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where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else?
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I only need/click with a very specific personality.. Nothing else matters to me.. Except age that is.. I need someone within five years or so, lest the final days will be too painful to bear..

Only thing I need is an extremely openminded individual, that works well with my personality, and respects my fetishes of being, so to speak..

Ideally a schizophrenic(due to openess, and the experience(doesnt need anything specific, diagnosis or symptoms, just a personality with some such traits).. I can easily help someone I can get close to, so the rest wouldnt be a problem)
- girl with guts of steel, a good heart, fierce spirit and creative as fuck.. Able to speak for herself, to say the least..

And more importantly, not be a work in progress for me to fix.. She needs to have found herself, and that person needs to feel right. She can be lost as fuck, but not to herself. She needs to be my Lioness..


I can gladly be with a man aswell, but he will not be thé one, even though we might be one. I am not able to be as caring towards a man, yet atleast..

And offcourse, when i.mention the thought of being with someone, this is a sort of relationship where you are aware of every dirty deep dark corner of the other, physically, spiritually, psychologically, emotionally.. Where youre aware of the reason behind every action of the other, without asking, or even pondering.. And in many ways, this crawes great similarity in personality...


Any of you experience such a relationship? Where you completly and fully understand the others persons entire life? Their every experience? Where youre allways connected, as if you were doing mdma(without the rushing euphoria(only the emphathy and love)?

This is a thing you usually only experiance after a happy relationship after a few decades if youre lucky..


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: Icyus]
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no cant say i have...

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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: Adolin]
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Sort of, once.


That is not something I want for my life at all.  I prefer being alone for the majority of the time.  Having someone around all the time drives me nuts, I hate it(even best friends lol). 

I've really only met one woman my age, in my whole life, that I've found to be truly interesting and like I am.  And I don't want to know everything about her, I don't see the appeal in that either.

I don't know, it all seems like a waste of time to me?  Seems like someone else's version of the way it is "supposed to be".



Hell right now all I want in a companion is someone who doesn't like football.


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: Habadashery]
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Habadashery said:
Sort of, once.


That is not something I want for my life at all.  I prefer being alone for the majority of the time.  Having someone around all the time drives me nuts, I hate it(even best friends lol). 

I've really only met one woman my age, in my whole life, that I've found to be truly interesting and like I am.  And I don't want to know everything about her, I don't see the appeal in that either.

I don't know, it all seems like a waste of time to me?  Seems like someone else's version of the way it is "supposed to be".



Hell right now all I want in a companion is someone who doesn't like football.


Whatever makes life worth living ;-)


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: Icyus]
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Truly!


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: Icyus]
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I'm your soul mate :eek:
I'm as neurotic as they come.
Also I've a lot of darkness, concentrated emotion.

Except, we might be poles apart till we meet my friend. :rose:


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: Habadashery] * 1
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I thought I had found mine once

But as time goes on people change that's why I don't really believe in the concept of a soulmate anymore no one's personality is static and oftentimes you don't know the story behind someone else's life as well as you think you do

The only person you can ever fully trust is yourself

Hell some people can't even do that


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
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Yeah, I like to be alone a lot of the times. I'm a hermit you see. I'm a loner.
But I need my lovin too.


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: BreathlessVision]
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Yeah same here

I think the idea of needing a relationship to be truly happy is pure poppycock

I haven't been in one for quite a long time but yet I don't remember myself being much happier when I was in one than I am now as a lone wolf

Sure cuddling and sex and skin contact are nice but I find the single life to be much more serene overall

Being in a relationship was an emotional rollercoaster at times


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
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My thoughts exactly
Plus, it's quite difficult to find someone who clicks with you in every way. Don't get me wrong I desire love in some weird way and believe that love should be unconditional, but unconditional love is often not reciprocated.
So with me and my toughts, I can create paradise and hell in my own head. So there's nothing else I need except paper and a pen.

Some experiences can be shared with loved ones but I find that the majority of experiences in life are experienced alone. Like nature.

Such is the life of the hermit.


