PsillyNilly said:

A boquet of flowers is the traditional article that is brought to a funeral but you dont have to bring anything if you dont want too.  The purpose of a funeral is not respect for the familiy or even the deceased but rather to allow you to effectivaly grieve, say your own final goodbye and allow you to move on with your life.  Getting shitfaced falling on the ground would be disrespectful and dont
recommend that but drugs will most likely block your feelings which are meant to be released at a funeral rather then repressing them to pop up later in life (holding you back from moving on)  Honestly, the family will probably not even notice you didnt bring flowers or an item into a funeral atmosphere because there thoughts will be so preoccupied by other things---- but if you want to personally show your condolones and affection for the deceased and family members, a little floral arrangement is the customary (but not required) contribution of showing regard-mourning.  Remember, this is for your health----not for the person who has deceased.  Dont be afraid to cry hun---hugs and butterfly kissies 

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thank you so much your words really really touched me. you are soo right thats why I want to "smoke " to hold back those feeling because I know I m going to be balling...... You have made me feel soo much better I dont know how to thank you...... all of you thanks soo muchfor your replys.. Im off now ... Ill see you all in a few hours i love you guys!
Kristi <<< for everyone in he pub That I love