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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #25053545 - 03/10/18 03:21 AM (3 years, 3 months ago)

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squirts are an easy window to waterplay :yesnod:

was so stoked when I first found squirt porn. "its like facials but for ladies!"




Its not just the wtf factor for me that makes it unappealing, I just don't find anything sexy about it. I've seen videos that mix normal porn with BDSM stuff for example. And the only thing that went through my mind was, "stop fucking hitting her and just kiss her, this isn't arousing at all." Its not just that I find it weird/disturbing/sick/immoral or whatever. Its also that my dick goes flaccid when it comes on and it actually feels like an interruption to my wanking session. They might as well stop having sex, put their clothes on and start talking to each other about the weather, because that's about as arousing as I find kinky porn but at least it eliminates the disturbing factor.


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25053695 - 03/10/18 07:17 AM (3 years, 3 months ago)

I get it. U just dont find that kinky stuff sexual. I could see that. I see fetishes as more "accessories" since they are add-ons that arent exactly sexual but some people find them sexy.


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #25089031 - 03/25/18 11:30 AM (3 years, 2 months ago)

If any of my sexual prospects are reading, you probably know who I am; I don't feel guilty about polygyny.

Also, I don't care for porn and promiscuity, for the same reason I don't eat everything in the buffet or listen to everything on the radio or take every drug.

The fact that it's hanging out doesn't make it any more attractive than the plumber's butt or the low, sagging tits on a pregnant goat. We can see all these same parts at zoo, clearly, know how they are used, and not be interested.

Porn is when you stare, anyway.

I am not masochistic or having psych issues or being puritanical. I just don't like it. :shrug: Who looks at an entire crowd of people and wants to have sex with every last person, realistically.


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: durian_2008] * 1
    #25089999 - 03/25/18 06:28 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

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If any of my sexual prospects are reading, you probably know who I am; I don't feel guilty about polygyny.

Also, I don't care for porn and promiscuity, for the same reason I don't eat everything in the buffet or listen to everything on the radio or take every drug.

The fact that it's hanging out doesn't make it any more attractive than the plumber's butt or the low, sagging tits on a pregnant goat. We can see all these same parts at zoo, clearly, know how they are used, and not be interested.

Porn is when you stare, anyway.

I am not masochistic or having psych issues or being puritanical. I just don't like it. :shrug: Who looks at an entire crowd of people and wants to have sex with every last person, realistically.




I could definitely fuck every girl in this crowd.



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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #25090489 - 03/25/18 10:25 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

Honestly, fucking a toy feels infinitely better then masturbating to porn.  When I use a toy, I don’t even watch porn.  I dont even want too.  Its like even if I start with porn, as soon as I use a toy - I stop.

It also helps me maintain a sense of intimacy for when im with others, allows me to practice positioning my body, sex moves, how I can have sex and practicing pleasure for me and what I know pleasures women from past sexual experiences.

Total gamechanger.  And I agree - I cant even watch “hardcore” porn.  I have to scroll and scroll forever for a nice cute girl masturbating on her own terms with HD and no weird heavy hardcore stuff; or a passionate movie between two lovers thats so well done its HBO quality.  Nowadays if I watch any porn, its literally just watching only one or two girls just strip and touch themselves gently.  Other then that.. its just abusive to support the porn industry.


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Typerwritermonky] * 1
    #25090608 - 03/25/18 11:33 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

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Honestly, fucking a toy feels infinitely better then masturbating to porn.  When I use a toy, I don’t even watch porn.  I dont even want too.  Its like even if I start with porn, as soon as I use a toy - I stop.

It also helps me maintain a sense of intimacy for when im with others, allows me to practice positioning my body, sex moves, how I can have sex and practicing pleasure for me and what I know pleasures women from past sexual experiences.

Total gamechanger.  And I agree - I cant even watch “hardcore” porn.  I have to scroll and scroll forever for a nice cute girl masturbating on her own terms with HD and no weird heavy hardcore stuff; or a passionate movie between two lovers thats so well done its HBO quality.  Nowadays if I watch any porn, its literally just watching only one or two girls just strip and touch themselves gently.  Other then that.. its just abusive to support the porn industry.




You should try lesbian porn. I only watch lesbian porn because I can't stand the mainstream "tiny white girl gets her asshole destroyed by giant ten inch cock" type videos. I prefer passionate sensual sex in both porn and real life. There's way more erotic porn in the lesbian category than there is in straight porn. I think that's why I don't like kinky porn at all, even normal porn is too hardcore for my tastes. I prefer to just watch a couple cute girls kiss each other. I don't agree with calling it abusive though.


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25090695 - 03/26/18 12:32 AM (3 years, 2 months ago)

^^

I meant the “tiny white college girl gets rammed in the ass” type stuff is abusve to support.


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25091715 - 03/26/18 12:50 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

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I could definitely fuck every girl in this crowd.





