Anonymous #5 said:
Anonymous #1 said: i dont really wanna put up with a gf's shit havin to do what she wants, tryin to be nice to her otherwise she won't have sex with me, buyin shit, rememberin shit, and wonderin when shes gonna cheat on me.
Are you sure you're not just in denial and this is your way of rationalizing it
my god, having to be nice to someone sounds so horrible. It sounds like you think the only purpose of a woman is to have sex with you, as an object. This of course is manifested in you literally buying an object to have sex with.
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Since it’s impossible to hit on to a woman without implying some kind of longing for love and affection being at the root of your motivation, the only way to keep the shame you feel at bay is to avoid expressing any desire towards women at all. In other words, if there was a way to court a woman without somehow expressing this need for affection you would do it – but of course there isn't, so you can't. This single, monstrous psychological handicap takes you completely out of the game of romance and seduction and makes it impossible for you to compete for available females with the other men in your world. This is the structural basis of your problem.
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