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Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues
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The anonymity of the internet has my back, and behind it I want to confide in some thing that I refrain from saying in real life. When will I ever find a woman who shares my passion for music and discussion.

For instance, the girl I am dating right now Crissy, she's alright. She is a real history buff, which I kind of dig. She drops anecdotes about WWII and Winston Churchill on me like all the time. Been seeing her since the first week of January. I'll spend on average, 3-5 days a week with her. Going out is usually fun, but then theres days where she will bum at my place all day long and I just am repulsed by her. After a long day spent with her I ultimately realize that shit, she doesn't know a goddamn thing about music.

Since high school been looking for a woman I could relate to in that passion for music. And I have been looking. The women in my music classes at school are deceptively dumb and really don't apreciate anything. Tried concerts, hooked up with a hippie girl once at a Ratdog lot/show. Found in my experience of a lifetime worth of Dark Star Orchestra and Phil Lesh or Ratdog shows that most of these women (not all) are moreso interested in the scene.

Its just getting tiring looking and keeping optimistic. I want nothing more then a girl whom I could get stoned with and listen to Stravinsky on full volume, or who'd accompany me to a Philadelphia Orchestral show, or who could maintain a discussion with me on music. Honestly, if I met a woman and had a thorough conversation about maybe the Grateful Dead or Radiohead; I would be lovestruck.

Sometimes I feel insane, like I hear music differently then other people. I know this is not the case, but I don't know anyone personally who listens in the fashion I do. Hours a day with headphones on. Constantly searching for new music. It is one of my favorite 'hobbies' to just put an album on and absorb it. Experience every instrument and apreciate it. Maybe I am insane, and if I am its something I wouldn't attempt to correct.

But back to what I was saying; these women man. I take em out, I spend my hard earned money, I pretend to enjoy listening to what they have to say (partially true- most of the stories these girls I know will tell are just painful), you know the deal. But I am never going to be happy till I find someone who feels as passionately about music as me. Someone whom I could stay up with, drinking coffee, and talking about music and the arts.

I realize I am being unrealistic, the hypothetical above is not something I ever envision happening but merely a situation that kind of capsizes it. If I could find a middle ground with a woman, I'd be happy, just someone who apreciates sound as I do.

But it is just more of the same, women, some interesting, some uninteresting, some smart and some dull; but none of them nearly as INTO music/arts as me.

Maybe i am just in my own world, I could be crazy

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: Fredrock]
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Maybe its because you come off as a little snobby?

because no one listens to music like you do. Nothing worse than a music snob.

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: Fredrock]
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You'll find her eventually.

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: Irdamage]
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Irdamage said:
Maybe its because you come off as a little snobby?

because no one listens to music like you do. Nothing worse than a music snob.


Read the sentence after the one your referencing,

How is it snobby if it is something I have never told anyone?

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: Fredrock]
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Fredrock said:
Sometimes I feel insane, like I hear music differently then other people. I know this is not the case, but I don't know anyone personally who listens in the fashion I do. Hours a day with headphones on. Constantly searching for new music. It is one of my favorite 'hobbies' to just put an album on and absorb it. Experience every instrument and apreciate it. Maybe I am insane, and if I am its something I wouldn't attempt to correct.


I'm in the same boat brother. If you find her, tell her sister to come walking my way. Lately I have been absolutely dying for a girl to have in-depth conversations with, who are in touch with themselves and understand that life ain't so bad, life is beautiful.

Keep looking, theres one out there, theres got to be


As for the music listening: I find myself thinking these all the time when with friends. I will be in complete awe of what is going on and how beautiful a song is and it seems that nobody around me appreciates or even HEARS the beauty.
Sometimes I say to myself "too bad for them" but most of the time I wish I could share the bliss that that guitar solo brought me into with someone who appreciates it.

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: Fredrock]
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stop sweating not finding that "right woman." just put your wonder stick inside as many meat caves as you can until you find one you want to pookie with every night. god bless being single, enjoy the carefree lifestyle. embrace it for what it is nigga.

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: adrug]
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adrug said:
You'll find her eventually.


I believe in that ..

things will get better as time goes by ...
I am lso currently looking for "her"
I'm getting closer every day ...more and more contact with females is the key :grin:


being single is/can be great but it gets old and boring after a while ..


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Been you to have any spike, man?.

Edited by RandomHero (03/04/08 10:22 PM)

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: Fredrock]
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It sounds snobby because it seems as though your implying your opinion and even method of listening to music is so much more sophisticated than the women you seem to find. Just because you don't say it to people out loud doesn't mean its not an arrogant state of mind.

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: Fredrock]
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even if/when you find her, it doesn't mean she'll be yours/''/


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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: demiu5]
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demius said:
even if/when you find her, it doesn't mean she'll be yours/''/


oooh i know man, ive found her.  But i cant have her, ive been hanging out with the girl every day since i met her about a month ago.  More than her boy friend.  Shes from Saudi Arabia very inteligent and we talk all day.  But shes gots a boy friend! I guess ill just wait my time.  But i kind of want him to break that shit in man, cause ive never had a virgin girl before. But anyway.. keep on trucking op! :goodluck:

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: demiu5]
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omg, lol, Phil Lesh, Radiohead?  :rofl2:

You ever consider that others may have better taste in music than you do?

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: demiu5]
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There's nothing wrong with trying to find that perfect woman.

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: Fredrock]
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Fredrock said:
I just am repulsed by her.


why exactly?


Quote:
she doesn't know a goddamn thing about music.


havent you thought about being the one to make that
introduction, her being a history buff it would tie in
quite well with what she;s learning now


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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: Fredrock]
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Quote:
I realize I am being unrealistic,.....


Then why did you even bother with this post if you KNOW you are being unrealistic in your search for a mate???

You're probably never going to find a partner with the same hobby as you.....deal with it.


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Live for the moment you are in now
Don't be bogged down by your past
Don't be afraid of what lies in your future

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: niteowl]
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it's not hard to share your hobbies and interest with
someone, and it's not difficult to hear about someone elses


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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: Prisoner#1]
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True.

I got my wife interested in astronomy. If I had waited to find a woman who was into astronomy and shunned all others.....I'd still be single.


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Live for the moment you are in now
Don't be bogged down by your past
Don't be afraid of what lies in your future

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: niteowl]
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what have you taken an interest in that she does?


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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: niteowl]
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beside the sex for money thing :smirk:


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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: Prisoner#1]
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Quote:
what have you taken an interest in that she does?


I help her with her sewing from time to time, but she really has no hobbies to speak of other than sewing (which she got into while we were married).

Her biggest "hobby" would be watching/buying movies.


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Live for the moment you are in now
Don't be bogged down by your past
Don't be afraid of what lies in your future

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Re: Worried I'll never find the right woman... got dem blues [Re: niteowl]
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buy her a table saw... or a wood lathe


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