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Anonymous #1

I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found: Month two update pg 2
    #24949923 - 01/28/18 08:32 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

So a little before New Years, I started thinking I was using too much porn. For the past three months I had started using porn twice a day every day. Porn was becoming very unexciting and was starting to seem necessary to jack off rather than a treat. I had previously had a 1 out of four rule, that I would only jerk off to porn if I had jerked off three times without porn. For the past three months though, I had been breaking that rule and jerked off to porn every other time. I've found that this ratio is bad, and you really need to stick by the 3 to 1 rule if you want porn to be good and not a necessity. Do it too much and you get diminishing returns, you start to get bored of the porn but watch it anyway cause you don't wanna jack off without it. This prompted me to decide that starting on New Years Day, I would challenge myself to three months, limiting my porn use as much as possible. I knew I couldn't stand three straight months with absolutely no porn so I just said reduce it as much as possible.

This isn't because I oppose porn use, I'm not a puritan or a jack off elitist. I'm simply doing this to reset my system, and because I'm curious as to what happens if you essentially stop using porn. I've seen people on the internet who've touted the benefits of not using porn, and claiming it will improve men's lives, or that porn cannot be used moderately and that men should just quit using it altogether.

So for January so far, I've only jerked off to porn four times, so I've gone from twice a day to once a week. To some people this might still sound like I'm using it a decent amount, but I have a high sex drive and to me it feels like I might as well have quit using it. This were the effects that I've noticed.

Your sex drive increases a little bit: In a deprived way though. I started having more masturbatory marathons and jerked off even more frequently than I normally do. I jerked off five times on a few days and on one day, I actually ended up jerking off six times. I would jerk off to ejaculation, throw away the tissue, remain hard, and then jerk off again. This has happened to me before, but its rare whereas I had this happen several times over the course of the past month.

You definitely become more easily stimulated and girls become sexier: I find myself get kind of turned on not even by girls in revealing outfits, but girls who are fully clothed but wearing jeans. I've even found girls' coats to be sexy.

You feel more desperate: If a girl walks by in shorts or a miniskirt, I find it extremely difficult to not stare for too long. I always looked at them as much as I could. But now I look at them because I'm worried that if I tear my eyes away that I won't see something this sexy for a long time. I feel like a Saudi teenager these days lol.

You really look to find ways to cheat Does jacking off to a victoria's secret commercial if it just comes on TV count? Not like rewinding it or pausing it but if it comes on what do they expect me to do? Not jack off? How about this sex scene in a movie? It just came on, its one thing to look for it and jerk off to it but if its being shoved in your face and you haven't watched porn in a week? How could anybody blame you for that?

When you do finally cave, you bust nut in 15-30 seconds: Its almost too much stimulation for your brain to handle. You've gone all week with nothing and suddenly you get everything you want and you bust a huge nut. You don't get to enjoy it much though. Its like being 12 years old again and just starting to masturbate.

In general, you just crave the sight of girls' skin: It seems like a long lost wonder now.

In conclusion, I'm not really looking forward to another two months of this lol. I'm also hella stubborn though and if I gave myself a challenge, I'm gonna follow through on it. So far, I don't think quitting porn is healthy in 21st century western society. There's too much sexual stimulation out there that isn't even porn, and it gets you way too excited. Porn, kind of like masturbation, is a necessary part of a healthy sexuality. It needs to be a treat though, not a necessity. Just make sure the ratio of non-porn faps to porn faps is good and you should be able to healthily use it for the rest of your life.

Edited by Anonymous (03/04/18 12:28 AM)

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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24950025 - 01/28/18 09:26 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Been trying to use it less after it caused some major friction with the girlfriend, thanks for posting.

I have only been successful in becoming more conscious of my addiction so far. On the twice a day regimen at the moment

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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #24950158 - 01/28/18 10:28 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #2 said:
Been trying to use it less after it caused some major friction with the girlfriend, thanks for posting.

