hmm where to start... I'm looking for peoples opinions on this.
So i live with 3 girls, for the sake of this call them Anne, Beth and Cat. Anne is my girlfriend, we share a room. Beth is a good friend. And Cat used to be a good friend.
Cat is the one stirring up shit. For the last three months she has been sleeping around with about 4 regulars and maybe a couple of randoms. One of the regulars is a close friend of Anne and I (Warren). Another regular is a middle aged man, her boss (Xavier), who has a wife and kids. Another is afoaf from her work that also has a wife (Yanni), and another is a single older guy (Zeb). Sex with all without protection.
K, Cats pregnant. Zeb doesn't want anything to do with this. Shes told Xavier and Yanni it isn't theirs (convenient...), and until recently Warren, our close friend, thought he was the only one she was fucking that regularly.
Cat told Anee nothing, Cat told Beth the worst case scenario - she fuckd them all but Xavier is snipped.
Cat initially told Warren that he is definately the father, she never fucked Xavier, and Yanni is snipped.
Beth told Anne everything, Anne told Warren everything.
So our friend, Warren, was annoyed and confronted Cat. Cat is blaming everyone else for "backstabbing"... naturally shes shitting herself as her job and 2 marriages are on the line and there is an unborn child in the middle. C is an irresponsible person (never cleans, never cooks, is useless at looking after her pet cat and rabbit - and has unprotected sex with multiple men) - naturally we feel sorry, first and foremost, for the unborn baby. She's already had an abortion b4 and fertility will be a problem having it done again, and wants to keep the child rather than risk never having a child.
Cat blames Beth for potentially ruining Xaviers marriage, Cat blames Anne for ruining things with Warren. For her, Warren is best choice for father because it fucks up the least lives - however if its not his thats a waste of his life (at least for 18 years). No one trusts what she says, how can we know if what she saying isn't manipulation and lying. Anne and I are looking out for Warren.
Warreb is the best to provide (once hes finished 3 years of study and will not be reliant on govt assistance for the child) - but in his current position cannot afford a paternity test, even in 8 months time.
Cat is obviously in need of support. But has burnt own bridges (the little she had, not many people really like her it seems) - and she is getting her old friend on the other side of the world to come back home - another person caught in the middle who she hasn't told anything except that Warren is the father.
Cat is a "class act", Cat needs to start taking responsibility for her own actions instead of shifting the blame. Cat is moving out and we do not talk to her anymore.
Warren is a top dude, and will show full support as long as there is a possiblity he is the father, and he has shown the most maturity throughout the whole ordeal.
Did you follow it?
What are your thoughts?
Is Cat being selfish, should she have an abortion?
Should Anne, Beth, and myself still be supportive in spite of her being a shit house-mate, and lying manipulative scumbag who we cannot trust? Generally i prefer to remove these terrible vampires from my life.
Edited by Anonymous (05/29/09 10:43 PM)
|
Threaded
Previous
Index
Next
Shop: Golden Teacher Liquid Culture For Sale
Edit 
Reply 
....Whats the value of X again?
Anonymous
1 2 3 4 all )