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Attraction to Shemales/Traps
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I am a man. I have absolutely zero sexual or emotional attraction to men. I also get incredibly turned on by very convincing (offensive I know, sorry) shemale/trap/futanari porn and love buttplay from women or myself. I rarely seek out female companions unless they obviously come on to me first and definitely haven’t sought a real relationship in quite a while.

Am I gay and trying to subconsciously lie to myself? In all honesty I feel completely confident in myself and my heterosexuality but the attraction to chicks with dicks is tough to ignore. Buttplay is relatively normal but why do I enjoy looking at women with penises? Why do I want to get fucked by a woman with a penis? Is this a normal heterosexual fetish?

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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Anonymous #1]
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The question is, does getting fucked by a female make you gay? Being gay is being attracted to the opposite sex but you aren't attracted to guys so I would say you aren't gay, but maybe bisexual?


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: FruitOfLife]
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I don’t think getting fucked by a female makes you gay in itself; I guess my question is whether the desire to get fucked by a female is my subconscious homosexuality poking me.

I’d have trouble identifying as bisexual since I’m not attracted to men in any way, at least not consciously. I’m content chalking all of this up to a personal fetish but wanted to hear what others thought.

The input is much appreciated!

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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Anonymous #1] * 6
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Don't worry about the labels, my friend... as long as you're not hurting someone else, go with what feels right. I'm guessing you're very young but as time goes along you will find partners who think your interests are hot as hell.

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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
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It's absolutely not a normal heterosexual fetish. You're definitely gay.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Eminence] * 3
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It's not a normal homosexual fetish either :cookiemonster:

No it's almost entirely straight males consuming this type of porn.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 3
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Fetishes are just things people have associated with sex.

It's pretty natural to associate sex organs with sex.
And it's natural to have fantasies about role reversals. It's almost like... an inception thing. You empathize and are turned on by the woman being the man by partially envisioning her pleasure while also receiving that pleasure as a woman would. Something exotic and taboo. Something you don't exactly really want to do (at least not in its full extent) but something you are fascinated with anyway.


And it is honestly fairly fascinating. But that's coming from me and I think all of human sexuality is fascinating.
But then again I think most of the human race is fascinated with sex. And have been for thousands of years.



You're probably not gay. You just have a fetish :ohwell:


I think it's worth exploring how you developed that fetish, because you certainly did, but it's incredibly unlikely that you are a repressed homosexual man.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: CookieCrumbs]
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I don't buy it. 100% heterosexual men don't get off on dicks. Op maybe you should just stop watching porn and try to find a woman and see how that works out, if you're so confused. A real relationship, not a casual encounter with a stranger. The stuff is poison, there's literally no good that comes from porn unless you count relieving yourself for a few minutes by watching depravity as a good thing.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: CookieCrumbs]
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CookieCrumbs said:
I think it's worth exploring how you developed that fetish, because you certainly did, but it's incredibly unlikely that you are a repressed homosexual man.


Probably at least partially because porn is corrosive to the mind, and it's effects are similar to drug use. I think any man that developed a fetish for chicks with dicks is probably an excessive consumer of porn. Taking it to the next extreme, etc. That is, if it didn't just awaken some repressed homosexuality to begin with.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: pnoobensis] * 4
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pnoobensis said:
Don't worry about the labels, my friend... as long as you're not hurting someone else, go with what feels right. I'm guessing you're very young but as time goes along you will find partners who think your interests are hot as hell.


Wish there were more of you out there.
Nice post.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
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pnoobensis said:
Don't worry about the labels, my friend... as long as you're not hurting someone else, go with what feels right. I'm guessing you're very young but as time goes along you will find partners who think your interests are hot as hell.


Listen to this guy OP. Don't box yourself in with your sexuality. It's the most fluid aspect of our humanity.

I fucked a couple of shemales in my time. Turns out fulfilling the fantasy was nowhere as near as fun as I thought it would be, but at least I tried it.

Like yourself; I've wondered if this was somehow a way for an underlying same sex attraction to manifest, as I am not attracted to any human in which I can see male features, but if I can't see them then my brain is OK with it. In hindsight, I think the ambiguousness/taboo was the turn on, rather than anything else. I don't like buttplay and would not want to be fucked anyhow, so it's just by degrees between us.

Let you be you and love the person you are. You're not hurting anyone by embracing yourself fully. Quite the opposite in fact.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
I am a man. I have absolutely zero sexual or emotional attraction to men. I also get incredibly turned on by very convincing (offensive I know, sorry) shemale/trap/futanari porn and love buttplay from women or myself. I rarely seek out female companions unless they obviously come on to me first and definitely haven’t sought a real relationship in quite a while.

