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CounterCulturest
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Re: losing trust over retardedly stupid shit. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18813374 - 09/07/13 10:59 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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CounterCulturest said: Sounds like you want to much of his time and he feels like he has to lie in order to get some space from your crazy ass
If only the answer was that easy. However sound counsel was given by koods and masked. Thanks though!
I wasn't trying to be an ass but I have to do the same shit some time. Lie and say im sick or have a headache etc because if Im straight up and just wanna enjoy my time by myself doin my thing my girl will be on my ass or thinkin " what, you dont wanna spend time with me??" so I gotta lie. I have stood my ground and been honest many a times but then the begging and shit will start and so I just think it easier to lie. I never lie about anything that would hurt her. Whether I have a headache or I wanna chill on the shroomery all night doesn't change the fact that she is alone with the pup for the night.
You sure that isn't how it is with you and your man ?
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Absolutely. To be honest im constantly on him to go off with friends an do his thing but hed rather stay home and read or play videogames. Him and I actually work opposite schedules so we usually only see each other 1 or 2 days a week. Hes lying about what hes doing during times hes on his own.
I know the types of scenarios your talking about where its overexposure an you just want me time. This is different. Hes literally lying about stupid stuff because he starts imagining a far from reality reaction ill have.
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CounterCulturest
-Positive Mental Attitude-

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Loc: Nesting on modems
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Re: losing trust over retardedly stupid shit. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18813427 - 09/07/13 11:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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huh. weird. how often does it happen ? does he lie about other things/ people ?
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In 2 years ive caught him 4 times thats without me looking for inconsistent things in stories. As to lying to other people about stupid shit.....yes definitely to his parents all the time. And I knew him when he was dating other guys an I saw him occasionally lie about retarded stuff with them as well. Stuff like "im at the library studying" when hes actually at the gym.
The lies are stupid but to me a lie is a lie period.
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Re: losing trust over retardedly stupid shit. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18813451 - 09/07/13 11:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I just thought that because I wasnt an overbearing possessive bf that those lies wouldnt be an issue. But he seems to be doing it anyways. Trust me it would make more sense if he were cheating, but hes not.
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