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cadam
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best way to get over a break up
#3608748 - 01/10/05 04:17 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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anyone want to give me some advice on breaking up with someone you love? my girl left me a while ago for someone else due to the fact i was to paranoid blah blah, we started speaking again about 3 months after and decided to try again, but now she just told me she is bored and wants to have sex with other guys, i'm heart broken and i just don't know what to do, how can someone be so cruel
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franco_on
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: cadam]
#3608788 - 01/10/05 04:27 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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well you know.... women, Can't live with them, can't kill them, damn federal laws,
Have a beer, find another women for the night, and if u can't find a free sex site. If she truely was 'I want to have sex with other people' then she wasn't really into you and you don't deserve to do this to yourself. Cannot give you any advice to kill pain but I can say the sooner you realize that you can go on and she is a bitch, the sooner you will feel better.
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cadam
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: franco_on]
#3608808 - 01/10/05 04:31 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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cheers, durring our 1st break up ( bout 2 months after) was the 1st time i tried shrooms lol but i got over her, to be honest i just realized that i will be over her alot easier than before, your right she aint worth it, duno bout the beer though, got none left lol
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: cadam]
#3608839 - 01/10/05 04:38 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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my father always told me: a girl may be the apple of your eye, but if you find out she doesnt like you, shes not the apple of your eye anymore, now is she?
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drowneduck
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: cadam]
#3608844 - 01/10/05 04:40 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Best thing to do is jump in the car, stick on L Skinards Freebird or Fl Macs Rumours full blast and forget her. If she dont want you, theres nothing you can do, so why try?There will be others who do. A broken heart dont feel so bad,you aint got half of what you thought you had.
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: cadam]
#3608883 - 01/10/05 04:49 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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cry your fucking guts out. cry and feel sorry for yourself until you completely exhaust your body's ability to create tears or the emotions that make them fall. then go to sleep. repeat as necessary. remember all the good experiences you two had and how they will never come again. Do this until you become totally numb. When you meet a cool hot chick just remember that she is not for you because you are flawed and these flaws are the reason you are and will be alone for a very long time. sulk! ride the sorrow! self pity leads to freedom! say: "i am a totally pathetic individual" until something else tells you otherwise. hope that helps have a nice day. .
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: drowneduck]
#3608909 - 01/10/05 04:55 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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drowneduck said: Best thing to do is jump in the car, stick on L Skinards Freebird or Fl Macs Rumours full blast and forget her. If she dont want you, theres nothing you can do, so why try?There will be others who do. A broken heart dont feel so bad,you aint got half of what you thought you had.
That has got to be the most smartest thing i have heard/read all week.. cheers to you duck!
Heartbreak is tough, but at least you have prior experience with the same woman. stay strong bro, better things are sure to come. It just takes time.
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: cadam]
#3609033 - 01/10/05 05:17 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Just imagine her on the toilet, its only a short term solution, but when your thoughts start drifting her way, just give it another think over
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: Mushie_Man]
#3609045 - 01/10/05 05:23 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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what if he's in to that sort of thing? really though, forget the bitch, she doesn't sound like she's worth the energy it takes to be upset. light up a joint, put on some sad music, and just think about it for a night. then the next night go out and get laid! time heals all wounds my friend...in the meantime, just imagine her on the toilet
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: Hendostan]
#3609101 - 01/10/05 05:38 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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forget the bitch, she doesn't sound like she's worth the energy it takes to be upset. light up a joint, put on some sad music, and just think about it for a night. then the next night go out and get laid! time heals all wounds my friend...in the meantime, just imagine her on the toilet
This is amazing advice, I advise you heed it.
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: cadam]
#3609118 - 01/10/05 05:43 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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2 Words....grudge fuck
Seriously though, the actual answer to your delima is the most over-used and trite expression...which just happens to be 100% true...
'Time heals all wounds.'
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cadam
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: Adamist]
#3609138 - 01/10/05 05:47 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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nice advice about the toulet dude!! thanks everyone, but it gets worse, she just spent the last 10 mins on the phoine to my best mate asking him to meet her for sex and saying dont tell me etc etc (i said to her go for it coz my mate wouldnt hide nothing, obviously she thinks different), during the confersation he rung me and let me lsiten! if she is serious about meeting him then all i can say is she is going to be trapped in a corner and shall have some sort of paint thrown at her, a big 5 litre one. funny thoguh after she called him she called me about 15 mins lata sayin she was sorry etc about what she said. note she doesnt know that i know she spoke to my best mate, i think that was wot she was trying to do, anyways theres a few thing possible, she is a complete slag and wants to make me jealous by fukin my mate and ruin my relationship with him, 2 she wont fuk him its all talkand she wants to ruin our relationship (mine and my mates)...............well she is guna loose stupid fukin bitch, its funny how the ppl we think we love the most do things to hurt us, hey i must say this
i love all u at shroomery :0)
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: cadam]
#3609608 - 01/10/05 07:32 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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the way i see it, you have two options now: double-team her with your friend... or you could hide in the closet and video tape while they romp blackmail is also a good way to get over a relationship
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: Hendostan]
#3609612 - 01/10/05 07:33 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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don't do that for real though... this girl sounds like bad news, you should stay away from her at all costs
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: cadam]
#3609631 - 01/10/05 07:36 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Don't ask me...the women I have dated, have ended up wanting someone else..and dumping me...maybe we just got bored of each other as well...I have more problems in my life then women right now...I just want casual sex when I can get it for now would be just great!
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: cadam]
#3609750 - 01/10/05 08:04 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Women have shit on me all the time. It feels so great when they leave you for someone else. Specially and not tell you about and it beat around the bush. grrr
Get random pussy or drunk.
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: baraka]
#3609808 - 01/10/05 08:19 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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It feels so great when they leave you for someone else. Specially and not tell you about and it beat around the bush.
That's so fucked up. Why the hell do chicks do that?! I would much prefer it if the girl came out and said, "Randal, I don't want to go out with you anymore. I want to date other people. I'm not happy with you anymore. It's over." instead of fucking LYING and doing shit behind my back. I prize brutal honesty, even if it might be painful to deal with at the moment. Because believe it or not, it averts pain in the long run.
I've never been cheated on, but that is only because I did a preemptive strike and dumped this one bitch before she could(she was making overtures to other guys behind my back). Some fucking bitches are NEVER happy, they need constant attention, and they will manipulate and lie until the day they die.
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: cadam]
#3609954 - 01/10/05 08:50 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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you need to meet/hookup with someone else ASAP rebounds are the key to breakups. but the most important thing to do is forget about her do not call her throw all her shit away do not talk about her if she comes up in conversation, just say say... "fuck that shit...anyways..." and change the topic. no communication whatsoever. cut that shit off.
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: Vvellum]
#3609997 - 01/10/05 09:01 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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Vvellum
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Re: best way to get over a break up [Re: ricochet]
#3610002 - 01/10/05 09:02 PM (19 years, 2 months ago) |
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hell yea ...and get with your guy friends. get a six pack and chill with the people who have your back.
bros before hoes.
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