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Husband and Wife Roles * 1
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Do you believe in this role stuff? i.e. Wife is expected to do this, Husband is expected to do this. etc..

I have no idea if I have a reason to bitch about stuff. I don't know what's fair or not anymore.

I get chided for not being a happy person, so I go and do some sports and activities afew times a week and I'm happier than I've ever been. But now all I hear is "You'd rather go fuck off than spend time with us"

I walk my son to the bus stop and take my baby to daycare every morning and pick them up in the evening, work 40 hours a week. Don't curse at, or hit on my wife.


I dont fucking get it anymore.

Do all women just eventually turn into nagging bitter old hags after a couple of kids?

She's not the woman I want her to be.
I say "You should buy some cute clothes, try something new with your hair and makeup"

Her "I don't want all the extra attention. I'd rather not stand out."

I'm her arm candy.

WTF. Should I just cut off my penis and balls?

I'm confused as fuck.


When my wife goes off on me do I just give her the hand or go outside or choke the fuck out of her? What do I do?

I tried sharing my feelings lately and if I unintintionally hurt her, she does her best to hurt me back by bringing up dirty past, my flaws, etc... Then tells me later that she didnt mean it, she was just mad.

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Re: Husband and Wife Roles [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Lots of marriages go through this kind of thing.  I have been married for 23 years and there were several years in there that I wanted to kill my husband.  As our kids got older, late teens, we actually started really enjoying each other and hanging out as a family.  For the past 4 or 5 years I have felt that if I could spend time with anyone in the world, he is the one I want to be around. I don't know all the details of your situation, but I do know lots of couples go through this.  At this stage in my life I am really glad we stuck it out, that might not be the best for you and your situation, but it might be.  Best wishes :smile:


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Re: Husband and Wife Roles [Re: sunflower]
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That cute clothes, hair, anjd makeup suggestion sounds like the sort of suggestion that a woman might find to be invasive.

My suggestion to you is to try out being celibate for awhile... 3 months might be a good time. No sex, no kissing, no masturbation, and no other sorts of sexual activity.

After 3 months see how you feel and see if you want to pursue the celibate lifestyle any longer.

Also I suggest you suggest your wife try this out too.

There is lots of online resources regarding pursuing chaste living. You've got nothing to lose by trying it out.

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Re: Husband and Wife Roles [Re: Anonymous #2]
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nah...
I figured out i have father role, husband role, daddy role and Swangin' dick role. I was just doing the father role.

We're supposed to be using condoms right now. Waiting on her period to start some BC. I said fuck condoms. I grudge fucked the shit out of her and told I was gonna cum in her and make another baby. I pulled out, but still. I told her I didnt care if she got knocked up again or not. Apparentley that fixed everything for the moment.

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Re: Husband and Wife Roles [Re: Fraggin]
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If you have children, I don't think that going into roles is positive affection on them, neither it is on you.
When you start playing roles, you lose yourself, and it's hard to get in touch back. When you are in role, you are not yourself, you barely feel real love or joy of life. But if you don't love or not happy, how you can show and give these feelings to others?
Playing roles or being someone is identifying with brain, you become slave of it. It controls you and ego arises.
Playing roles is missing the wole point of life, when you are there, you are not here.
Hope that helps.
:heart:

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Re: Husband and Wife Roles [Re: HeartAndMind]
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People in families have Roles. They are important. They keep families together, and sane. Ego has nothing to do with it. Ego is always there. I'm not going to take anything said about the ego seriously if it comes from an internet site. A diminished Ego will not exist within a person who desires to share their point of view. I've worked with people who are on the virge of entering Samadhi and I know the Ego's role in life. One is in servitude to loved one's if that person has a family. Ego is important.

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Re: Husband and Wife Roles [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Families are dysfunctional-always.


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Re: Husband and Wife Roles [Re: SuperNovanika85]
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Helped me


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