jesus christ there are so many of these posts with you guys getting to an older age and not having sex. you honestly are making a massively big deal of it. i guess its harder in america because of the silly 21 age minimum for alcohol - alcohol has led to a fair few of my sexual encounters haha
step one - identify girl with come to bed eyes. this is a very obvious trait. her eyes will travel to your cock immediately after assessing if your face is good enough(or you could go for a girl with low self esteem if ur a bit of a turd)
step two - buy girl a drink (or something :S) chat. if you really cant think of stuff then well thats a concern. i mean chat about ANYTHING. except sport. music is ok. nothing too deep obviously.
step three - go in for kiss. if theres any turning away and stuff, cut ur losses and get out of there. and move to another girl
step 4 (dependent on step 3) invite her back somewhere (preferably not a budget hotel - i have quite low self esteem but even i didnt go for that...)
dont be agressive tho - be assertively confident. perhaps a tiny bit arrogant but not too much. guys that are all macho a girl might fuck once. and then laugh about the size of his penis in relation to his ego after...poor way to start your reputation
i personally wouldnt want to fuck a virgin guy unless i properly liked him becuase id worry about the consequences; ive known some virgin guys get really clingy and altho that doesnt seem to be u haha, id be worried (bless me, clearly an unfounded worry!) that i mgith hurt his feelings if i just fucked off in the morning
if all else fails prostitutes are available in all good towns.
if even that fails go to amsterdam
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