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Silversoul
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Is it wrong...
#4155314 - 05/09/05 10:17 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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To hook up with a girl who you know has a boyfriend? I mean, it's her that's cheating and not you, right? Do you have any kind of responsibility not to get involved with someone who's in a relationship?
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Muppet
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155321 - 05/09/05 10:19 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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I think *technically* it is
but that's just a technicality :shrugs:
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PawPaw
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155349 - 05/09/05 10:26 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Damn dude quit analizing shit so much... You know there are some humans who shouldnt pro-create Join a priesthood
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EvilEwok
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: PawPaw]
#4155380 - 05/09/05 10:33 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Tell her to break it off with her current boyfriend if she's serious.
If she's hesitant be wary... unless you just wanna hit it no strings attached then who gives a fuck.
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Vampire999
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: EvilEwok]
#4155403 - 05/09/05 10:39 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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if you plan on trying to date her don't... it will be just as easy for her to do it again.
People who require meeting someone else before breaking something off are afraid to be alone. Which to me is a huge character flaw and weakness.
I cant see this situation leading to anything but possible trouble.
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155407 - 05/09/05 10:39 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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yeah, I don't think I'd do that if I knew.
you're just being an enabler
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Silversoul
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155408 - 05/09/05 10:39 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Just to be clear: I'm not talking about getting serious. I'm just asking if it's wrong.
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155413 - 05/09/05 10:41 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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I agree with what Shroomery member number 104692, Muppet as stated.
The buddha wouldn't do it. As long as it's not a friend, I would probably do it, unfortunately.
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155416 - 05/09/05 10:41 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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I agree with him.. although not your responsobility. If you can help someone by not presenting them with a situation to fuck up.. that cant be a bad thing to do.
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155428 - 05/09/05 10:45 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Is there an issue here?
As long as he doesn't find out you're cool. So just hit it a few times and then pretend like you don't know her
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155439 - 05/09/05 10:48 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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I don't think it's wrong. She would probably just end up cheating on him w/ someone else. The problem is you may end up in a sticky situation if he finds out. Just don't get serious w/ her and you'll be fine... seriously... that'd be a fatal error
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: mantis]
#4155496 - 05/09/05 11:06 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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"just do it"
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: danlennon3]
#4155525 - 05/09/05 11:15 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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yah fuck her...
make her yours..
just be ready to be played the same way some day.
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155701 - 05/10/05 12:04 AM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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yeahh ive been thinkin bout this one recently. the way I look at it, I'm not gonna let his opinion infringe on my good times. It's her decision and despite the fact that I'll likely have to deal with the repurcussions should it leak out, it's fully worth the risk. it does vary from situation to situation slightly tho, like don't screw around if her boyfriend's an agressive axe-weilder. If the dude's a friend i wouldn't touch it tho.
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155780 - 05/10/05 12:23 AM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quit second guessing yourself... Do what you feel for a change Never listen to me bitch..*shakes head
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Silversoul
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: PawPaw]
#4155798 - 05/10/05 12:28 AM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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I already did what I feel. I'm just wondering if I should be feeling guilty about it.
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PawPaw
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155841 - 05/10/05 12:39 AM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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What do you feel? what you feel is what matters dude Damn if i second guessed everything in my life then id be so confused that i wouldnt ever have had a life Did you get laid? if you did then why the guilt? Dont ever feel guilty about being human...damn im tired. nitey nite SS7 If it makes you feel better im still trying to figure this life out also
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: Silversoul]
#4155867 - 05/10/05 12:45 AM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
Paradigm said: I already did what I feel. I'm just wondering if I should be feeling guilty about it.
You gotta answer that yourself...tell us what you think dude
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Silversoul
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: PawPaw]
#4155889 - 05/10/05 12:49 AM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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No, I didn't get laid. We just made out. But what really has me torn is that while that part already happened, I might have a chance to hit it this weekend. I'm probably gonna do it, but I can't help but think that by doing this, I'm tacitly condoning cheating, and I worry about karma coming back to haunt me. You're right, I do overanalyze things, but in the past, following my heart has got me in some fucked up situations. Oh well. It's been a long time since I've gotten laid, so I'll just do it and worry about the ethical implications later. I'm sick of being Mr. Nice Guy.
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Re: Is it wrong... [Re: PawPaw]
#4155891 - 05/10/05 12:50 AM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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is it how you would want to be treated if you were the BF?
i think not
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