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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
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It's not quite that simple. It's more a thing of arousal tresholds and empathy. People with a higher arousal treshold and a slightly lower empathy/people reading skills who're also slightly more Bi than straight tend to enjoy it because it provides difficult-to-miss clues as to the sexual availability and interest of the girl-shaped individual they're attracted to.

It's in the same vein as people who primarily enjoy furry content; The penis/exagerrated facial features make it easier to register arousal to brains with a higher empathy/arousal treshold.

You're not straight but you're not a homosexual either. Think of these things as more of grid than a scale.

As for trap being offensive, it's about intent. A trap is a man identifying as a man who dresses feminine in order to attract male interest.

A transexual is someone fate opted to screw over and throw into a body their neurology doesn't correspond to.

The issue comes in when one confuses one for the other either through deliberation or ignorance.

I hope this clears things up.
All the best. I hope you find a way to integrate these feelings and attractions into yourself.

Cheers!
-TD


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: towndaze]
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I like boys and girls
But boys who do a good job at looking like girls
Will always have a special place in my heart

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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Tripsten] * 1
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It's all just names OP. Who cares. I'm similar in a way, but also not. I'm bi/pansexual. Definitely like men and trans. But I'm the same way in that I'm not attracted to MTF's that look masculine or FTM's that look feminine. Just a preference. I like the masculine and feminine characters separately. Don't mind what genitals they have. Just never liked a square chin on a woman if that makes sense.

Maybe you're like that in a sense. It's the masculine character that turns you off, not the genitals. Makes perfect sense.

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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Anonymous #1]
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I think this is a pretty common fetish. What are you so afraid of? Labels are just labels. Straight, gay, bi. Who cares? You like what you like. If you don't like very masculine looking dudes then you're not gay. Sexuality works on a spectrum. If a chick is super feminine but happens to have a penis does having sex with her make you gay? I don't think so, and I think it'd be kind of insulting to her if you think so

Sexual fetishes are not really under your control. You like what you like. Just make sure you don't insult, degrade, or dehumanize anybody. Transgender women have all the same feelings and emotions as anybody else. Some might be ok with being called "shemales" or "traps", but some aren't

If you want to explore that side of your sexuality, which is completely normal IMO, then just try to approach it with a proper level of respect

Sex should be a fun and judgment-free experience. If you're getting too hung up on labels then you're taking away from the beauty and spontaneity of sex

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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: KetaminePeen]
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KetaminePeen said:
CookieCrumbs said:
Right. And you decided you were attracted to women only after seeing a vagina?


First of all it's not like I chose my sexuality. For the record i'm 90% into girls 10% into traps.
I'm attracted to mostly womens, and no what first got me interested in girls was thigh highs tightly enveloping supple female hips. Second to that would be genuine tiddies. I knew vaginas existed since I was 5 but didn't really have any interest yet. Vaginas are beautiful though.

Also for the record the first vagina I saw in person was my firs romantic partner a FTM tranny who was 24 when I was 16.


It sounds like you yourself are confused about your own sexuality. And you're projecting that confusion/insecurity onto others. Possibly, it's due to trauma you experienced as a teenager

If you think that attraction to FtM transgender men qualifies as an entirely heterosexual thing, I don't know what to tell you

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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: meowjinx] * 1
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Our labels are being stretched by the existence of trans and non-binary people for sure. Why do you care so much about whether you cross that line? Many men that think they're heterosexual find that they're attracted to trans women whether or not they've had gender reassignment strategy. I went through a period where I stopped being scared of the idea of being gay, found out that a lot of things between the binary are attractive, but my partners still end up being straight women. Let your boundaries stretch. We're all learning together, this is new territory.

But we gotta stop saying traps. Even if you don't mean it that way, transphobes use it as a way to dehumanize trans women and act like there are trans women spending hours putting on make-up and tucking their dicks just to pull straight men into their clutches for some reason.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Thousandmoons]
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I don't think that's a valid objection to use of the word.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: towndaze]
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That's definitely your prerogative. I just hold the opinions that I do about that word, and really about any word that a minority thinks is a slur, because I've known so many of these various minorities that I see what kind of pain they cause. I think the functional life of a word is more important than anything else, and I don't like the function that some words fill to hurt people. I like trying to meet people on their level, without insulting their humanity. And every trans person I've heard express an opinion about "trap" or "shemale" has done so regretfully, and with pain.


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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Thousandmoons]
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No, you’re not gay. If you don’t like men, you’re not gay. Lots of straight guys are attracted to trans women. There’s nothing to worry about!

I’m a straight guy and I like trans girls too. If you want a trans girl to fuck your ass, you should do it! It was something I thought about for a long time and finally tried about a year and a half ago. It wasn’t enjoyable at first, despite the fact that I had lots of experience with toys, but now that I have more experience with it, it’s usually great.

If you can afford it, you should take a trip to Thailand. You will have no problem finding trans girls to hook up with there. Try thaifriendly.com, it is a dating site full of ladyboys.

Depending on the time of year and where you are leaving from, flights to Thailand from the US can be as cheap as $450. And once you arrive in Thailand, everything is very cheap.

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Re: Attraction to Shemales/Traps [Re: Thousandmoons]
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Doesn't reflect my experience.
It's a word that reflects something distinct from transgenderism, therefore it's useful precisely to denote that distinction.


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