I have only been successful in becoming more conscious of my addiction so far. On the twice a day regimen at the moment




You're welcome, I'll probably post an update a month from now. Also, if anyone has questions, feel free to ask.

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Anonymous #3

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24950185 - 01/28/18 10:40 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

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You feel more desperate: If a girl walks by in shorts or a miniskirt, I find it extremely difficult to not stare for too long. I always looked at them as much as I could. But now I look at them because I'm worried that if I tear my eyes away that I won't see something this sexy for a long time. I feel like a Saudi teenager these days lol.





I feel this way and I use porn quite often.  Maybe it's just where I'm at in my life for the moment.  I should add that my sex drive is significantly lower than yours - I have never masturbated 5 times in 1 day.  I average 3-4 times per week with cyclical swings in both directions.  Just my :twocents:  Thanks for posting and good luck.

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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #24951590 - 01/29/18 05:52 AM (6 years, 1 month ago)

I've had so many mixed feelings about porn... lol

On one hand it is really sexy to learn and watch these things happen, but on the other hand I find it kind of repulsing.

I found that I seek the orgasm, and it is especially hard to get there when you're alone and no visual stimulation. But thinking about what I'm actually doing became a little disgusting. Like, I realized I was watching these people do things that are meant for reproduction. I was watching our genetic drive to create more humans at play.  And it was making me get off and feel good, even though I wasn't having any sex nor was I even with another person.  Once I made this realization, it was really hard to see porn in the same way again. Sex is meant for babies...and it just so happens to feel fucking amazing. But watching these people "feel fucking amazing" and doing what our genes want us to instinctually do, and knowing that they are getting paid for it and that the girl is usually faking it all and it probably really hurts started to be a turn off. lol. It's like watching instincts create torture and fakeness  just so I can get a little thrill out of it when I'm lonely. I crave genuine feelings... watching a girl get her ass torn up and making a face that's supposed to be pleasure but u can tell she's hurting a ton doesn't cut it anymore.


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Anonymous #3

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: helloflower]
    #24952036 - 01/29/18 11:01 AM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Sounds a little self holy.

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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #24952108 - 01/29/18 11:31 AM (6 years, 1 month ago)

What do you mean by self holy?


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Anonymous #3

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: helloflower]
    #24952416 - 01/29/18 02:11 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

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knowing that they are getting paid for it and that the girl is usually faking it all and it probably really hurts started to be a turn off. lol. It's like watching instincts create torture and fakeness  just so I can get a little thrill out of it when I'm lonely. I crave genuine feelings... watching a girl get her ass torn up and making a face that's supposed to be pleasure but u can tell she's hurting a ton doesn't cut it anymore.




I read that as meaning something like "My way is the right way.  There are no other right ways but mine."  It's just me though.  You are entitled to your own opinions.

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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #24952464 - 01/29/18 02:25 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Gotcha I see what you mean.  Yeah I am not limited to thinking only what I think is right. I did not mean to come off that way, just expressing my opinion of it.  The girl faking it might help some people get off, and to them that would be good.  If that makes them happy, then that's fucking awesome.  I actually kind of envy those people lol.  I wish I didn't have the view I have sometimes, because then maybe i'd still be able to orgasm to porn.  lol


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Anonymous #3

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: helloflower]
    #24952468 - 01/29/18 02:28 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

I know what you mean.  There is a price to looking behind the veil.  It's like learning how a magic trick works.  It loses its magic.

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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #24952478 - 01/29/18 02:31 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah!! Exactly that same idea.
I have actually found a better alternative for me personally though. Instead of watching, it is reading.  Using the imagination is a little more exciting. You can't really fake that because it's your own feelings and in your mind. Plus you can also add to it and make anything you want to happen, happen.. It's its own type of art. Erotic art. Or not read and use purely your imagination, but that's pretty hard sometimes.


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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: helloflower]
    #24952596 - 01/29/18 03:24 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

helloflower said:
I've had so many mixed feelings about porn... lol

On one hand it is really sexy to learn and watch these things happen, but on the other hand I find it kind of repulsing.

