Subconscious said:

Man, the only thing I learned from this thread is that Facebook sounds fucking stupid. I'm glad I never got into that shit...

But to the main point of the thread, prepare to have your heart ripped out a few times throughout life. It happens to us all and you'll be a stronger person having suffered the experience. Grab a beer and keep your head up. I just had a 7 year relationship end about a week ago myself. Circumstances weren't quite as bad as yours but shit still sucks.

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JesusIsLord said:

Subconscious said:

Man, the only thing I learned from this thread is that Facebook sounds fucking stupid. I'm glad I never got into that shit...

But to the main point of the thread, prepare to have your heart ripped out a few times throughout life. It happens to us all and you'll be a stronger person having suffered the experience. Grab a beer and keep your head up. I just had a 7 year relationship end about a week ago myself. Circumstances weren't quite as bad as yours but shit still sucks.

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a valuable lesson to learn. facebook is stupid as hell.

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koods said:

JesusIsLord said:

Subconscious said:

Man, the only thing I learned from this thread is that Facebook sounds fucking stupid. I'm glad I never got into that shit...

But to the main point of the thread, prepare to have your heart ripped out a few times throughout life. It happens to us all and you'll be a stronger person having suffered the experience. Grab a beer and keep your head up. I just had a 7 year relationship end about a week ago myself. Circumstances weren't quite as bad as yours but shit still sucks.

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a valuable lesson to learn. facebook is stupid as hell.

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I can't stand it when I post something brilliant and nobody comments on its awesomeness, while somebody else's photo of the bagel they just ate gets a brazilian responses.

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JesusIsLord said:

Bassfreak said:

Anonymous said:

Whenever my ex and I were having an argument, she would go out with her girlfriends and meet a new guy... After I broke up with her, she called me about a week later and asked if I could give her a ride home from some random dudes house after she slept there. A couple weeks after, she moved to another state.... and not even 3 months later, she got MARRIED to another random guy. I would be lying to say that this stuff doesnt hurt me from time to time:(

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lol PLEASE tell me you did not give her a ride home

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dude, anon - you dodged a bullet. divine intervention saved you from marrying or knocking up a slut. count your blessings. It was divine intervention and I WANT YOU TO ****in ACKNOWLEDGE IT! Hhehehe

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Hell no, I didnt pick that bitch up. and yes I did dodge a bullet because she was trying to get herself pregnant... I would NEVER want to have a child with a mother like her... She was the most evil,manipulative and hurtful person I have EVER met. She faked a miscarriage and told me numerous times that I "killed our baby" because I caused her so much stress... Even though I did everything in my power to care for her and be there for her despite her telling me otherwise... and when I thought she was pregnant, I was there for her the whole time She blame me for all her problems yet she denied that taking 150-200 MG of adderall wasnt not affecting her in any way. She used me for my love and kindness and I felt trapped.

Well one day we were in an argument(because I refused to give her anymore adderal. just another time she went out met another dude) I had no clue how to get out of the relationship for a number of reasons... I was too scared and I didn't have the mental tools at the time because I was SO SO hurt internally. So I decided to take a strong psychedelic trip. During this trip I was able to see clearly and see all the pain and agony she was causing. That trip saved my life because it gave me the strength to break up with her. After that, I saw her as poison to me and I stuck with my decision.

For a while, I was able to cope with it no problem.. but there is still damage and pain that I guess I never got over I already had trust issues with women, but that made it much much worse. But what hurts the most is that she blamed me for the "miscarriage" and said that I killed our baby

Bassfreak said:

facebook is fucking retarded and has ruined how people communicate and interact with eachother

never had one and never will, want NOTHING to do with it

the only time i regretted not having one was like 6 weeks ago when i couldnt go to a free Mimosa show bc it was sponsored by budweiser and you had to have a FB and like it to get an invite...with no fb i couldnt go

mimosa is a sick DJ but not good enough to sign up for FB

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Anonymous said:

JesusIsLord said:

Bassfreak said:

Anonymous said:

Whenever my ex and I were having an argument, she would go out with her girlfriends and meet a new guy... After I broke up with her, she called me about a week later and asked if I could give her a ride home from some random dudes house after she slept there. A couple weeks after, she moved to another state.... and not even 3 months later, she got MARRIED to another random guy. I would be lying to say that this stuff doesnt hurt me from time to time:(

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lol PLEASE tell me you did not give her a ride home

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dude, anon - you dodged a bullet. divine intervention saved you from marrying or knocking up a slut. count your blessings. It was divine intervention and I WANT YOU TO ****in ACKNOWLEDGE IT! Hhehehe

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Hell no, I didnt pick that bitch up. and yes I did dodge a bullet because she was trying to get herself pregnant... I would NEVER want to have a child with a mother like her... She was the most evil,manipulative and hurtful person I have EVER met. She faked a miscarriage and told me numerous times that I "killed our baby" because I caused her so much stress... Even though I did everything in my power to care for her and be there for her despite her telling me otherwise... and when I thought she was pregnant, I was there for her the whole time:( She blame me for all her problems yet she denied that taking 150-200 MG of adderall wasnt not affecting her in any way. She used me for my love and kindness and I felt trapped.

