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No one seems sexually interested in me
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I dunno what Im doing wrong.
People tell me Im attractive, cute, hot, etc.
Girls will flirt, cuddle with and kiss me.
However when it comes down to doing anything sexual, no one is interested. At all.
Im not sure what it is about me that puts people off. Even gay/bi guys aren't sexually interested in me.
I just want to know that someone somewhere would have sex with me willingly.
Girls tell me they would but when it comes down to actually doing anything they get all tweaked out about it at the last minute.
I dont know what odd mannerism or weird vibe or what it is that puts people off.
I know Im attractive, maybe Im shy and lack a little charm sometimes, but its not like Im ugly or a dumber than a sack of bricks.

It always ALMOST happens but then it doesn't and I end up going home and jerking off.
Even a blow job every once in a while would be nice. Why is everyone so terrified of my cock?
I wont lower myself to paying for sex when I know Im plenty desirable.

I just want to be able to grab someone whose consent I have and fuck them till the cows come home.

I can try to cheer myself up thinking about all the diseases I dont have but when it comes down to it I feel entirely unfulfilled and even a little depressed over it. I can get any drug I want but I cant get laid. It frustrates me even more to see these people who do it effortlessly and with strangers like it isnt even a big thing.

Edited by Anonymous (05/08/10 07:39 PM)

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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meh sex isnt a big deal anyway.

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #2]
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I know it isnt, I just want to have it every once in a while.
Im tired of all these "single player games" so to say.
It's just really got me down lately.

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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yea it happens. either way youre going to have to sacrifice something.

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Im not sure exactly what you mean by that.

Im trying just about everything I can to make myself happy and not need to look to anyone else. Meditation, self gratification, drugs, tantra, out letting through art, channeling excess energy into physical activities but none of it is really doing it for me. I want to reach out and touch someone.

I wouldnt even be able to admit to all of this if I wasnt tripping.

I want to be able to have lighthearted fun sex like all of these normal happy beautiful people with lives and friends.

I guess Ill just give up on sex and do more drugs? :shrug:

Edited by Anonymous (05/08/10 08:14 PM)

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
Im not sure exactly what you mean by that.

Im trying just about everything I can to make myself happy and not need to look to anyone else. Meditation, self gratification, drugs, tantra, out letting through art, channeling excess energy into physical activities but none of it is really doing it for me. I want to reach out and touch someone.

I wouldnt even be able to admit to all of this if I wasnt tripping.

I want to be able to have lighthearted fun sex like all of these normal happy beautiful people with lives and friends.

I guess Ill just give up on sex and do more drugs? :shrug:


most of them are faking it.

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #2]
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So you are saying all these attractive young girls and attractive young guys with big grins on their faces who go around bragging about having sex with eachother arent having real sex?

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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that depends on what sex is to you. if it's just the physical act, then yes theyre happy. if it's deep meaningful connection that's important to you chances are they are not happy. people who have sex just for the physical aspect of it are afraid. it's just like a baby being attached to a blanket, strictly for security. everyone is afraid to die alone, little do they no that no one dies any other way.

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #2]
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I already know that Ill die alone, accept that Ill die alone and realize that the only one who can truly love me the way I want to be loved is myself.

It's all cliche that Ive heard/thought/said 1000 times.

Id prefer a deep meaningful connection but feel that no one even wants that with me, no matter how much I try to go out on a limb and put myself out there.

I dont even know why this is important to me, ya know? It's a deep animalistic subconscious thing. Im afraid that my time is running short and I feel like passing on my seed even if there is a god that wants me out of the gene pool.

I want to be able to be honest with myself and others always. I want that freedom that others seem to have.

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Anonymous #2 said:
meh sex isnt a big deal anyway.


:ilold:

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Have you tried getting them drunk?

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #4]
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1st date shes a hussy 2nd date shes fussy a kiss on the third date she boo py sheboopy..

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #5]
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that sucked

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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You sound like a pussy. Girls want dicks, not pussies. Don't be such a faggot.

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous one is Poid.

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Why don't you ask the people you're trying to be sexually involved with?

It probably has something to do with your age and your tactics though.

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #7]
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Anonymous #6 said:
You sound like a pussy. Girls want dicks, not pussies. Don't be such a faggot.


Okay, so how do I do this? Do I just start dicking everyone over? Pop testosterone supplements? Kill myself and hope to get reincarnated into someone manlier? I never wanted to be the scrawny little bitch that I am. I wanted to grow up to be a tough manly man but it just didnt pan out that way. I wasnt raised right I guess. How do I rewire myself?


Anonymous #7 said:
Why don't you ask the people you're trying to be sexually involved with?

It probably has something to do with your age and your tactics though.


Im in my mid 20s. I tried being myself and that didnt work. Tried being someone else and that didnt work either. Tried being dominant/forceful and that didnt work. Tried being passive and accommodating and that didnt work out either.
Im afraid if I asked them Id put them off even more, but Ill try that anyway and say fuck it.

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Just focus on yourself.  Build yourself up and be mentally strong.  Moreover, if you're concerned about being "scrawny" then work out - ya dig?  I don't really think it's that big of a deal really.  I'm 6'0 and 140 pounds and get laid.  Anyhow, once you focus on yourself and find what YOU want, girls will see that and be attracted.  Until then, girls will be able to bend you to their whim, get bored, and move on.  All things good come in time buddy.  If you come off as desperate they will see that.  That's why you just gotta care about yourself.  If they wanna go, they wanna go.  Simple as that.  :goodluck:

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #8]
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Ive been trying that. I seem to work out much more than any of my friends and yet they still are much bigger than I am. My muscles dont grow big, they grow lean and tight. Im not sure why. I can work out everyday for a year and yet my friend who works out maybe once every other week is still stronger than I am. I am worried that I have some sorta muscular atrophy or something and my body eats itself.

The problem with focusing on what I want is that I want a girl and by focusing on that I come off as desperate and they sense it.
How do I find something else that I want? The only other thing I want is drugs and I have plenty of those. All I want is drugs and girls. I dont care much about anything else.

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Re: No one seems sexually interested in me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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well maybe thats the reason you have the testosterone levels of a pre-pubecent girl that listens to n'sync, you deserve nothing and yet you want everything...

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