I found that I seek the orgasm, and it is especially hard to get there when you're alone and no visual stimulation. But thinking about what I'm actually doing became a little disgusting. Like, I realized I was watching these people do things that are meant for reproduction. I was watching our genetic drive to create more humans at play.  And it was making me get off and feel good, even though I wasn't having any sex nor was I even with another person.  Once I made this realization, it was really hard to see porn in the same way again. Sex is meant for babies...and it just so happens to feel fucking amazing. But watching these people "feel fucking amazing" and doing what our genes want us to instinctually do, and knowing that they are getting paid for it and that the girl is usually faking it all and it probably really hurts started to be a turn off. lol. It's like watching instincts create torture and fakeness  just so I can get a little thrill out of it when I'm lonely. I crave genuine feelings... watching a girl get her ass torn up and making a face that's supposed to be pleasure but u can tell she's hurting a ton doesn't cut it anymore.




I feel like masturbation, sex, and porn all work together to create a balanced, healthy sexuality. If I ever indulge in one so much that it comes at the expense of another, I find that something feels missing and I get diminishing returns from what I'm doing. Too much fapping, with or without porn, with no sex and I feel lonely and touch deprived. Too much porno fapping and you get addicted and bored of it. If I have a shit ton of sex without ever masturbating, I find that I actually start to miss the ease and quickness of a nice fap. In order to satisfy myself, I have to really make an event of the sex every day, lasting for several hours each day. Its fun for awhile but eventually you want to relax. You want to just whip out your dick, fap for 10 minutes and go back to your day. You can do it whenever you feel like it too, no waiting for her to get to your place, no texting or calling, just whip your dick out, scratch the itch, and continue doing whatever you were doing. Many people seem to think that one of these three things needs, should, or does replace the others. This causes them to go long periods of time where they only do one or two of them. But I think a balanced sexuality where you incorporate all three into each week is much more healthy and satisfying.

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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24952674 - 01/29/18 03:56 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

That makes sense. Well it kind of seems like you have it figured out. Do you find it hard to maintain the balance?


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Anonymous #4

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24953676 - 01/30/18 02:13 AM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Can go a week easy but the relapse after that week doesn't usually end in only one session.. been thinking of reading erotica instead to get the imagination flowing right.

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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #24953826 - 01/30/18 05:26 AM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
Can go a week easy but the relapse after that week doesn't usually end in only one session.. been thinking of reading erotica instead to get the imagination flowing right.




I very much encourage the use of that!


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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: helloflower]
    #24954618 - 01/30/18 01:04 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

yeah dirty stories are the best. anyone got a source of such things to recommend?

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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #24954697 - 01/30/18 01:45 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous #2 said:
yeah dirty stories are the best. anyone got a source of such things to recommend?



Check out my post.


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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: helloflower]
    #24954705 - 01/30/18 01:48 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

just wasted my time reading your last 6 posts or so. what am I looking for

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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #24957140 - 01/31/18 02:19 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous #2 said:
just wasted my time reading your last 6 posts or so. what am I looking for





sorry u wasted ur time.  It's the one that says alternative to porn. isn't that what youre looking for?


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: helloflower]
    #24957171 - 01/31/18 02:29 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Better be careful boys, it seems like not cleaning out your pipes regularly could cause some issues.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/behindtheheadlines/news/2017-07-06-frequent-ejaculation-may-decrease-prostate-cancer-risk/


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Anonymous #5

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: MeatSack] * 1
    #24957299 - 01/31/18 03:11 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

I think that porn can be really bad for people, it creates a dopamine response in the brain and so can become addictive.

It can gradually cause inferiority complexes in men as well as premature ejaculation and performance issues.

It desensitizes people and makes sex less of an act of love and more of a trivial act of instant gratification.

It exacerbates hookup culture and makes young men both more aggresive and worse at approaching women.