Am I gay and trying to subconsciously lie to myself? In all honesty I feel completely confident in myself and my heterosexuality but the attraction to chicks with dicks is tough to ignore. Buttplay is relatively normal but why do I enjoy looking at women with penises? Why do I want to get fucked by a woman with a penis? Is this a normal heterosexual fetish?


Okay no matter what anybody says liking traps is gay. It just is okay. If you got a peen and you are attracted to someone or something with a peen sexually it's gay.

That said i'd say 95% of people are at least slightly bisexual.

Why are you concerned with being gay it's not a trait that defines anything else about your life other than sexuality. It's really not a big deal at all you're probably an adult and you can probably do what you'd like with your life.

I personally am attracted to women primarily but occasionally traps and men.
I feel like i'm mostly straight but I get desensitized from porn and need more and more depraved or taboo shit to get me going.

There's nothing wrong with being gay bro I wouldn't get caught up in worrying about the ramifications of it because thats how you end up analyzing others and trying to fit the mould.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: KetaminePeen]
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That's not how sexual orientation works.

But sexuality is fluid and most people are not strictly on one end of the spectrum or the other.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: CookieCrumbs]
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Like if you're generally attracted to women but the absolutely perfect specimen of a man who is built like Arnold Schwarzenegger and can chew lead and spit out nails but also be sensitive and charming turns you on... You're attracted to women. Because the kinda man you're attracted to is so rare he almost entirely exists in fantasy.

For all practical purposes you are straight if you're that kinda guy.

You're not going to be able to go to the gay bar any night of the week and find a pickup. Probably not anywhere ever.

Because you're attracted to a fantasy. Or someone so beyond the normal sphere of gender that it only makes sense to say you're attracted to that person.

In this case if you're predominantly attracted to women but also find women with a penis attractive then you're straight but are also attracted to transgender women. As they're more appropriately named.

The sex organs are almost entirely irrelevant. Except for their functional aspects.

Either being 99% straight is enough to be called straight or gay and straight simply don't exist and all of us are bisexual.

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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: pnoobensis]
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pnoobensis said:
Don't worry about the labels, my friend... as long as you're not hurting someone else, go with what feels right. I'm guessing you're very young but as time goes along you will find partners who think your interests are hot as hell.


That's the best post I've seen on the Shroomery in a long time <3


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: automan]
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Just left your first rating :smile:


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: CookieCrumbs]
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Liking traps is gay. Guys that are sexually attracted to traps that don't want to identify as gay or bi say otherwise because they're uncomfortable with their sexuality.

There's nothing wrong with being gay.

But hey people can believe what they want. I know in my heart it's super gay to be attracted to anything with the same sex chromosome configuration as you. You can be attracted to the most masculine vagina owner in existence as a male and not be gay. But you are gay if you like traps.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: KetaminePeen]
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Right. And you decided you were attracted to women only after seeing a vagina?


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: CookieCrumbs]
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CookieCrumbs said:
Right. And you decided you were attracted to women only after seeing a vagina?


First of all it's not like I chose my sexuality. For the record i'm 90% into girls 10% into traps.
I'm attracted to mostly womens, and no what first got me interested in girls was thigh highs tightly enveloping supple female hips. Second to that would be genuine tiddies. I knew vaginas existed since I was 5 but didn't really have any interest yet. Vaginas are beautiful though.

Also for the record the first vagina I saw in person was my firs romantic partner a FTM tranny who was 24 when I was 16.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: KetaminePeen]
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Ok. You know that's kinda taking advantage of an adolescent right? That's really not cool.


Anyway, the first time you started to notice women in a new light you were attracted to their figure. And what else? Femininity?

People tend to be attracted to feminine attributes or masculine attributes. Or sometimes feminine attributes on a mostly masculine person. Or vice versa. They're attracted to it because of the contrast it sets on their innate orientation.


Your encounter with the transgender man when you were young could have been how you developed an attraction to other transgender people or men. Your mind had learned to link this particular variety of attributes to gratification, sexual and otherwise.

Like I said, sexuality is fluid. It develops, especially in our early years of life and early years of puberty.


None of this is a choice and I didn't intend to imply it is. I think it's wrong to shame people for their sexuality.

But one way or another almost all of us understand that sex organs are... Well, a part of sex. That's why lots of popular porn features well endowed men doing particularly things with their particularly nice cock. It's not just vicarious pleasure for straight men, the phallus is a strictly sexual object. It's intrinsically linked to sex. Even people who don't want anything to do with men and have no attraction to them whatsoever can be aroused by it simply because it's an object of arousal.


One that can be used vicariously.

It's not that hard to imagine the appeal of sticking that object on the viewers primary attraction, the female form.


May as well be a strap on. But there's not as strong of a vicarious empathetic appeal to that.


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