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serous life twist
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ok so i've been living with my girlfriend for the last four years, we have a lot of nice stuff in our house that we have bought together, i pretty much have no close friends, and no family near me.

my girlfreind always says 'it's over' when we have a fight, and most times it's sorta hard to believe because she says it so much. except this time i think she actually means it. she said that she has been thinking of being with other people.

i just don't know what the fuck to do, i still want to be with her, but at the same time, what's the point if she doesn't feel the same.

first thing that came to mind when she said that was to kill her, or myself, but i don't think i could do that.

i'm stuck here, and it's killing me.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Do you love her? Does she love you?

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Sounds like she just really wants out.  Why else would she leap to, "it's over" everytime you guys have a fight?!  Now she is telling you point blank that she isn't happy in the relationship and wants to be with other people. 

Be a big man and just let her go peacefully.  You'll have to decide who gets what.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #2]
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fuck yeah i love her. and she says she loves me, but apparrently it isn't enough. i thought love was supposed to conquer all?

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #1]
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i don't care if she gets everything, i could leave with nothing, i'm not that sort of person.

my problem is, i have nowhere to go.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #1]
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She definitely sounds childish, if that's how all of your fights end. If she wants to go, you can't stop her.
I think the best thing you can is to be completely upfront about how you feel and ask her to make a decision. She can't toy with you like you're a puppet, dropping hints of other partners like that. Get everything out on the table, I'm sure you'll feel better for it.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #2]
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but, this is the thing, we are renting a house off her mum, so if anyone leaves, it will be me.
i cannot afford a place of my own on my income, and i am paying off a car that her dad went garentour (or however you spell it) for me.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
i thought love was supposed to conquer all?



Don't believe that.  :shrug:

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #3]
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vagina is the devil.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #4]
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the chick i was last with would always say it too. she has bpd and we were trying to get it in check, but shes nuts. so lately when she says it im just whatever....then she gets pissed cuz of how i care so little. its a tactic shes learned over the years and even when she point blank knows it, it goes right back into it. i do love her, though not at the expense of myself any longer.

does your girl have any emotional problems like bipolar or borderline personality (personality disorders)? is she getting treatment and taking meds? do you suspect something but she hasnt been diagnosed?

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
ok so i've been living with my girlfriend for the last four years, we have a lot of nice stuff in our house that we have bought together, i pretty much have no close friends, and no family near me.

my girlfreind always says 'it's over' when we have a fight, and most times it's sorta hard to believe because she says it so much. except this time i think she actually means it. she said that she has been thinking of being with other people.

i just don't know what the fuck to do, i still want to be with her, but at the same time, what's the point if she doesn't feel the same.

first thing that came to mind when she said that was to kill her, or myself, but i don't think i could do that.

i'm stuck here, and it's killing me.



I don't mean to be insensitive, but get a life of your own.  Be single for a while, you need it.  Don't get involved with someone else until your own life by itself is enough.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #6]
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yeah, break up with her the next time she says its over. srsly. pack up all your shit, tell her you're going to go return some video tapes, and that she is just not terribly important to you anymore. quit your job and find a better one, it'll be fun.

when you meet new people you can make up a new name and fake a back-story, you can be one of those cool people who have a double life. you could even dye your hair and totally change your appearance.

thats my plan, well, that and faking my death.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #7]
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Seriously dude sometimes I feel the same way. The bf never says its over but when we fight he always has to have the last word and he always trys to prove to me that he has it worse! I feel like leaving sometimes but then he pays for all the apt and ultilitiesw and shit and I'm like flat broke so I tip toe not to fight because I know I can't win. I can't even feel bad about myself or anything for that matter because I will never have it as bad as he did! I know I'd be in a totally different place if we'd never started dating but I also think I might have tried to off myself if he hadn't been there for me a few times. I have low self-esteem to boot so none of this helps!

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
first thing that came to mind when she said that was to kill her, or myself, but i don't think i could do that.



Thats fucked dude.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Yeah, I thought so as well. I wondered for awhile if this was a joke or not because of that. How that can be the first thought in any sane person's head is beyond me.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Yes, a murder-suicide will solve all your problems.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #10]
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it really would.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #11]
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Fuck her mom and grandma before you take off.

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Re: serous life twist [Re: Anonymous #1]
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You can either get the fuck out of there, or stay become dillusional that she loves you and in denial about the fact she fucking the guy with a ten pound cock who works with her.

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