. shes real fuckin cute... she's not pretentious/doesn't give much of a fuck about her appearance (doesnt get made up too much.... her idea of getting dressed up is putting her hair up) in fact we sit out alot and laugh at the 'babes' that parade around and are always taking the piss out of them she's chill as fuck and her/my idea of a good night is sitting around eating cheese drinking wine and watching cheesy shit.. shes a super cool chick so its safe to say im attracted to her on a lot of different levels.. we have been to a lot of shows together, i gave her acid for the first time when we went and saw primus together and she loved it, we've had a lot of fun together and i dunno i just eeally fuckiing enjoy her company if not for my feelings shes like my best friend at the moment :P


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15232450 - 10/16/11 03:59 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

lol fuck the anon feature shld automatically be ticked in this forum lol


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15232467 - 10/16/11 04:19 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

Oh okay. Well really. It's not okay to me because I insulted someone I don't know anything about. I didn't come here to flame and never do. Ive been single for about as long as you have to and I know it's hard man. It really is. For most people it's really unhealthy and it fucks with your head bad. It seems like the longer it goes on for the harder it's going to be. And in the end of all this, it's just another story. Stuff like this is so common and it just happens ya know ? Nobody is perfect. I have major flukes that are worse than your wrong doing, in it's own way. So I really shouldn't have even given my two cent's.

Forums can be harsh as fuck. Seeing how no one really knows one another, and then asking for advice on a complicated personal issue seems like a recipe for disaster (flame fest) especially with a anon feature. Know what I mean ? when I post on the web I'm always cautious of the content of what I discuss because I take things very personal so forums can really get to me if they don't go how I want them to. Which is fucking lame. but eh. It's who I am.

Yea I agree about the anon. I made a habit out of clicking it before I type anything at all lol

She sounds cool and she sounds like the kind of girl that is worth it. So what is your plan Anon#1 ? what are you going to do about your situation. I wish you would take care of all this as soon as you can. Like tomorrow night if you could. The sooner the better. Since i was seeing red when I checked out your thread, I ignored the humane side of your story. Seeing how they have  been on the rocks for so long and their relationship was never really to great, it makes your actions seem a little bit better. With relationships there is always collateral damage. Hopefully he will take it as good as he can.

Will your peers try to see eye to eye with what's on with you three or will you and your gal be condemned ?


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #15232477 - 10/16/11 04:31 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

If we openly came out we would be ostracised pretty much by all of our friends... but to be honest... i dont know how much i'd care about that
i grow weary of our friend s circles stale lifestyle, same old same old

she has already gone interstate i am meeting up with her late in the week and we are roadtripping, we are staying at her brothers house but he is away and as it turns out his housemate is away too and we have the place to ourselves so i feel odd abt that as i said im really really nervous and apprehensive about taking it to the 'next step' sex and to be honest i dont know if imready as i said i have quite a few sexual issues and it takes a long time for me to trust and feel comfortable with someone (theres nothing like physically wrong with me or anything i just have trust issues or something i guess)

and yeah you are totally right about 'the longer it goes on for the harder it's going to be.' its fucked man i feel like the longer is staty alone the more damage i do to myselg emotionally but im so fucking inept and incapable of seeking out a mate that it gets me to this oin t

im so fucking sick of being alone, and now ive found some kind of compatible person who i love being around and am always seeking out her company but i pay this fucking stupid price of it being this stupid fucking love triangle thing


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15234005 - 10/16/11 02:34 PM (12 years, 3 months ago)

Do the girl and guy still have sex? Were they having sex recently before they broke up?


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #15234785 - 10/16/11 05:16 PM (12 years, 3 months ago)

No


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InvisiblepachooDiscord
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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15237991 - 10/17/11 11:17 AM (12 years, 3 months ago)

dude, i seriously see no flames in this thread for some reason, everyone has a truthful opinion.

i already said this before and it looks like you feel it might happen, you two being together will send a rift through your friends. that's all there is to be said about that.

if she wants to cut off ties with her ex, she needs to do it.

you're infatuation with each other has consequences, either people can deal or not. i see no reason to pussy foot in the background.

but i'm really super happy for you two being together. she seems like a super chill awesome chick and you seem like a sweet dude.


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Re: Kissed my good friends girlfriend... again [Re: pachoo]
    #15238530 - 10/17/11 01:28 PM (12 years, 3 months ago)

I was really close friends with one of my brother's close friends, she started hanging out and getting close with my house mate and she started coming over to party every weekend with us. Meanwhile her boyfriend would always come onto me whenever we were out, he would lean in and whisper to me that he wanted to fuck me. It started getting me thinking about bad things. I tried to keep it out of my mind but I would always wonder about what it would be like. But I have so much love for his girlfriend, she's one of those people everyone absolutely loves, gets everyone in the room laughing. Anyway she came over to party with the girls one weekend and she's a hairdresser, and I needed a haircut bad, so she happily cut it. We headed out to the club and I was so wasted I lost the girls pretty much straight away. I didn't really mind as I was so drunk I was going to head home soon anyway. As I was leaving the club her boyfriend came up to me and started hitting on me once more, I was so wasted that I agreed to go home with him. We got back to his place and one thing led to another pretty quickly, I was so scared that she would just walk through his front door looking for him that I asked if we could move to the bedroom, he didn't seem to be worried at all but happily obliged. We moved a chest of drawers against his door and I pretty much passed out after that, I can't remember much, if anything but I woke up with my underwear all twisted up and confused. I left first thing in the morning and came home feeling like absolute shit, it didn't even matter if we did or didn't, I think we most likely would have, but the fact was I was in bed with her boyfriend and it killed me to think I had done such a thing. I talked to my housemate who had become close with her and she agreed with my decision to tell her, I had a feeling that she would have told her even if I didn't considering how close they had gotten. So I told her the truth about what had happened. She instantly hated me and I don't blame her.
I waited a long time before I even tried to talk to her, I'm from a small town so everyone found out and I just hung my head in shame. When it had calmed down a bit I saw her in the club and started talking to her, I ended up in tears telling her how sorry I was and told her that if one thing good had come out of the situation was that her cheating boyfriend was now out of the picture and that she deserved much better. She turned to me and said, well I'm actually still with him, and she turned and walked off.
I was gob smacked, forgive him and not me, what's the difference? Obviously she had only heard his side of the story, but seriously she must have been blind.
Anyway that was about 4 years ago now, water is under the bridge and she can say a word or two to me now. I'm sure she doesn't think the most of me but she can tolerate me, probably because she knows how much i regret it and she's so close to my brother to not see me around often.
But here's a twist, I had a heap of old video footage I was going through before leaving to go travelling a few months ago, it was from one of our house parties that the girl and her boyfriend were at, as well as my boyfriend at the time, i was going around recording people and came to him to interview him, he asked me to take the camera away (and i hadn't even watched this footage since i took it those many years ago), i kept the camera on record but held it to the ground and you can hear him whispering in my ear how badly he wanted to fuck me.
Hmmmm I wish I could only have shown her when it happened, might have changed her mind about him sooner.. thankfully they're not still together!!


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