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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: remake] * 1
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I don't look down on guys who are single. 

I look down on men who whine like babies when they drive away women.  No one is owed a relationship.  Crying isn't going to get you one.

This might sound harsh, but I'm tired of men being such cry babies in general.

This isn't a stab at you OP, just what I see going on.


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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: Mr Piggy]
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At the end of the day, people are very unpredictable and believe/think anything they want about you.

If you don't communicate and get to know someone, and what they're about and vice versa - you'll never know in the first place...:shrug:

Fear of rejection is what held me back from ever trying at first, and lo and behold, the first time I tried, I got some action. :laugh:

Don't take yourself so seriously OP, if this even is about you in anyway. :wink:

People who take themselves too seriously, are stupid. :yesnod:

Laugh at yourself, and move on, man. Try at least. It's a blank canvas everytime...unless you've got some crazy ass reputation. :eek:

But, it's impossible that 7 billion people will know you, or your past.

Edited by remake (10/18/18 10:14 AM)

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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: Mr Piggy] * 1
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Mr Piggy said:
I'm tired of men being such cry babies in general.


Likewise. There seems to be this idea out there that men having/showing emotions makes them pussies.

That's nothing to do with it, IMO. It takes strength to know, accept, and show your full self.

Whinging like you're entitled to ANYTHING in this life, and complaining about how you're being treated, is what makes people come off like pussies.

I see a lot of that going on these days.


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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
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Another thing is how little time people spend thinking about you in any case. We’re all semi-invisible :laugh:

Unless you do something obscene.

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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
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"Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life.

Almost everything--all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure--these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.

Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart."

- Steve Jobs

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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
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Dont put the pussy on a pedestal.
Just talk to them like anyone else.

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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: Love_spirit] * 1
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Pro tip:

treat her like a human and not "Pussy"

YMMV


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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: Mr Piggy] * 1
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Ask, questions. Let them talk, listen. Be mysterious yet humble :heart:


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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: liloldme]
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liloldme said:
Ask, questions. Let them talk, listen. Be mysterious yet humble :heart:




Find your match man, not every chick is gonna be "her"


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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: Nimph] * 1
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King Klick said:
No offense but having a girlfriend isn’t an advanced social skill. Talking to women isn’t an advanced skill. Just be brave. The more girls you talk to the easier it is. Make some chick friends, if you’re a nice guy they would love to set you up with their friends.

I think it’s looked down on to be a sad boi. But you do you


That's not true,  I have talked to many women with much confidence and they usually tell me to stop talking to them.  I've been told that talking to strangers is Wierd and no one likes it.  I remember in highschool if you saw a girl you like,  walk up,  introduce yourself, say hi, say she's attractive and you want to get to know her more and boom.  Now it's you walk up and say "hi" and people say "do I know you?" it's pretty fucked and people who don't use social media are fucked.  People who use  social media to meet people don't have to deal with the face to face awkwardness of getting to know someone, send a friend invite,  she checks out your page,  accepts friend and boom you had a date and a nice long walks worth of conversation in 5 min with no actual useless face to face.

I feel ya OP,  it's difficult. Everyone isnt in to talking or even saying hey. Then the only time a girl is interested in you is when she's plastered drunk, the worst part is society actually encourages women to have to be inebriated to procreate. Pretty fucked.

To top it off establishing dominance doesn't do shit. Dominance is established through money and wealth. I stand toe to toe with guys that have power issues then after 10 minutes of fucked brawl I'm told I'm a sociopath and almost killed him.  I established very clear dominance but because I'm not some rich guy with a fat house,  loads of drugs,  and no self value,  that established nothing.

The long and short is if women dont like you, you have to make a life change and start looking for hoes and not girlfriends and start having lots of money and drugs.....

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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
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Its all about social status.

Having a girlfriend gives u higher social status. Judging someone for not having one is stupid but has a basis in "this guy doesnt have a GF, so he must be undesirable".

Its like telling someone u have a job. Instant social status upgrade.

Having dates with women is a very close second to having a GF in terms of social status appeal.

Learning to talk to women is critical if u want to get a girlfriend. Then theres the sex appeal aspect that is also important as well. Its not easy for some guys who dont have that certain "swagger" that women want.

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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 2
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My buddy said of the 1000's of girls he hit up on tinder not one hit him back, even the not so desirable ones.. Theen he changed his profile pictures to him in front of a new charger, in front of his old Harley, and having fun at the lake on a boat the messages started flying in.. Not sure what that says but something to add to the conversation..


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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: liloldme]
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What kind of photos did he have before?

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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
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Just normal pictures of him, same dude, different results..


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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: liloldme]
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Interesting.

When i was on online dating back in the day, that was the common thing for the ladies.

Probably has to do with being adventurous/interesting/active.

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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
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They want men to settle for slavery to feminism.


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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: Rhizenburg]
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If online dating is the way to go for pussy. I had a buddy a while ago that could get chicks to show up anywhere, granted we said we had lots of drugs (and we did) but tinder helps people meet each other I guess.

I personally am against it because I don't want a mathematical function to be how I meet people. That some buddy I use to give him so much Shit for it,  he didn't like that I'd point out he can't meet people on his own, has to use tinder. Either way,  all you can do is laugh.

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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: RaRaRasputin]
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I disagree fully.  An advanced social skill is being independently happy.


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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: BeefExtreme]
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Lol,  so if the OP has depression they are just fucked:rofl2:.

Just kidding depression isn't a real thing.

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Re: Why Exactly is Society so Judgmental Towards Guys who can't get a Girlfriend? [Re: RaRaRasputin] * 1
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Depression comes in two forms; situational and clinical.

The former is an invariable facet of the human condition; we all feel it at times.

The latter is laid down when our childhood is highly traumatic and distraught and so our baseline brain chemistry is forever set out of whack.

What causes yours?


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