It also lowers the drive to want to go out and put the time in meeting someone and genuinely getting to know them and forging a relationship when all you have to do is go online to see perfect specimens doing anything you could imagine, mens hornyness is supposed to drive them to find and compete for a mate but instead they are jacking all of that energy all over their laptops an into their socks.

It gradually makes people more and more degenerate because over time they graduate to darker and more extreme shit.

Edited by Anonymous (01/31/18 03:14 PM)

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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: helloflower]
    #24957894 - 01/31/18 06:58 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

helloflower said:
That makes sense. Well it kind of seems like you have it figured out. Do you find it hard to maintain the balance?




Specifically when it comes to sex, I have a harder time maintaining the balance because I have a difficult time finding a sexual partner so when I do find one, all I want to do is fuck. When it comes to porn vs non-porn faps though, I think I don't have a very hard time maintaining the balance.

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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #24957900 - 01/31/18 07:00 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #4 said:
Can go a week easy but the relapse after that week doesn't usually end in only one session.. been thinking of reading erotica instead to get the imagination flowing right.




Erotica is porn, its just printed porn instead of visual porn.

por·nog·ra·phy
pôrˈnäɡrəfē/Submit
noun
printed or visual material containing the explicit description or display of sexual organs or activity, intended to stimulate erotic rather than aesthetic or emotional feelings.
synonyms: erotica, pornographic material, dirty books; More

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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: helloflower]
    #24959339 - 02/01/18 10:53 AM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

helloflower said:
Quote:

Anonymous #2 said:
just wasted my time reading your last 6 posts or so. what am I looking for





sorry u wasted ur time.  It's the one that says alternative to porn. isn't that what youre looking for?



And continue to waste it on you, for you've still not recommended a source and your only other post containing the word alternative was similarly useless

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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #24959755 - 02/01/18 02:00 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #2 said:
Quote:

helloflower said:
Quote:

Anonymous #2 said:
just wasted my time reading your last 6 posts or so. what am I looking for





sorry u wasted ur time.  It's the one that says alternative to porn. isn't that what youre looking for?



And continue to waste it on you, for you've still not recommended a source and your only other post containing the word alternative was similarly useless

:thumbdown:




Lol.. okay sorry.  I thought you were looking to basically read porn(erotica) instead of watching it? I posted the alternative to porn thread a few days ago and it is erotica.  I guess i don't understand exactly what you are looking for.  Good luck finding it though. I don't have any other source. I do plan to write more in the future though


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Anonymous #6

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #24976473 - 02/08/18 12:55 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Very introspective thoughts here. I can definitely relate 100%. The fine balance between no porn and too much porn is very difficult to find.

For me, I get "triggered" by the "cheating" part. For example, I see a commercial about a new work out for women. I see hot women in yoga pants. I get triggered and have to look at porn. There is no avoiding it.

Also, when u dont watch porn, boners become a huge nuisance (pun intended). Sometimes they pop up in odd situations.

I like that 1 to 3 rule. I find fantasizing about real women I know in real life helps to balance the intense de-sensitivation of porn.

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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #24978895 - 02/09/18 03:06 PM (6 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #6 said:
Very introspective thoughts here. I can definitely relate 100%. The fine balance between no porn and too much porn is very difficult to find.

For me, I get "triggered" by the "cheating" part. For example, I see a commercial about a new work out for women. I see hot women in yoga pants. I get triggered and have to look at porn. There is no avoiding it.

Also, when u dont watch porn, boners become a huge nuisance (pun intended). Sometimes they pop up in odd situations.

I like that 1 to 3 rule. I find fantasizing about real women I know in real life helps to balance the intense de-sensitivation of porn.




Exactly, that's been the cause of almost every time I just gave in and watched porn. This month is turning out to be a lot more difficult than January, I've already jerked off to porn three times. Whenever I go to a porn site now, I feel like I'm reuniting with an old friend lol.

