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Getting Married, have a question
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Hi, I'm getting married soon, but here's the situation... my girlfriend and I are going to get married in a private ceremony and we're not going to tell anyone for about 3 years till we graduate college, then have a regular ceremony and pretend like that's it. Does anyone know of any legal aspect that owuld casue this to shit in our faces, we're both legal age so that shouldnt' a problem. But does anyone konw of a legal aspect that would casue this to become known before we're ready for it to be. Thanks a ton!

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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: doubledog2]
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I believe you would have to actually renew your vowes. After being married unless your divorced you can't marry the person your already married to. Just let the preacher/minister that does the 2nd ceremony what is going on.

I could be wrong but I believe I am correct.

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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: doubledog2]
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Why are you hiding it in the first place? Are you embarassed?


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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: daimyo]
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No, neither of us are embarrassed, it has to due with family issues, and need to be resolved, and will be, over time.

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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: doubledog2]
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Just tell your family to go fuck themselves... what are they going to do? Stop you from getting married... ridiculous.


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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: doubledog2]
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My opinion is just wait till you are done school, alot can change in three years

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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: doubledog2]
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yea, you should wait until you graduate to get married. ZirRrRRRrP!!

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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: Noetical]
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noeticbuzz said:
My opinion is just wait till you are done school, alot can change in three years



ideally, truth. at the very least, if you go through with this, be up front with ya family, straight up. no need to hide something like this

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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: doubledog2]
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Several.

If one of you is incapacitated (accident, etc), the other has legal guardianship over the other. Hell of a way to have your folks find out you tied the knot. It could make a stressful situation worse.

Tax season. If you're married, neither of your parents could claim you as a deduction if they are doing so now. If they do, and get audited...

If your wife finds herself in a family way....could get real ugly. This isn't meant to stir up pro or anti abortion rhetoric, but have you considered the ramifications either way? One can be exceedingly cautious, and still have an accident...

Credit ratings. If you're both in college, and one or either of you have problems meeting your obligations things could get rough for the next 7 years. If you stay single until after college, even if one of you screwes up your rating, the other can help carry things through on getting a car loan, apartment, home purchase etc.

Just something to think about


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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: doubledog2]
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why get married?, people stay together for decades without a stupid marriage.. just stay together, and pretend you are, without the vows.

Edited by skunk78395 (10/25/05 12:16 AM)

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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: Skunk420]
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Boooooorrrring.  Pretend to be monogamous :evil:


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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: daimyo]
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just pretend to be married, is what I meant, if you pretend to be manogamous then you are cheating on each other...

Edited by skunk78395 (10/25/05 01:42 AM)

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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: Skunk420]
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what skunk said

what is the fucking point

ill tell you what the fucking point is, you sign a marriage certificate which gives the governments a bunch of rights over you. such as ownership of your kids. dont be a dumbass... fuck marriage.

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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: doubledog2]
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Why must you be married? You're really just paying a priest to sanctify your sex life. I say forget marriage until you're ready to do it in front of everyone.






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Re: Getting Married, have a question [Re: faslimy]
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faslimy said:
what skunk said

what is the fucking point

ill tell you what the fucking point is, you sign a marriage certificate which gives the governments a bunch of rights over you. such as ownership of your kids. dont be a dumbass... fuck marriage.



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