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Me_Roy said:  Some people simply aren't good at picking up on subtle signals.

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Me_Roy said:  Some people simply aren't good at picking up on subtle signals.

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Very true. You may have to explain it to them, like they are a retarded child.

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Yeah man. Now I haave two retarded children in our house, inviting even more retarded children over...  That's exactly the way I feel about them.

indraclee said:

Breathe deeply. Every time they do something different than you'd want or expect, remember they have their own lives from which they things they do probably seem acceptable to them. And if human-heartedness doesn't work, just go to a happy place in your mind and remember that girl you were lying naked next to

Good luck. Get some time away from them to blow off steam. Enjoy some cannabis if possible

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Sounds like a bad advice, sorry "just smoke a joint and pretend everything is fine" yeah right

qman said:

Tell them you will call the terror police and ship them back to Iran, don't put up with these arabs. I have seen the way they act in Europe, and they are assholes, no manners, and just smile.

They don't like you, and are trying to make your life shit. All the Europeans I talked too can't stand them at all. Remember you are dealing with nasty people, don't back down, tell them straight up that you can call people to take care of them.

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I concur suck

Me_Roy said:

Leaving dirty dishes lying around is the stupidest reaction imaginable.  How the fuck are they supposed to understand what you 'mean' by that?

Did you talk to them about leaving you the fuck alone when you have female company?  I'd suggest that you do so.  Get a 'do not disturb' sign to hang on your doorknob.  Some people simply aren't good at picking up on subtle signals.

As for their 'grinning,' I think you're going to have to suck that up. 

In short, bring your issues up with them in a direct manner, or prepare for further disappointment.

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sof4r0ckeRs1984 said:

Me_Roy said:

Leaving dirty dishes lying around is the stupidest reaction imaginable.  How the fuck are they supposed to understand what you 'mean' by that?

Did you talk to them about leaving you the fuck alone when you have female company?  I'd suggest that you do so.  Get a 'do not disturb' sign to hang on your doorknob.  Some people simply aren't good at picking up on subtle signals.

As for their 'grinning,' I think you're going to have to suck that up. 

In short, bring your issues up with them in a direct manner, or prepare for further disappointment.

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I was trying to be funny with them in the beginning but seems I'm their clown now. When I'm asking them why they were laughing I got no answers, but I can't talk to them because they will laugh at that too. They don't take me seriously any more and that's my own fault, But I'm gonna show them the difference now without giving myself a weakness. If they need it like that, they get it like that.

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Admiral Ackbar said:

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Me_Roy said:  Some people simply aren't good at picking up on subtle signals.

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Very true. You may have to explain it to them, like they are a retarded child.

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I actually like these opportunities.

You can really embellish it if you like. "You see, when two grownups who like each other very much" you can really just run from there with it. The more they act ignorant about it the more you get to call them out for not getting any sex.

Tchan909 said:

Admiral Ackbar said:

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Me_Roy said:  Some people simply aren't good at picking up on subtle signals.

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Very true. You may have to explain it to them, like they are a retarded child.

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I actually like these opportunities.

You can really embellish it if you like. "You see, when two grownups who like each other very much" you can really just run from there with it. The more they act ignorant about it the more you get to call them out for not getting any sex.

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I'll keep that in mind as an alternative strategy. I won't get rid of them too soon and I don't want to stigmatize them.

sof4r0ckeRs1984 said:

Some days ago, I was in bed with a girl, they came upstairs and screamed around in the kitchen (which is only separated from my room by a wooden door). Right when we were naked in bed one of them was knocking at the door. As if they would not have seen the girl's shoes standing next to mine in the doorway.

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sof4r0ckeRs1984 said:

Tchan909 said:

Admiral Ackbar said:

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Me_Roy said:  Some people simply aren't good at picking up on subtle signals.

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Very true. You may have to explain it to them, like they are a retarded child.

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I actually like these opportunities.

You can really embellish it if you like. "You see, when two grownups who like each other very much" you can really just run from there with it. The more they act ignorant about it the more you get to call them out for not getting any sex.

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I'll keep that in mind as an alternative strategy. I won't get rid of them too soon and I don't want to stigmatize them.

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Well, you've got to dole out that stigmatization as necessary. Sometimes people are asking for it, like when they don't respect you knockin' boots with the ladyfriend. I don't know how they do in Persia but here in America (which I'm guessing is much more similar to Germany than to Iran), when people don't respect the private space they got to get called out until it becomes embarrassingly obvious to all that they are simply unable to sympathize with your ability to have sex.

Either that, or just never give them a taste of the social baggage that comes with disrespecting your space. Your call.

I've been through something similar before, in case you couldn't tell.

nice1 said:

Move out.

Your being mocked the only way that wil change is if you fight them and as theirs 2 of them they will probably win or make your life a living hell.

They've chumped you.  Simple as.

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