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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #25037313 - 03/04/18 12:26 AM (6 years, 26 days ago)

Month two update:

Okay so last month was definitely more difficult than January. I jerked off to porn like three times in the first ten days but then I cut back a lot and didn't use porn again for ten days, and then gave in a fifth time literally on the last day of February. So I jerked off to porn a total of five times in February. A small increase. There were a few warm weather days last month too which caused all the girls to pull out their short shorts and miniskirts and goddamn, it was a hard couple of days. That was the reason I gave in the fourth time was cause it was so hard to walk around and see that all day and not use porn. Also, for some reason the warm weather makes me hornier.

I haven't noticed much changing from what I said last month other than it getting more difficult to keep the porn fast going. Its only been three days of March but I've already given in again. I think March is going to be very difficult. I'm really looking forward to this three month experiment being over. I'm determined to finish it though cause I don't start something and then quit. I'm about 70% of the way finished, so I can surely do the next 30%.

One friend of mine said you probably have to go a whole month to feel positive benefits. I told him though, that one week feels like a month to me. Considering that my average for past three months before this had been twice a day. Going from twice a day to once a week is a huge cutback. Its such a dramatic cutback that I feel like I've quit. At this point, it feels like its not a part of my life anymore.

I have not had any of the supposed benefits that are supposed to happen though. I'm not more confident, I'm not better with girls, I'm not feeling better about myself. I think that those benefits only happen to people who feel guilty about using porn. I don't feel guilty at all using porn, the only reason I'm really doing this is, in-fact, to make porn exciting again.

Edited by Anonymous (03/04/18 12:26 AM)

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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25037975 - 03/04/18 10:47 AM (6 years, 25 days ago)

been realizing that masturbating to porn is more pleasurable than real sex could ever be. So why should I care about real sex anymore

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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #25041886 - 03/05/18 11:57 PM (6 years, 24 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #2 said:
been realizing that masturbating to porn is more pleasurable than real sex could ever be. So why should I care about real sex anymore




Seriously?

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Anonymous #2

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25041890 - 03/06/18 12:00 AM (6 years, 24 days ago)

Yeah, I was serious. Maybe slip some real sex in every now and again to keep things fresh but I do think jerking off is better

you dont have to worry about the needs of the girl, you can get fresh material endlessly and edge forever. I can cum more times in a night to porn than I can to a single woman. And the orgasms themselves tend to feel better

Edited by Anonymous (03/06/18 12:06 AM)

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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
    #25041900 - 03/06/18 12:07 AM (6 years, 24 days ago)

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Anonymous #2 said:
Yeah, I was serious. Maybe slip some real sex in every now and again to keep things fresh but I do think jerking off is better

you dont have to worry about the needs of the girl, you can get fresh material endlessly and edge forever. I can cum more times in a night to porn than I can to a single woman.




Yeah you can definitely cum faster when masturbating. You're right that its all about you when you're masturbating. Its just that sex gives you all kinds of sensations you can't experience when masturbating.

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Anonymous #6

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25045717 - 03/07/18 11:55 AM (6 years, 22 days ago)

I will say porn is intense psychologically. But physically, sex is way better.

But I could see how porn could "overshadow" sex.

Interesting effects. Usually quitting porn does increase your "swagger" with women. At least, it seems like it does.

Interesting that u are cutting back to make it more exciting. I thought it was cause u thought it was an addiction :lol:

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Anonymous #1

Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #25047690 - 03/07/18 11:41 PM (6 years, 22 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #6 said:
I will say porn is intense psychologically. But physically, sex is way better.

But I could see how porn could "overshadow" sex.

Interesting effects. Usually quitting porn does increase your "swagger" with women. At least, it seems like it does.

Interesting that u are cutting back to make it more exciting. I thought it was cause u thought it was an addiction :lol:




Yeah I want to make it exciting and not a necessity. Anon #2 is actually addicted, I like porn but I can't imagine choosing porn over sex. I just noticed that porn was losing all sense of excitement. I felt like every video was starting to blend together and feel the same. I remember porn feeling amazing when I was just starting to use it. On the times that I've given in, I've gotten that feeling back and I feel like I'm 13 again. I have a feeling that April 1st is going to be a wonderful day so I look forward to my fast being over but I still recognize the need to finish it and not give up early. I wanna be desperate for it to end lol.

