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Ask him out? or Sit back down?
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I met a guy I am very attracted to and so far like his personality (what I have seen) .
Since we worked together I wasn't going to act on my attraction to him because we worked together.
BUT
I quit my job. NOT because of this... I am moving to another place.
Since I quit, we have been texting. But, not really. He doesn't say much. BUT he has said he wants to show me around town, etc.
I am thinking about asking him to a concert next week. A few things... I normally would dress up. I broke my foot and cant wear cute shoes or heels.. .. Idk what I'll do on dressing up.
I have not dated anyone in awhile... few years.
Am I misinterpeting his few and sparse texts as interest??

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: loladoreen]
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I'd say so. When a man is interested in a woman, his texts are not few or sparse.


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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: Joh.Ke]
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ok.... He texts me good morning and usually a text at night.
We discuss some stuff. But, not alot of texting.
I am misinterpreting
bummer
it is ok.

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: loladoreen] * 3
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Sounds like he's interested to me. Good mornings and goodnights...

What do you have to lose?

Ask him out. If he says yes, you have an awesome plan coming up.
If he says no, at least you gave love a shot and it's always worth confronting your deepest feelings head on.

Go get em :smile:


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Lead by example, words mean little when your actions don't reflect what you say.

Spread kindness, love, empathy, compassion.

Learn from mistakes. Try and do better. Each day is a new day, try to make it a better one.

Coconut and Avocado is awesome for the skin.

MIND OVER MATTER

:mushroom2::lsd:

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: TrancedOutBrah] * 1
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You are right!

What do I have to lose?

I am going to pump myself up and ... ask this week!!

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: loladoreen] * 1
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Nothing to lose.

Everything to gain!

You go girl, hype it up and get it done :thumbup:


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Lead by example, words mean little when your actions don't reflect what you say.

Spread kindness, love, empathy, compassion.

Learn from mistakes. Try and do better. Each day is a new day, try to make it a better one.

Coconut and Avocado is awesome for the skin.

MIND OVER MATTER

:mushroom2::lsd:

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: TrancedOutBrah] * 1
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thank you!!!
I am talking to him now. I am gonna wait to ask him until I know I can go for sure. I need maybe 24 more hours and then I'll ask.
I think it'll be ok. He offered again to take me out.

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: loladoreen] * 1
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That's wonderful. I'll root for ya on the sidelines. Take him up on his offer, go try some new food and see something you've never seen.

:howyoudoing:


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Lead by example, words mean little when your actions don't reflect what you say.

Spread kindness, love, empathy, compassion.

Learn from mistakes. Try and do better. Each day is a new day, try to make it a better one.

Coconut and Avocado is awesome for the skin.

MIND OVER MATTER

:mushroom2::lsd:

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: loladoreen] * 1
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I think I am gonna ask him now.
He just asked me for a picture..
I dont do dirty pics...
i sent a pic of me looking all matronly LOL
omg.. Idk if I know how to date in 2024

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: loladoreen] * 3
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He said yes

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: loladoreen] * 1
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:thumbsup:

Now you can sleep easy tonight. Happy for you.

Something to look forward to!

Don't worry about not knowing how to date anymore lmao... with the right person, the right kind of awkwardness is endearing and something you can both laugh at together with fond memories


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Lead by example, words mean little when your actions don't reflect what you say.

Spread kindness, love, empathy, compassion.

Learn from mistakes. Try and do better. Each day is a new day, try to make it a better one.

Coconut and Avocado is awesome for the skin.

MIND OVER MATTER

:mushroom2::lsd:

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: TrancedOutBrah]
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Yes.

It can be really cute if they are bashful, blushing, stammering a little....etc.  they are telling you how important the date is to them.


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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: loladoreen]
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Awesome! Hope it goes well.
Here is what not to do : (LOL, she's trolling)

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: flugelizor]
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I am never going to get laid


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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: loladoreen] * 1
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loladoreen said:
I met a guy I am very attracted to and so far like his personality (what I have seen) .
Since we worked together I wasn't going to act on my attraction to him because we worked together.
BUT
I quit my job. NOT because of this... I am moving to another place.
Since I quit, we have been texting. But, not really. He doesn't say much. BUT he has said he wants to show me around town, etc.
I am thinking about asking him to a concert next week. A few things... I normally would dress up. I broke my foot and cant wear cute shoes or heels.. .. Idk what I'll do on dressing up.
I have not dated anyone in awhile... few years.
Am I misinterpeting his few and sparse texts as interest??



I think it sounds like a nice arrangement. I would definitely ask about the concert.

The thing is, if he is not interested, it's not a big deal. There's always more of them around, and it might be a good opportunity to meet someone new and develop a connection.

You never know with these things until you try.

As for dressing up, I would just try for an outfit that doesn't require heels or wedges.

Something you can pull off sneakers with.

I like a lot of casual skirt/top combos, because they work with sneakers.

I like my pink vans with my white mini skirt and a pink top.

Congratulations on moving and I hope your leg heals up well dear.

💜🧁💜


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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: Calm_A_Llama_Down]
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Both

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: loladoreen]
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So how'd it go? Did you go out with him yet? Kissy kissy? Smooch? :kiss:


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Lead by example, words mean little when your actions don't reflect what you say.

Spread kindness, love, empathy, compassion.

Learn from mistakes. Try and do better. Each day is a new day, try to make it a better one.

Coconut and Avocado is awesome for the skin.

MIND OVER MATTER

:mushroom2::lsd:

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: TrancedOutBrah]
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Good on asking and good on the reply!  How'd it go?

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Re: Ask him out? or Sit back down? [Re: loladoreen] * 1
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I went out with him twice. First night was really cool. Second night we played basketball. And it was great!!!
Then i went out of town and intentionally didn’t contact him. Went back to normal life. Went to an indigenous day event with my friend.
Everything normal but wasn’t communicating with him.
I finally did and he said he was sick.
I feel like its bullshit
But ????
There were a few big things between us. That could of been deal breakers.
I’m ok with it.
But for that brief time it was exciting to be so attracted to someone!!!!

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