thegatewaydrug said:

wuts atm mean? at the moment???

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rogue_pixie said:

I resent that "they're just internet girls" and wouldn't be so quick to disregard them like that. Although I suppose it depends how you view the internet and how much and how regularly you talk to them I suppose. A lot of deep and meaningful relationships/bonds/connections can be forged via talking over the internet, I believe. It's a really excellent way of getting to know someone extremely well because there is none of the initial inhibitions and stuff that you get when you're in the presence of somebody. Nothing to distract you with, just two minds connecting...

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DRTMaverick said:

rogue_pixie said:

I resent that "they're just internet girls" and wouldn't be so quick to disregard them like that. Although I suppose it depends how you view the internet and how much and how regularly you talk to them I suppose. A lot of deep and meaningful relationships/bonds/connections can be forged via talking over the internet, I believe. It's a really excellent way of getting to know someone extremely well because there is none of the initial inhibitions and stuff that you get when you're in the presence of somebody. Nothing to distract you with, just two minds connecting...

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but it's true. Just as a guy over the Internet is just some dude on the Internet it tends to be the same for women. And forging relationships over the Internet is a at best a cruel joke to you and the other party involved.  You have to meet up and become physically aquainted (a date or even just coffee) to truly judge who someone is.
Think of it this way, who you are on the Internet is raw ego. Being that it's ego insecurities change vastly and the ability to cover them up is abundant in the world od anonymity. If there's an aspect of you that you or the other person doesn't like you can easily phase it out with text, however you're still the same person in real life. It's a deceitful fabrication of who you want to be, covering only the aspects of how you want to be seen.

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nice1 said:

All relationships I have ever seen have been deceitful fabrications.

All of my relationships that lasted more than a week had to be deceitful fabrications.


Girls just aren't happy dating a normal person.  You have to fake all this personality, charisma etc etc else they leave, fast.

Its like a job interview.  You have to amplify and sell your personality.  Then a few months down the line you both realise who the real person behind that is and you may not like them as much as you'd hoped.

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goobler said:

yes, yes you are


do them both


ATM

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