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    #25047832 - 03/08/18 02:55 AM (6 years, 22 days ago)

I find with drugs, the magic of the first few times never comes back, but with enough break, it does mostly come back.

Same with porn. It comes mostly back but not completely.

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    #25048447 - 03/08/18 11:53 AM (6 years, 21 days ago)

man you guys need kinkier porn, the magic neva stops!

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    #25050677 - 03/08/18 10:21 PM (6 years, 21 days ago)

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man you guys need kinkier porn, the magic neva stops!




Kinky porn doesn't do anything for me.

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    #25050696 - 03/08/18 10:38 PM (6 years, 21 days ago)

Used to be the same. Get bored enough with normal porn and chance upon weird stuff at the right time "is that really making me hard? god i'm sick"

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    #25051013 - 03/09/18 03:58 AM (6 years, 21 days ago)

Kinky porn doesnt do it for me. At one point, i would dabble but it still has the "WTF" factor and it makes it hard to enjoy.

Definitely no scat or water sports or S&M. Yuck. Farthest i will go comfortably is women wrestling/Femdom.

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    #25051495 - 03/09/18 09:27 AM (6 years, 21 days ago)

squirts are an easy window to waterplay :yesnod:

was so stoked when I first found squirt porn. "its like facials but for ladies!"

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    #25053545 - 03/10/18 01:21 AM (6 years, 20 days ago)

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squirts are an easy window to waterplay :yesnod:

was so stoked when I first found squirt porn. "its like facials but for ladies!"




Its not just the wtf factor for me that makes it unappealing, I just don't find anything sexy about it. I've seen videos that mix normal porn with BDSM stuff for example. And the only thing that went through my mind was, "stop fucking hitting her and just kiss her, this isn't arousing at all." Its not just that I find it weird/disturbing/sick/immoral or whatever. Its also that my dick goes flaccid when it comes on and it actually feels like an interruption to my wanking session. They might as well stop having sex, put their clothes on and start talking to each other about the weather, because that's about as arousing as I find kinky porn but at least it eliminates the disturbing factor.

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    #25053695 - 03/10/18 05:17 AM (6 years, 20 days ago)

I get it. U just dont find that kinky stuff sexual. I could see that. I see fetishes as more "accessories" since they are add-ons that arent exactly sexual but some people find them sexy.

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    #25089031 - 03/25/18 09:30 AM (6 years, 5 days ago)

If any of my sexual prospects are reading, you probably know who I am; I don't feel guilty about polygyny.

Also, I don't care for porn and promiscuity, for the same reason I don't eat everything in the buffet or listen to everything on the radio or take every drug.

The fact that it's hanging out doesn't make it any more attractive than the plumber's butt or the low, sagging tits on a pregnant goat. We can see all these same parts at zoo, clearly, know how they are used, and not be interested.

Porn is when you stare, anyway.

I am not masochistic or having psych issues or being puritanical. I just don't like it. :shrug: Who looks at an entire crowd of people and wants to have sex with every last person, realistically.

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    #25089999 - 03/25/18 04:28 PM (6 years, 4 days ago)

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If any of my sexual prospects are reading, you probably know who I am; I don't feel guilty about polygyny.

Also, I don't care for porn and promiscuity, for the same reason I don't eat everything in the buffet or listen to everything on the radio or take every drug.

The fact that it's hanging out doesn't make it any more attractive than the plumber's butt or the low, sagging tits on a pregnant goat. We can see all these same parts at zoo, clearly, know how they are used, and not be interested.

Porn is when you stare, anyway.

I am not masochistic or having psych issues or being puritanical. I just don't like it. :shrug: Who looks at an entire crowd of people and wants to have sex with every last person, realistically.




I could definitely fuck every girl in this crowd.


