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InvisibleJettaJay
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Need Advice
    #3550188 - 12/27/04 10:27 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Me and my girlfriend met tonight at her work as usual and we decided instead of setting in the parking lot for about 30 minutes talking about random stupid stuff we'd go get something to eat. Well she still lives at home and she called her dad to tell him. the conversation went like this ...

Hey dad I'm gonna go with Justin to eat and I'll be on in later about 10 or so

You just need to get your food and bring it home

I haven't gotten to see him all day dad I will be home sooner than if I had worked late.

Now thats not getting something and bringing it home is it ??

Dad what if he wanted to pay ??

Huh .... Thats highly unlikely.

Well I am going and I'll be home later .. love you bye.
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This is the 2nd time in no uncertain terms he has called me a bum. The first time he actually called me a bum to her and she told me about it. I am about to just snap and tell him where he can shove all his money he thinks he has. He thinks he is all high and mighty. Two years ago I can remember him having no money at all. ( I have known my girlfriend for about 8 years ) Now he has his own business and suddenly I am not good enough for thier daughter. I just want some advice from you guys. If you don't have any helpful advice please do not post here as ther are plenty more threads to go post in. Sorry to be a dick but I'm really pissed right now. It bothers me being so damn pissed but I can't help it. I was raised like this ... You protect the family name above all else it may be all you have one day. Also I have never made her pay for anything. I spent all my money I had on her to pay a bill for her one day. I just don't want him knowing because I don't go around flaunting what little money I have. I am soooooooo pissed right now. I love her to death ... more than anything in the world. I'd give my life for her and he can't see that because all he has is dollar signs in his eyes. Anyway I am done for now ... Just give some advice please.


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Re: Need Advice [Re: JettaJay]
    #3550205 - 12/27/04 10:30 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Are you a Bum ? NO ? Then so what if he says your a two time loser who deserves Jail time. Your a scumbag etc..........

Your dating his daughter not him. BE a Man and ignore him. Love your woman and provide as you can.


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Re: Need Advice [Re: JettaJay]
    #3550216 - 12/27/04 10:32 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Damn, that sucks dude.....some people are like that  :shrug:. If I were you i'd try to calm down somehow, you know meditate or something........either way, don't say or do anything about this. Just continue to treat your gf like you do, and whenever you're around her parents or other family members....if that doesn't soften him up, then he'll come across as a dick to the rest of her family, and they'll probably say something to him. If not, they all look like dicks, and it seems like your gf loves you...so I wouldn't be too worried about it. Peace and good vibes to ya!  :laugh: :sun:


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Re: Need Advice [Re: Dark_Star]
    #3550252 - 12/27/04 10:38 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

I am being a man about it. He says other little comments I just blow them off. This was like the straw that broke my back/ temper.


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Re: Need Advice [Re: JettaJay]
    #3550266 - 12/27/04 10:41 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

If you were really blowing his comments off there would be no final straw


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Re: Need Advice [Re: Fucknuckle]
    #3550296 - 12/27/04 10:46 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

In my experiences with people who have dollar signs in thier eyes, there's no way to make them see otherwise. I've had countless fights with my father because when he sees something he looks at it for what it's worth and how he can profit from it.

We've had lengthy debates about this and he is simply incappable of seeing the world any other way. To him, if someone is 'without adecquate means' then they are worthless to him and to the rest of the world.

I wish I had found a way to make people like this see the world in a different light but I'm sorry, I can think of nothing you can do or tell your girlfriend's father to make him change, if this is the perspective he holds of the world and the people in it.

What I can tell you is that you should feel good about yourself no matter what some new small time businessman thinks of you. What is important is your relationship with your girl. Don't do anything that might drive a wedge between you and her over the sake of pride.

Good luck, bro. I hope this all works out well for you. I wish you all the best.


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Re: Need Advice [Re: JettaJay]
    #3550312 - 12/27/04 10:49 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

I can COMPLETELY emphasize with you. 

This is because for the first few years of my relationship with my husband, his mother despised me.  She did everything in her power to break us up.  I still think she is in denial that we got married.  She would give me thinly concealed insults, and was just generally not acceptive of me. 

