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Re: What was the reason for your last break up or divorce ? [Re: larry.fisherman]
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XLCaps said:
We fought a lot, how she handled things didn't agree with me and I realized over time we are different people. I broke up with her, she wanted to try to work things out. We did that for a while but I slept around, I felt guilty but it reinforced my feelings of differences and such so I broke it off for good. I don't have any regrets. The relationship wasn't the greatest, I hadn't been in to it for a good while. We were together for 5 years.


Were you in a 5 year relationship with someone else before your wife, or is this your wife you're talking about here?  I'm trying to reconcile this post with stuff you've said about your life, and I keep thinking you're talking about your wife/mother of your kids, but you don't mention a divorce here, so I'm confused.  But I don't want to post what's confusing me because you've obviously left out some info if this is your wife (even though it's all stuff you've posted publicly before, it may not be things you want to discuss again, but I sometimes have a long memory).  I don't mean to pry, just trying to make sense of some things.

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Re: What was the reason for your last break up or divorce ? [Re: Moonshoe] * 1
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Moonshoe said:
Glad you are getting through it man. Must be really hard.

Good job surviving and being strong :hug:

How old were your kids at the time of the divorce?

Was it financially hard on you ?

Thanks so much to everyone who shared so far!

Please keep the stories coming !



Got through it.  Took me close to 2 years to fully heal.  Been almost 2 and half now. 


Hardest thing I've ever went through.

My son was 4 and my daughter was 10 at the time.

Being hit with child support(even tho the arrangement is fairly equal for time) yes, it's been a challenge.  But she was a huge financial drain and I don't feel nearly as stressed about finances as I used to.  She used to fight about finances a lot with me.

Even now, I help financially with things above and beyond.  Anything that I think has a direct effect on my children, I'll help with.  Many people thinks she takes advantage of this and exploits my love for my children, but I don't think so.  And even if she was, I can live with it.  I want to lay on my death bed with no regrets.  Money is so trivial in comparison.    My kids are only young once.  Hopefully they understand one day the sacrifices I've made (emotionally more than anything.  Financially too)


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Re: What was the reason for your last break up or divorce ? [Re: something super extreme]
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How old Are you?

How long were you and your ex together ?

Were you actually married or just dating ?

Did you actually hit her ?

Hopefully that picture in your avatar isn't your ex wife ... :feelsbadman:


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Re: What was the reason for your last break up or divorce ? [Re: Burke Dennings]
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Burke Dennings said:
XLCaps said:
We fought a lot, how she handled things didn't agree with me and I realized over time we are different people. I broke up with her, she wanted to try to work things out. We did that for a while but I slept around, I felt guilty but it reinforced my feelings of differences and such so I broke it off for good. I don't have any regrets. The relationship wasn't the greatest, I hadn't been in to it for a good while. We were together for 5 years.


Were you in a 5 year relationship with someone else before your wife, or is this your wife you're talking about here?  I'm trying to reconcile this post with stuff you've said about your life, and I keep thinking you're talking about your wife/mother of your kids, but you don't mention a divorce here, so I'm confused.  But I don't want to post what's confusing me because you've obviously left out some info if this is your wife (even though it's all stuff you've posted publicly before, it may not be things you want to discuss again, but I sometimes have a long memory).  I don't mean to pry, just trying to make sense of some things.


I was never actually married, I just referred to her as my wife sometimes. I've only had one long, significant relationship in my life so far.

If it's confusing it's because it is. There's a lot to it.

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Re: What was the reason for your last break up or divorce ? [Re: larry.fisherman]
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Me randomly leaving town, sleeping with an ex and ending up in jail. She took me back though, pretty understanding. The 6 month break was good for us we now figure.

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Re: What was the reason for your last break up or divorce ? [Re: larry.fisherman]
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Alright, cool, thanks for clearing that up.  Sorry to hear about the dissolution of your relationship, but you seem happy so I guess it was for the better.  I hope you get a court-ordered custody agreement; even if your relationship with her is amicable, it may not always be so & in the event that things go pear shaped its good to have your situation with the kids legally protected.

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Re: What was the reason for your last break up or divorce ? [Re: Burke Dennings]
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does anyone want to start a betting pool on how long until moonshoe's marriage falls apart in an etizolam induced frenzy


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Re: What was the reason for your last break up or divorce ? [Re: something super extreme]
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Just a few months ago I single-handedly saved his relationship with his mom.  No kidding.  He never even really thanked me.

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Re: What was the reason for your last break up or divorce ? [Re: Burke Dennings]
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well the karmic discharge of shiva's anus is thanks enough brah, don't be sneak dissing karma brah it's hella unshroomy
maybe his thanks will manifest as spiritual energy one day


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Re: What was the reason for your last break up or divorce ? [Re: Moonshoe]
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She set me up. I got hemmed up. They tried to get me to join their team and set up a couple friends. I let them believe whatever they wanted. The next day I told said friends and left the fucking state! I haven't seen her since and she still wont admit to it. She even tried spreading lies about me, slandering my name in the street for damage control. I could smell her fear miles away. She was worried the truth would come out.
I loved her. When you truly love someone, it never fades. They become a part of you and you begin to understand that some people are forced to do some pretty fucked up shit in this life, or have been put through some really fucked up shit. This doesn't change who they truly are inside. They are the ones that have to deal with all the dirt and darkness they've manifested.


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Re: What was the reason for your last break up or divorce ? [Re: PartoftheSource] * 2
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hmmmm


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