If not preppies (:thumbup:), the active, vegan permaculturists, who still know how to use a razor, imo. All of them.


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #25092343 - 03/26/18 05:56 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

I've mostly been staying away from hardcore porn for a while now. So much of it is so fucked up. Seeing nude photos of a variety of women (fat, fit and everywhere in between, different ethnic backgrounds etc) is a positive for me though I think. Or, for that matter, seeing them in person.


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: psi]
    #25094387 - 03/27/18 01:35 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

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Seeing nude photos of a variety of women (fat, fit and everywhere in between, different ethnic backgrounds etc) is a positive for me though I think. Or, for that matter, seeing them in person.




Do you think, wanting one particular thing, and going after that, with singleminded purpose, is so unrealistic?

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First and foremost, she has to be someone I can have an intellectual discussion with.




Then, go find that. Or, whatever you like, in particular.

Most people are gawking in quiet desperation, not because it suits their voyeurism.

I find porn demoralizing, because I don't like anything and everything. Firstly, they are not my type(s), 95% of the time.

I am not saying it, because of some feminist, social justice narrative.

I am also not being critical of exhibitionists, per se. That is sexual, for some people.

I don't like what they are showing me, even if it was just a spectator sport.

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I could definitely fuck every girl in this crowd.




I think, if we are to take this premise at face value, it would be categorized; sororities are exclusive about who is allowed to be part of their in-group.

Are we doing that, too?


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: durian_2008]
    #25094433 - 03/27/18 01:50 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

Physical exertion (hopefully, not past the point of ruin) is supposed to raise hormones to high levels, as well as being authoritative. If you're more aerobically inclined, than a chunk, that can be hard running on a tread mill, or just lording-it over a khakistocracy.

I think, some men are finding awkward sex, awkward abstinence, awkward sleep, or awkward digestion, because they are type-B's.


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: durian_2008]
    #25094475 - 03/27/18 02:08 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

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Seeing nude photos of a variety of women (fat, fit and everywhere in between, different ethnic backgrounds etc) is a positive for me though I think. Or, for that matter, seeing them in person.




Do you think, wanting one particular thing, and going after that, with singleminded purpose, is so unrealistic?



I'm not sure I understand what you are asking or how it may be connected to the comment I made.


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: psi]
    #25094506 - 03/27/18 02:22 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

Don't take this wrong, but are you a "pig". There is a name for a scene, or a kind of person. Not my word.

In other words, everything goes.

If that's what you like, that's what you like. :shrug:


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: durian_2008]
    #25094519 - 03/27/18 02:29 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

Some of us have specific tastes.

If we were continually served a diet of things we don't like to eat, and lost our interest in food, or could only have clothes we don't like, and lost our interest in our appearances, or had a miserable form of transportation, and lost our interest in cars, etc, etc, the problem is not that you've taken a good and normal thing to excess. That's learned helplessness, a popular cause of depression.


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    #25094522 - 03/27/18 02:30 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

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If that's what you like, that's what you like. :shrug:



Yes, my comment was about what I think is good for me and I specified this. I have no clue what you're talking about otherwise though, or what your motivation might be to insult me. What is the "one particular thing" you're talking about? Women of one particular look? And where did you get the idea I thought pursuit of this thing was "unrealistic"? Unrealistic for me, or everyone?


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: psi]
    #25094527 - 03/27/18 02:33 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

It's a figure of speech, not meant to be an insult. I have just seen one personal site, where you are supposed to click on an icon of your preferred sexual position, and there is a literal silhouette of a pig.  It's not my word.

I take it as someone who piles everything on their plate, at a buffet, and mixes it together. More politely, someone of eclectic tastes, maybe, musically.

Are you saying that you like that kind of variety.

Or, are you trying to say that is "realism", to you, that it's not supposed to be perfect.


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: durian_2008]
    #25094556 - 03/27/18 02:49 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

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It's a figure of speech, not meant to be an insult. I have just seen one personal site, where you are supposed to click on an icon of your preferred sexual position, and there is a literal silhouette of a pig.  It's not my word.




I am not familiar with that site I guess. Never heard a person described as a "pig" in a positive light though. Generally in English it's an insult when applied to people.

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I take it as someone who piles everything on their plate, at a buffet, and mixes it together. More politely, someone of eclectic tastes, maybe, musically.

Are you saying that you like that kind of variety.

Or, are you trying to say that is "realism", to you, that it's not supposed to be perfect.




Yes, I said that I like the variety. And I tend not to really care much for the "unrealistic" (fake tits, overly made up or photoshopped).


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Re: I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found. [Re: psi]
    #25094640 - 03/27/18 03:15 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

Do you have an ideal, besides personal freedom?


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    #25094652 - 03/27/18 03:19 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

Sure, but how does that relate to the topic being discussed?


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    #25094664 - 03/27/18 03:27 PM (3 years, 2 months ago)

Selective appetites vs. binging, where porn is considered to be unsatisfying / tasteless.


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