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    #25090489 - 03/25/18 08:25 PM (6 years, 4 days ago)

Honestly, fucking a toy feels infinitely better then masturbating to porn.  When I use a toy, I don’t even watch porn.  I dont even want too.  Its like even if I start with porn, as soon as I use a toy - I stop.

It also helps me maintain a sense of intimacy for when im with others, allows me to practice positioning my body, sex moves, how I can have sex and practicing pleasure for me and what I know pleasures women from past sexual experiences.

Total gamechanger.  And I agree - I cant even watch “hardcore” porn.  I have to scroll and scroll forever for a nice cute girl masturbating on her own terms with HD and no weird heavy hardcore stuff; or a passionate movie between two lovers thats so well done its HBO quality.  Nowadays if I watch any porn, its literally just watching only one or two girls just strip and touch themselves gently.  Other then that.. its just abusive to support the porn industry.

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    #25090608 - 03/25/18 09:33 PM (6 years, 4 days ago)

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Honestly, fucking a toy feels infinitely better then masturbating to porn.  When I use a toy, I don’t even watch porn.  I dont even want too.  Its like even if I start with porn, as soon as I use a toy - I stop.

It also helps me maintain a sense of intimacy for when im with others, allows me to practice positioning my body, sex moves, how I can have sex and practicing pleasure for me and what I know pleasures women from past sexual experiences.

Total gamechanger.  And I agree - I cant even watch “hardcore” porn.  I have to scroll and scroll forever for a nice cute girl masturbating on her own terms with HD and no weird heavy hardcore stuff; or a passionate movie between two lovers thats so well done its HBO quality.  Nowadays if I watch any porn, its literally just watching only one or two girls just strip and touch themselves gently.  Other then that.. its just abusive to support the porn industry.




You should try lesbian porn. I only watch lesbian porn because I can't stand the mainstream "tiny white girl gets her asshole destroyed by giant ten inch cock" type videos. I prefer passionate sensual sex in both porn and real life. There's way more erotic porn in the lesbian category than there is in straight porn. I think that's why I don't like kinky porn at all, even normal porn is too hardcore for my tastes. I prefer to just watch a couple cute girls kiss each other. I don't agree with calling it abusive though.

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    #25090695 - 03/25/18 10:32 PM (6 years, 4 days ago)

^^

I meant the “tiny white college girl gets rammed in the ass” type stuff is abusve to support.

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    #25091715 - 03/26/18 10:50 AM (6 years, 4 days ago)

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I could definitely fuck every girl in this crowd.





If not preppies (:thumbup:), the active, vegan permaculturists, who still know how to use a razor, imo. All of them.

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    #25092343 - 03/26/18 03:56 PM (6 years, 3 days ago)

I've mostly been staying away from hardcore porn for a while now. So much of it is so fucked up. Seeing nude photos of a variety of women (fat, fit and everywhere in between, different ethnic backgrounds etc) is a positive for me though I think. Or, for that matter, seeing them in person.

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    #25094387 - 03/27/18 11:35 AM (6 years, 2 days ago)

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Seeing nude photos of a variety of women (fat, fit and everywhere in between, different ethnic backgrounds etc) is a positive for me though I think. Or, for that matter, seeing them in person.




Do you think, wanting one particular thing, and going after that, with singleminded purpose, is so unrealistic?

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First and foremost, she has to be someone I can have an intellectual discussion with.




Then, go find that. Or, whatever you like, in particular.

Most people are gawking in quiet desperation, not because it suits their voyeurism.

I find porn demoralizing, because I don't like anything and everything. Firstly, they are not my type(s), 95% of the time.

I am not saying it, because of some feminist, social justice narrative.

I am also not being critical of exhibitionists, per se. That is sexual, for some people.

I don't like what they are showing me, even if it was just a spectator sport.

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I could definitely fuck every girl in this crowd.




I think, if we are to take this premise at face value, it would be categorized; sororities are exclusive about who is allowed to be part of their in-group.

Are we doing that, too?