Well one day we were in an argument(because I refused to give her anymore adderal. just another time she went out met another dude) I had no clue how to get out of the relationship for a number of reasons... I was too scared and I didn't have the mental tools at the time because I was SO SO hurt internally. So I decided to take a strong psychedelic trip. During this trip I was able to see clearly and see all the pain and agony she was causing. That trip saved my life because it gave me the strength to break up with her. After that, I saw her as poison to me and I stuck with my decision.

For a while, I was able to cope with it no problem.. but there is still damage and pain that I guess I never got over:( I already had trust issues with women, but that made it much much worse. But what hurts the most is that she blamed me for the "miscarriage" and said that I killed our baby

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Women are like monkeys, they won't let go of an old vine until they're sure they have a good grip on a new one.

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Gold! .........

Anonymous said:

I know what you guys are saying, but the fact that she jumped right into another relationship makes me feel like it wasn't that big of a deal to her.

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Psychasthenia said:

Anonymous said:

I know what you guys are saying, but the fact that she jumped right into another relationship makes me feel like it wasn't that big of a deal to her.

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The opposite could be true as well.  Some people just can't stand being alone and will set aside all their normal standards just to be able to call someone their bf/gf immediately after a breakup.

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koods said:

Psychasthenia said:

Anonymous said:

I know what you guys are saying, but the fact that she jumped right into another relationship makes me feel like it wasn't that big of a deal to her.

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The opposite could be true as well.  Some people just can't stand being alone and will set aside all their normal standards just to be able to call someone their bf/gf immediately after a breakup.

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I think these types have the new situation set up before they bail - like getting a new job.  I know that was the situation with my guy.  His fear of being alone combined with his fear of confrontation meant it would have dragged on forever if I hadn't forced the issue.

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AUX said:

My girl of 4 1/2 years broke up with me this summer. Within a week she was dating my best friend. She has fucked up the way I look at women. I have no trust. Now I have no desire to even give relationships a chance.

And it fucking kills me that I still wish I could have her at my side, even though I'm fairly certain that I'm much happier this way.

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AUX said:

My girl of 4 1/2 years broke up with me this summer. Within a week she was dating my best friend. She has fucked up the way I look at women. I have no trust. Now I have no desire to even give relationships a chance.

And it fucking kills me that I still wish I could have her at my side, even though I'm fairly certain that I'm much happier this way.

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topdog82 said:

AUX said:

My girl of 4 1/2 years broke up with me this summer. Within a week she was dating my best friend. She has fucked up the way I look at women. I have no trust. Now I have no desire to even give relationships a chance.

And it fucking kills me that I still wish I could have her at my side, even though I'm fairly certain that I'm much happier this way.

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That is straight shitty dude. I don't know how women can do that and wakeup everyday being comfortable with themselves. It's just immoral completely. I have been in a similar situation. But regardless, I am sorry bro

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It's called hypergamy, and rationalization hamsters. Women justify screwed up actions by being solipsistic and blaming all the problems in the relationships on the men, and their friends and family will INSTANTLY agree with them and not rebuke or shame them WHATSOEVER. This is why they are, mostly, heartless beitches to be avoided or pumped and dumped if necessary.

mick said:

yeah i got my story too. similar one OP.

dated a girl seriously for like 3 years, marriage type relationship. we had our problems and a few breaks inbetween but overall it was a good relationship. she developed a friendship with some dude in a class she took and texted with him like constantly. hung out with him constantly, over like a 3 month period. swore she could never date him and that I was overreacting being pissed about it. we eventually broke up over the matter and she was in a relationship with him like immediately. pregnant a month later. engaged a few months after that.

I dunno. i eventually let it go, the best i could and moved on. Have been in several relationships since, and am in a really good one now. she just got in contact with me and told me shes getting married to the guy next month. i told her I hope she has a great life with the guy, accepted her friend request on facebook.

life is too short to let relationships ruin your trust for all others, or to feel fucked up over one girl. just gotta take your hits and move on man. there are always better options out there. I love the girl im with now.

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