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Re: Just found out my partner has cheated on me several times [Re: MadHatter333]
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At least you can admit it. That's a fine fucking quality, and a fine fucking basis for any relationship to start IMO.

I'm fucked up, you're fucked up, maybe we can try and untangle our fuckedupness together, helping each other, and have some fun and great sex along the way?

That's all I ask for at this point.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
--Jac O'keeffe

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Re: Just found out my partner has cheated on me several times [Re: Jokeshopbeard] * 1
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Sounds like a dream come true. So much fucked upness in the world, but also so much good. Sometimes we just get caught up in it all.

The right level of fucked upness will find you someday JSB.

I have faith  :angel:


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Re: Just found out my partner has cheated on me several times [Re: Reblackah]
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She was in the bathroom yesterday locked threatening to call the cops. I busted in with full force breaking the door frame in half. I don’t physically hurt women, but I just wanted to yell in her face. She runs when I get angry. I don’t get angry to often, but when I do it’s full rage...

Only thing is we have to pay rent by tomorrow. We signed the lease last month. I don’t have a job right now, and am just worried how I’m going to afford moving out and moving on while paying for everything. It’s stressful because I still love her and want to make it work.

You’re probably right though I should leave if she’s willing to do all this. I deserve better. What should I do about breaking the lease and moving out? I should have just stuck to the plan of moving out by May 1st. I feel so stupid... didn’t know about all this till after though.


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Re: Just found out my partner has cheated on me several times [Re: MadHatter333]
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Is your landlord a half decent person? I've had a landlord who I opened up to about my personal shit at the time and he let me off easy. It was still expensive of course, as is every move, but he didn't fuck me on the months I legally owed him for breaking the contract too soon. He asked for 2 where I owed him 3. Still felt fucked but still, it helped a bit.

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Re: Just found out my partner has cheated on me several times [Re: Reblackah]
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My landlord is a big company. Pretty sure they just care about money... I already damaged some stuff so that’s going to be more. Plus moving, storage, finding a new place, etc... maybe I just need to stop making excuses and find a solution.

I feel like a idiot for doing all this. I just want to be in a relationship where I feel safe and not so fucked. We’ve had some great times together too. That’s partly what keeps me hanging on.


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Re: Just found out my partner has cheated on me several times [Re: filmoee]
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My mom is passed on. I have my dad, but he doesn’t want me moving back in with him and my step-mom. The friends I do have already said they have to many roommates. I’ve been searching for a job. In the mean time I’m doing uber until I find one. I have about $1,500 in the bank. Got to pay $600 for rent by tomorrow. May just go into the office Monday and see if we can’t get off the leAse.

I’ll be going to the free men’s clinic Tuesday to get tested. If it comes back positive I’m for sure leaving no matter what.


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Re: Just found out my partner has cheated on me several times [Re: Reblackah]
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For sure. I’ll definitely talk with her and figure everything out. I’m sure we can talk to the landlord about it and hopefully they don’t charge us much. Going to start looking for work now and get out of the house.

It burns when I pee, so fuck... wish I could finally find someone who’s 100% faithful, but as shenmue’s video says, “they’re all sluts”...


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Re: Just found out my partner has cheated on me several times [Re: Reblackah] * 1
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Don’t k ow what others are saying
Don’t care
Fuck her id be out lol too many people in the world for you to settle for some girl that can’t even be faithful to you my man

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Re: Just found out my partner has cheated on me several times [Re: Tripsten]
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I’m actually 29, I’ll be 30 next year. She’s 26 now... her mom came to get her to discuss options. She wants to go back with her mom. When she was leaving I got angry and threw a vase of flowers towards her. She ran out the door and hasn’t texted me back since she left.

I talked to my dad and he says that I should have figured this all out before we signed another lease. I wrote my gf/ex/whatever saying we should go for a walk and talk. I’m sure her mom is already telling her to leave me. Go figure...


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At this point, it really sounds like an untenable prospect MH3. I'm in agreement with the Lizman. You don't need this shit in your life, and you can walk with your head held high, knowing that at least you tried.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
--Jac O'keeffe

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Re: Just found out my partner has cheated on me several times [Re: MadHatter333]
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Also you gotta learn to control that anger man, you can't throw shit every time you get pissed or you'll be spending the next few years in jail figuring that out. I've been cheated on, had a little burn in my day too, but you can't let them get the best of you and make you do something you regret later.


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Re: Just found out my partner has cheated on me several times [Re: MadHatter333] * 2
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MadHatter333 said: Either way, I just want to be able to trust her again. The messed up thing is I even offered to be in a open relationship with her at that time because I knew something was going on and I’d rather her be honest about it. I wouldn’t mind trying a polyamorist relationship with her. She said she doesn’t know how she’d feel about me seeing someone else.


You will not be able to trust her again, get the fuck out of there.

She wants polygamy. If you want to be that guy which is one of many you can.

I think it will hurt to leave, yet it will hurt more to let things fester as next time your wounds will hurt even more when they are stepped on.

Do not do this, do not live with this kind of cancer in your life.

The experience will hit you down and it will take building up, but it's better than being dissolved alive by the distrust you will almost certainly fall flat face into if you stay.



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