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Today on my way to a friends house there was a man and his little daughter with a giant pile of wood chips the size a couple of cars in his front yard.

I pulled over and asked him if he needed to get rid of any of the chips and what type of wood it was. He told me that they were oak and he asked why I wanted them so I told him about how was growing gourmet mushrooms and blah, blah, blah....

Anyway, this man was smoking a cigarette and spitting on the ground. He kind of talked like a hick and I could only assume that he inherited this house from a relative or something because it didn't look like he was going anywhere in life. He even told me that he wasn't doing anything this week except for maybe going out with the kids. I'm pretty convinced that he's an addict too just by his behavior and physicality.

To get to the point, during our convo when we were exchanging details about the quantity of chips, his daughter told us "I don't even know what a cubic yard is" in a very happy and cheerful childish manner.

I shit you not this guy gets down at eye level to his little 4 year old and says "Why are you even in this conversation? GOODBYE!" he physically turned her around and nudged her towards the house while she ran away crying. She wasn't just crying but she screamed, closed her eyes, dropped her head, and tightly squeezed her hands over her ears. It was clearly something that happened to her before. It was so difficult to see her coping method of simply trying her hardest to dissociate herself from the pain of the outside world.

I felt so fucking terrible for this little girl and thought about how unfair it is to be raised by such a childish evil monster. After he did that I was so furious that I didn't even notice that he was talking to me. I didn't know what to do. I just left as soon as possible.I really hope that one day she can work through the pain of her childhood and that perhaps he can work through the pain of his. No one deserves to be treated like that.

I don't know what to do though. I really would appreciate those oak chips. I agreed to meet him on friday but idk.... I could steal them but that might result in something bad and he'd probably take it out on his kids. Should I do anything or intervene in anyway? I have no connection to this guy and he probably doesn't want to hear that shit from a teenager. I don't want to cause any more issues and I just want his kids to be safe.

This whole situation is fucked :frown:

Edited by cannabinated (04/17/14 09:11 AM)

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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: cannabinated]
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That is pretty annoying to hear about. Parenting these days...

And I just read some psychology book that had the premise that anything that we do later in our life can be traced back to what happened to us at the ages of 4 to 6.  Like you said, it would be great if she can work through this later in her life, but it will definitely be tough for her.


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: cannabinated]
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Yeah.......    that guy is a abusive asshole,  that's so sad..    growing up in a hateful household with lots of alchohol and huge fights are defiantly traumatizing... ( ive been there )

How did the guy react when you walked away?  If you really want those wood chips, you should go get them


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: cannabinated] * 5
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Edited by Johnny Depp (12/20/14 03:40 AM)

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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: Johnny Depp]
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that fucking sucks but are you sure you weren't watchin the movie slingblade when you where high one day?


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: Johnny Depp]
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Johnny Depp said:
How do you know she's not some shithead devil child who has driven this poor man to addiction mental illness and unemployment?


That's probably the fact of the matter


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: cannabinated]
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yea that's pretty fucked up, however i would under no circumstance try to intervene. dangerous territory right there my friend..

depends how you do it though, you could be like "you got a nice family man" or some shit and buy a bunch of chips from him :lol:


i saw the same shit a few weeks ago, i was at the park and there was this one guy with his kid, his kid looked about 4 or 5 years old. he was yelling at him the whole time out in the open without shame. i guess the kid was doing trivial kid shit and i guess the dad or whatever wasn't having it. this dude overreacted way too much. they walked towards their car after and the guy looked angry. after they both got in the car he turned to his kid and yelled at him FULL FUCKING FORCE into his ears, he sounded like a fucking psychopath, and the kid cried horribly, like the kind of cry that makes you say "damn this kid is going to be traumatized for life.."..

i felt real bad for the kid and i could tell his dad or whatever was probably a drug addict. it's tough to watch because you know there's really nothing you can do. you can step in but that can usually make things worse, so it's very risky, even when you report them to the police.