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: BreathlessVision] * 1
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The way I look at it these days if you try to seek out the perfect love you will probably never find it the best strongest relationships blossom on their own you can't make it happen if it's meant to be then so it shall be

I mean obviously you have to put yourself out there for that to happen but above all else you must learn to love yourself for yourself or you will never be happy with any partner


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: Icyus] * 1
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Learn to be content alone. Then if you meet the right someone, you will even be that much happier. Don't spend your time longing for something you don't have.


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"Cosmic Love is absolutelely ruthless and highly indifferent:
it teaches its lessons whether you like/dislike them or not."

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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
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Ahh thanks for the wisdom man :tongue2:
I think patience is key in any relationship, if you grow together you will be happy together. I'm not one for flings either. I like to set roots.
And I've found that I grow fond of the unlikliest people so who knows...

I'm a loner romanticist at heart and... Right now, I need to explore this weird brain of mine. :crazy2:


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: nicechrisman]
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:thumbup:


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
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I think if you can make a girl laugh you can make her do almost anything


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
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Depends on if I happen to run into someone who understands my sense of humor :shrug:


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: BreathlessVision]
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Well if she doesn't she isn't worth your time

:wink:


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
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True that bro, true that. :solidnod:


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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: nicechrisman]
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OhMrJohnson said:
Yeah same here

I think the idea of needing a relationship to be truly happy is pure poppycock

I haven't been in one for quite a long time but yet I don't remember myself being much happier when I was in one than I am now as a lone wolf

Sure cuddling and sex and skin contact are nice but I find the single life to be much more serene overall

Being in a relationship was an emotional rollercoaster at times


nicechrisman said:
Learn to be content alone. Then if you meet the right someone, you will even be that much happier. Don't spend your time longing for something you don't have.


Sound advice! :yesnod:

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Re: where is my twin soul? my only criteria is personality.. have you every been one with someone else? [Re: Hellogoodbyedeath]
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Emotional rollercoaster=no click.

I do agree.. Love oneself to love an other.. This is vital.. Ive felt the concept of needing someone to be whole, but ive ffixed that(most easy thing, really.. Shamanism ftw :wink: ).. Thats just the lack of love from childhood... That might also be why, I think, that I want someone to love which I can share the rest of my life with.. Make up for an eternity of misery.. Yet so, therr are also similar people out tthere.. Who has never been understood and thus never cared for.. I am an expert at understanding the most grotesque and shunned upon Actions.. I am also capable.of loving people even so...

Say, I can understand why a pedophile has those urges.. It is a suppression of oneself and a lack of energy thereof.. Children are ripe with energy, and raping them is sure to steal all that energy away for many years to come.
This does not mean I respect such actions or even tolerate them however.

Rape? No. Preying upon others, even just in the form of negative comments, no. I do not respect it.

Murder? Yeah, why not.. As long a person can give a reason.. Violence to serve ones ego? Fuck no. Violence to protect people, be it it is really needed.. Hell yeah, I love it. (kind of standing up for the weak kind of thing.. Not shooting a wolf because there is a chance he might attempt attacking your herd. )



I still want to find someone I can share ky life with.... The relationship part of it isnt really that important.. It is more the idea of finding someone who fully understands you, which you can be completly open to without prejudice..  about anything.. Which you may have an emotional. And spiritual connection with..

So the question would rather be, why wouldnt you want to spend your life with such a person? Only reason would be that you do not love yourself, or more likely, there are parts of yourself you are afraid to show, you are nit proud of, that you might not even be open with yourself about.

Once youve gotten over that.. That we humans are what we are, and that respond in ways we do when we are put in certain situations.. That our instincts and nature arent a fault in us..

Once you have learnt to respect yourself even though you are not perfect, and further learnt to respect others on the same account... Once you have that understanding of other's actions and is emotionally capable of remaining in this emphatic state...

When youre met with someone which you can relate to most everything with, that you might be open about everything with(most people seem to misunderstand; I literally mean everything.. Every darkest nasty secret)..

- The question is simply, why wouldnt you want to spend your life with this person?


Notions, notions, notions...


Maybe some people have been smothered all their live.. Then find a partner which feels the same, and can relate to your life, and acts thereof. Just be aware of who you are before you start looking.. You need to find yourself in others.. Find what you love in others..

People change... Then be open and reflected; you may grow together.


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