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Need advice on how to break the ice with girls?
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I have been noticing lately that girls are often staring at me, but unless I am drunk at a party, I find breaking the ice to be tricky.  Some examples of situations-

If I am at a party and I see a girl staring at me, would it be a good idea just to say anything I can think of like -"nice party" :confused:?

In college I get these situations too, but the problem is that there really is no easy way to break the ice because college isn't a party type setting and it's hard to come up with an excuse to say something to a girl that is across the room :confused:

Help me my friends. I feel like I have so much potential to get with many hot girls, but find myself confused as to how to start conversation.

Maybe just asking a girl simply and straight forward- "you wanna hang out" or "you wanna go out for a drink later"

Is the way to do it?    :yinyang:

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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You don't have to think of some excuse to say something. "Nice party" is lame. That might get a nod followed by an awkward silence and maybe some forced conversation.

Just go say hi. Say something random. Be more INTERESTING than some lame guy that can't think of anything other than "nice party."
At the very most that'll get you some drunk girl to fuck. If you're lucky.
Don't think about it so much. Just be yourself.

It's not that hard, I promise.
As a girl...I'd rather talk to some guy that randomly comes up to me and starts making conversation about something worth talking about than someone who awkwardly says "nice party"

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #2]
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word.  that is why I was thinking that is a bad idea. Maybe I just need to think of conversations to start

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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I'm... by no means an expert with girls, but lately I've just been more talkative in general. The impression that I've gotten is it really doesn't matter what you start with. If it's going to go somewhere it likely will. Something will come to mind or either she'll lead it somewhere. If she's turned off by the first thing you say, unless it's obviously just dumb, then it probably wouldn't have gone anywhere to begin with and you've just saved yourself some time.

I too have problems with this though. I can hold a conversation fairly well, but I never know what to say, so I am interested in other replies here.

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Open with something witty and slightly offensive (nothing overboard) that takes notice of something about her: "So are those blonde streaks in your hair natural or did you get hit by lightning on your way in?" or "Eww, what are you drinking, mud? You must be pretty dirty." If she responds with a shot to the arm or something similar then keep it up, gradually transitioning from jokes to actual conversation.

Or, If thats not your style

Start with an open ended question: "What do you think of so and so..?" or "So whats your favorite drink?" Anything that cant be answered in a single word. This will force her to respond to you and make it look like you are interested in what she is saying.

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #4]
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"Soo uhh, bet you've never met a guy with a cock as huge as mine."

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Pussy on a pedastool!

There humans too, just bring up small talk like you would with any other person.  TV, News sienfeld subjects.  Stuff most people can relate too.

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #7]
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To break the ice I usually just say hey, then go on into whatever I'm thinking about. Lol.

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #8]
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Ask them straight up, "Hey excuse me have you ever had ice in your ass & pussy?" If they don't call for the police, you're in.

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #7]
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I can make you moan:)

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #7]
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So can a nice sturdy cock, slowly being inserted in your vagina.  Then slowly touching your breasts as i speed up to a good rythm whilst gently kissing you.  My cock inside you feels amazing! HAHAHAHA

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #6]
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be a dick

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #10]
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If they're in college just ask what they're major is or what they want to major in or something and go on from there. IME womenz like to talk about themselves.

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #11]
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If it's in college, you could always say "im sorry to bother you, but you seem familiar. are you in one of my classes maybe?" then start talking about classes nad school.

thats always a great ice breaker, "you seem familiar"

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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OP, one of my favorites for when you catch a girl eyeing you, is to wait a couple minutes, play it cool, look like you're having fun, and then walk over to her and say, "Are you shy?" she'll normally ask why you'd think that. tell her, "'cause i've been standing there for 10 minutes and you never came over."

they'll laugh, they'll get a non-threatening sexual vibe (no friends-zone), and you can go wherever you want from there. works 80-90% of the time.

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #12]
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in my experience that approach works 60% of the time ALL THE TIME if u catch my drift :brow:

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #12]
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Anonymous #12 said:
OP, one of my favorites for when you catch a girl eyeing you, is to wait a couple minutes, play it cool, look like you're having fun, and then walk over to her and say, "Are you shy?" she'll normally ask why you'd think that. tell her, "'cause i've been standing there for 10 minutes and you never came over."

they'll laugh, they'll get a non-threatening sexual vibe (no friends-zone), and you can go wherever you want from there. works 80-90% of the time.




haha that is genius. I will keep that line in my cell phone. :omgawesome:  I gotta start practicing being less self conscious and that line will be brilliant

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Re: Need advice on how to break the ice with girls? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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I always go with the "Hey, do you like stuff?" It works as an awkward teenager!

Actually, I tend not to talk to girls unless I can think of something relevant (in the "I'm trying to pick a girl up" kind of way, not common social stuff). It's kind of a "if I don't have anything to say, I'd rather not try to force it" kind of situation. I find when I try to force something, I always feel like a dork after because I realize that I sounded forced. But if I actually have something to say that interests me, I find it much easier. I think I'm just not a pick up kind of guy.

It doesn't hurt when the girl makes the first move, too. :thumbup:

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