I find it amazing how abortion is demonized even by pro-abortion folks.
Honestly, sometimes abortion is the only intelligent course to take. Better to have no baby at all than to have a baby that will grow up in a shitty environment with young parents that are too busy trying to sort out their own shit to deal with the shit inherent in a brand new person.
I respect people who make a moral choice not to have an abortion, but the decision to have an abortion is just as morally valid. Even if you're the man in the relationship, said you couldn't handle it, and threatened to leave - this is only human, only reasonable. You made a tough decision. Everybody who would've been involved is probably better off.
GJ, OP. It's a shame you'd have to make this post in the anonymous forum.
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