Well...here's what happened.  I kept being polite to her, even when I thought she was being a bitch to me.  No matter what, I clung behind my shield of politeness.  My husband stuck up for me when applicable, and I just kept my smile on. 

And you know what?  Things are getting better.  I think she's finally accepted the fact that her son is in love with me.  We're not friends, but things are slowly improving. 

You're a great guy Jetta, just keep your smile on.  Don't rise to his bait, even if your pride is hurt.  Stay civil, keep treating his baby girl well, and in time he might mellow out and start to accept you.  It might take awhile, but keep trying.  :heart:

I am SO FREAKING STONED!!!  :grin:


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Re: Need Advice [Re: Fucknuckle]
    #3550320 - 12/27/04 10:50 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Whatever ... We are 2 different People. I respect that.


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Re: Need Advice [Re: Dark_Star]
    #3550326 - 12/27/04 10:51 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

dads can be a pain

when my wife and i were dating in HS, her stepdad would either be cleaning his pistol or wearing it(at the dinner table) when i would pick her up.

if you really love eachother then thats really all you need.


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Re: Need Advice [Re: MOTH]
    #3550352 - 12/27/04 10:55 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Thanks you Ellemy :hug: Here's one for you.  That means alot to me


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Re: Need Advice [Re: oDin]
    #3550366 - 12/27/04 10:57 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

oDin said:
dads can be a pain

when my wife and i were dating in HS, her stepdad would either be cleaning his pistol or wearing it(at the dinner table) when i would pick her up.

if you really love eachother then thats really all you need.





Her dad tried cleaning his shotgun when I picked her up the first few times. One time I asked my girlfriend if she wanted to come to the shotting range with me. He asked what kind aof gun I had. I told him a .50 cal. AE desert Eagle. He stopped cleaning it after that. Not a 2 days later he bought a 9mm. He's a jackass.


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Re: Need Advice [Re: JettaJay]
    #3550374 - 12/27/04 10:58 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

<---- Nominates Ellemyshade for sainthood.

You always know what to say :smile:


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Re: Need Advice [Re: 13eetleJuice]
    #3550378 - 12/27/04 10:59 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

13eetleJuice said:
<---- Nominates Ellemyshade for sainthood.

You always know what to say :smile:




AGREED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ellemy is the greatest !!! Her husband is very lucky !!!


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Re: Need Advice [Re: 13eetleJuice]
    #3550386 - 12/27/04 11:00 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

13eetleJuice said:
<---- Nominates Ellemyshade for sainthood.






Believe me, I need all the help I can get!!  :grin:

I love you guys.  :heart:


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Re: Need Advice [Re: MOTH]
    #3550397 - 12/27/04 11:01 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

We all love you too Ellemy


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Re: Need Advice [Re: JettaJay]
    #3550541 - 12/27/04 11:20 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Sorry, I have no advice. does anyone ever really take advice? I always just do what I feel is right. I just want to wish you luck  :goodluck:


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Re: Need Advice [Re: JettaJay]
    #3550693 - 12/27/04 11:47 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

IMO, he's challenging your manhood, because he knows that these comments will be relayed to you, and he wants to get a rise of you. Now, I personally would go to him and talk to him face to face. Dont yell, dont be confrontational (so you might want to cool down before you do it) Just talk. Tell him that there are far more important things than money, and that what should matter to him is that you love and respect his daughter. Bottom line. Tell him that you'd appreciate it if the comments stopped. And maybe do it with someone else there, so that nothing you say or that he says gets twisted. Have a witness, ya know? I dunno, thats just off the top of my head. :hugs: feel better.


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Re: Need Advice [Re: Liz]
    #3550776 - 12/28/04 12:06 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Ya there Ellemy ?? Do you mind to listen to me really quick ??


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Re: Need Advice [Re: JettaJay]
    #3550841 - 12/28/04 12:27 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

all that really matters is what your g/f thinks of you
not her dad.


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Re: Need Advice [Re: JettaJay]
    #3551443 - 12/28/04 03:03 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

JettaJay said:
Ya there Ellemy ?? Do you mind to listen to me really quick ??




Sure Jetta, what's on your mind? Write it here or toss me a PM.


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