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    #25094433 - 03/27/18 11:50 AM (6 years, 2 days ago)

Physical exertion (hopefully, not past the point of ruin) is supposed to raise hormones to high levels, as well as being authoritative. If you're more aerobically inclined, than a chunk, that can be hard running on a tread mill, or just lording-it over a khakistocracy.

I think, some men are finding awkward sex, awkward abstinence, awkward sleep, or awkward digestion, because they are type-B's.

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Quote:

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Seeing nude photos of a variety of women (fat, fit and everywhere in between, different ethnic backgrounds etc) is a positive for me though I think. Or, for that matter, seeing them in person.




Do you think, wanting one particular thing, and going after that, with singleminded purpose, is so unrealistic?



I'm not sure I understand what you are asking or how it may be connected to the comment I made.

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    #25094506 - 03/27/18 12:22 PM (6 years, 2 days ago)

Don't take this wrong, but are you a "pig". There is a name for a scene, or a kind of person. Not my word.

In other words, everything goes.

If that's what you like, that's what you like. :shrug:

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    #25094519 - 03/27/18 12:29 PM (6 years, 2 days ago)

Some of us have specific tastes.

If we were continually served a diet of things we don't like to eat, and lost our interest in food, or could only have clothes we don't like, and lost our interest in our appearances, or had a miserable form of transportation, and lost our interest in cars, etc, etc, the problem is not that you've taken a good and normal thing to excess. That's learned helplessness, a popular cause of depression.

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    #25094522 - 03/27/18 12:30 PM (6 years, 2 days ago)

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If that's what you like, that's what you like. :shrug:



Yes, my comment was about what I think is good for me and I specified this. I have no clue what you're talking about otherwise though, or what your motivation might be to insult me. What is the "one particular thing" you're talking about? Women of one particular look? And where did you get the idea I thought pursuit of this thing was "unrealistic"? Unrealistic for me, or everyone?

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    #25094527 - 03/27/18 12:33 PM (6 years, 2 days ago)

It's a figure of speech, not meant to be an insult. I have just seen one personal site, where you are supposed to click on an icon of your preferred sexual position, and there is a literal silhouette of a pig.  It's not my word.

I take it as someone who piles everything on their plate, at a buffet, and mixes it together. More politely, someone of eclectic tastes, maybe, musically.

Are you saying that you like that kind of variety.

Or, are you trying to say that is "realism", to you, that it's not supposed to be perfect.

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    #25094556 - 03/27/18 12:49 PM (6 years, 2 days ago)

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It's a figure of speech, not meant to be an insult. I have just seen one personal site, where you are supposed to click on an icon of your preferred sexual position, and there is a literal silhouette of a pig.  It's not my word.




I am not familiar with that site I guess. Never heard a person described as a "pig" in a positive light though. Generally in English it's an insult when applied to people.

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I take it as someone who piles everything on their plate, at a buffet, and mixes it together. More politely, someone of eclectic tastes, maybe, musically.

Are you saying that you like that kind of variety.

Or, are you trying to say that is "realism", to you, that it's not supposed to be perfect.




Yes, I said that I like the variety. And I tend not to really care much for the "unrealistic" (fake tits, overly made up or photoshopped).

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    #25094640 - 03/27/18 01:15 PM (6 years, 2 days ago)

Do you have an ideal, besides personal freedom?

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    #25094652 - 03/27/18 01:19 PM (6 years, 2 days ago)

Sure, but how does that relate to the topic being discussed?

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    #25094664 - 03/27/18 01:27 PM (6 years, 2 days ago)

Selective appetites vs. binging, where porn is considered to be unsatisfying / tasteless.

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    #25094672 - 03/27/18 01:29 PM (6 years, 2 days ago)

I think you are reading a lot more into what I've said than is really there. I'm not really interested in continuing to discuss this with you.

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    #25094775 - 03/27/18 02:07 PM (6 years, 2 days ago)

:cuteshit: You are only answerable to yourself, afaic.

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