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: Repertoire89]
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if there right there in his front yard it wouldnt be that hard to steal


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: cannabinated]
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I am sorry to hear that OP, there are far too many bad parents in the world. Situations like that are sickening. The other day I went over to my girlfriends house who is in a similar situation, living with an addict father who is a pretty shit parent. Anyways He has a little boy too and I took my girlfriend and him to the store to by them  some fruit since their dad only gets them processed crap, and when we got back my gf's little brother runs to the couch to show me a homeless style cardboard sign that he clearly had been holding recently as he picked it up to show my cheerfully. It was pretty terrible as I know his dad spends rent money on drugs and is battling addiction. All you can do in situations like that is try your best to help.


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: musiclover420]
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Quote:
How did the guy react when you walked away?


I finished my convo with him and drove away. I didn't just abandon him flat out but I ended it quickly.

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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: cannabinated]
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you think thats bad parenting?

jesus you're really divorced from reality.

little kids cry because they're completely self absorbed psychos who want to manipulate emotions. 

i want to write more but i don't even...


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: teamkiller]
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Yes but good parent have to teach their kids how to deal with those emotions responsibly, not fuck them up emotionally even more like many parents do now adays, especially them addicts.


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Don't worry about me, I've got all that I need. And I'm singing my song to the sky

You know how it feels, With the breeze of the sun in your eyes. Not minding that time's passing by

I've got all and more, My smile, just as before. Is all that I carry with me

I talk to myself, I need nobody else. I'm lost and I'm mine, yes I'm free


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: musiclover420] * 1
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musiclover420 said:
Yes but good parent have to teach their kids how to deal with those emotions responsibly, not fuck them up emotionally even more like many parents do now adays, especially them addicts.



There is no such thing as a good parent lol


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: musiclover420]
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deal with what emotions? psychopathy? 

That takes years and years.  OP said the kid was about 4, they don't even have the like, brain structures to be able to handle emotions other than flipping out at that age.

I dunno i hate kids, can we get a parent in here to tell the OP he's being like 5x oversensitive ?


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: teamkiller]
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I hate kids too for the most part but I have know many spoiled poorly raised kids and I have seen some well mannered kids who clearly came from better households. There is no such thing as a perfect parent but good parents certainly are real. They just are becoming increasingly rare. I have known kids raised by addicts and they usually have issues. Beyond the normal issues everyone has, addicts also can fuck their kids brain chemistry up causing them to be more "psychotic".


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Don't worry about me, I've got all that I need. And I'm singing my song to the sky

You know how it feels, With the breeze of the sun in your eyes. Not minding that time's passing by

I've got all and more, My smile, just as before. Is all that I carry with me

I talk to myself, I need nobody else. I'm lost and I'm mine, yes I'm free


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: teamkiller]
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teamkiller said:
you think thats bad parenting?

jesus you're really divorced from reality.

little kids cry because they're completely self absorbed psychos who want to manipulate emotions. 

i want to write more but i don't even...



i hope you're just trolling..


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: musiclover420]
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It's because addicts are usually bitter people and kids/adults can be who-ever they want to be around certain people without worrying


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: zZZz]
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zZZz said:
teamkiller said:
you think thats bad parenting?

jesus you're really divorced from reality.

little kids cry because they're completely self absorbed psychos who want to manipulate emotions. 

i want to write more but i don't even...



i hope you're just trolling..


explain your opinion on this matter. Please keep in mind i've already stated that i'm pretty sure its hard science kids at 4 years old are just starting develop empathy.


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: teamkiller] * 1
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well it's a very delicate matter imho. kids have emotions too, and they are very fragile especially at such a young age. even when you are an adult you have to be careful about your actions because life is very fragile, especially if you are a human being.


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Re: Childish asshole piece of shit [Re: zZZz]
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crying when you're a child is normal

a grown man acting like a child is just trashy lol


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